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[Indie]

Sassy mentioned the mess…unless I’m misremembering…
And I couldn’t understand that, especially with all that goes on with having kids…

The fear of letting go and whether someone really wants all of it is what holds me back.

But I'm talking about squirting and you're talking about kids, so I don't know if we're on the same page

 

[default24]

The fear of letting go and whether someone really wants all of it is what holds me back.

But I'm talking about squirting and you're talking about kids, so I don't know if we're on the same page

If you're getting covered in cum, then the cummer ought to be ok with squirting. IMO

 

[Photog1rl]

The fear of letting go and whether someone really wants all of it is what holds me back.

But I'm talking about squirting and you're talking about kids, so I don't know if we're on the same page

Well then use your words woman! You did not say oh I squirt and it makes a mess. You said you agreed with sassy and she mentioned a mess. My saying something about having kids is that it is messy af and if you could do that then no mess made during sex should be an issue.

I stand by this too. Good sex should be messy. Invest in towels.

 

[Photog1rl]

If you're getting covered in cum, then the cummer ought to be ok with squirting. IMO

Thank you!

 

[SassySheDevil]

really? Both of you? And it’s the mess that worries you? @SassySheDevil @Indiesoul
But you’ve each had kids…I’m sorry. I’m not trying to shame y’all in any way. I just can not imagine this.
*my mind starts spinning*
So what about other sexual messiness? Does that bother you?

I'm a hypocrite. I want all his mess. But none of mine. But there is a difference. Men's messes aren't mixed with pee.
I think the only way I could ever truly let go would be to be tied up. Part of being able to hold back comes from the positions and the movements. The more I can wiggle around. The easier to hold back. Don't get me wrong. I'd love to experience that. To totally let go. But insecurity stops me.

And my babies came from my belly. Not vaginally Less messy as long as you don't look over the curtain.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Well then use your words woman! You did not say oh I squirt and it makes a mess. You said you agreed with sassy and she mentioned a mess. My saying something about having kids is that, that is a messy af situation and if you could do that then no mess made during sex should be an issue.

I stand by this too. Good sex should be messy. Invest in towels.

That was the mess I was referring to also.

 

[Photog1rl]

I'm a hypocrite. I want all his mess. But none of mine. But there is a difference. Men's messes aren't mixed with pee.
I think the only way I could ever truly let go would be to be tied up. Part of being able to hold back comes from the positions and the movements. The more I can wiggle around. The easier to hold back. Don't get me wrong. I'd love to experience that. To totally let go. But insecurity stops me.

And my babies came from my belly. Not vaginally Less messy as long as you don't look over the curtain.

Hmm. So, I don't squirt(in any kind of huge spray or way I’d be embarrassed about) so I can't comment on that but I also don't “pee” when I orgasm but I can get very wet. It just doesn't bother me. I celebrate it.

Have you tried in the shower or a pool ledge where you might not notice?

 

[SassySheDevil]

Hmm. So, I don't squirt so I can't comment on that but I also don't pee when I orgasm but I get very wet. It just doesn't bother me. I celebrate it.

Have you tried in the shower or a pool ledge where you might not notice?

I cannot orgasm in water. I've tried. On a ledge I'm not sure. It's a in my head thing.
My husband has certainly never kicked me out of bed for squirting during sex, but orally I am just hung up on it.
Regular orgasms don't bother me at all. Give me all those. But if you want to make me squirt. Orally I will hold back.

 

[Indie]

I'm a hypocrite. I want all his mess. But none of mine. But there is a difference. Men's messes aren't mixed with pee.
I think the only way I could ever truly let go would be to be tied up. Part of being able to hold back comes from the positions and the movements. The more I can wiggle around. The easier to hold back. Don't get me wrong. I'd love to experience that. To totally let go. But insecurity stops me.

And my babies came from my belly. Not vaginally Less messy as long as you don't look over the curtain.

OMG Sassy. Remember one time we were talking about this and I accidentally texted my mother-in-law a very detailed response instead of you?!?

 

[Photog1rl]

So, I know this thread is about blow jobs but I’m fascinated...
@Indiesoul and @SassySheDevil can you orgasm without squirting? Yes, right? So is it just a fear of squirting during oral or is that you know you will squirt?
Do you orgasm through penetration or clitoral stimulation or either or both and where does the squirting come in?
And can you control it? My knowledge is limited. I have one friend that squirts, that I know of. It takes a certain kind of stimilation for her to squirt. She also is 100 positive it is not urine. She has never had an issue with squirting during oral sex.
Admittedly I have not clarified if this is because she hasn’t or doesn't squirt during oral sex or if she doesn’t care if she does.

 

[default24]

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That's why you take a shower together afterwards!

 

[ToPleaseHim]

@Photog1rl Add me to the list of women who can’t cum from oral. I can’t relax enough. I’m cool with it, it’s just not gonna happen. I don’t care about the mess (and yeah, I squirt, well I think it’s more like a flood, lol. I don’t always, and I do prefer orgasming without the flood as there’s no wet spot, but I am not able to control it). I’d MUCH rather give than receive when it comes to oral, anyway. I’m down to go down every day.

 

[Photog1rl]

All y'all squirters could make some money in the movies. I've never heard of so many squirting folks. I can feel my release and there is a noticeable difference in consistency and wetness but i’m not squirting on anyone lol

 

[Indie]

I can orgasm without squirting but it's not as... intense? I feel like I'm always holding back so, unless I'm alone, I don't usually let myself go completely. It's not that my husband minds, he's enthusiastically told me the opposite, but it's hard to get past this place in my mind that doesn't want to make a mess each time or be gross. A combination of stimulating my clit and g spot does it for me.

Also, everything I've ever read is that it's mostly pee mixed with cum.

 

[SassySheDevil]

OMG Sassy. Remember one time we were talking about this and I accidentally texted my mother-in-law a very detailed response instead of you?!?

haha I had totally forgotten about that. But I do remember now.

So, I know this thread is about blow jobs but in fascinated...
@Indiesoul and @SassySheDevil can you orgasm without squirting? Yes, right? So is it just a fear of squirting during oral or is that you know you will squirt?
Do you orgasm through penetration or clitoral stimulation or either or both and where does the squirting come in?
And can you control it? My knowledge is limited. I have one friend that squirts, that I know of. It takes a certain kind of stimilation for her to squirt. She also is 100 positive it is not urine. She has never had an issue with squirting during oral sex.
Admittedly I have not clarified if this is because hasn’t or doesn't squirt during oral sex or if she doesn’t care if she does.

I do not squirt from a Clitoral orgasm. Has to be penetrative. He has to hit the right spot. So yes. If he fails. I can have sex without squirting. But once that spot is triggered. Watch the fuck out. It keeps happening with every touch. Penetration wise. I can't control it. Maybe it is because I don't focus as hard on trying to stop it. I don't worry as much about it when his head/mouth isn't involved. I am sure that a huge part of my issue is mental. Again, why I'd be curious about being tied up and somewhat forced to let go. Blindfold me so I can't see you looking at my embarrassed face and whoo hooo let the fun begin.

This will be a forever debated topic. Many say that Squirt is not at all pee. Some will say that there is some, and others will say that it is not at all.
I can only say that for me. It is mixed. I can pee my heart out and then go jump on him and can still tell there is urine in there. But at the same time. The sooner before sex that I pee, the less that is involved. You can smell it so I know it is there. I've never asked the guy to let me study it on his body, but I can tell.

 

[Dribble]

OMG Sassy. Remember one time we were talking about this and I accidentally texted my mother-in-law a very detailed response instead of you?!?

Oops...

My ex did something similar except it was a pic...my name starts with da.... but it went to her dad...I never did get the pic. I fixed her speed dial after that

 

[Indie]

haha I had totally forgotten about that. But I do remember now.

I will never forget. Unfortunately, I doubt neither will she.

 

[Photog1rl]

Also, everything I've ever read is that it's mostly pee mixed with cum.

Yes! You are correct. WebMD for the win …very interesting.
https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-squirting-orgasm

 

[SassySheDevil]

All y'all squirters could make some money in the movies. I've never heard of so many squirting folks. I can feel my release and there is a noticeable difference in consistency and wetness but i’m not squirting on anyone lol

If you watch squirters in porn. That is not me. I do not shoot across the room. If I compared it's feeling it would be like peeing during sex.

 

[SassySheDevil]

I will never forget. Unfortunately, I doubt neither will she.

Hopefully she ends up with a bad memory and you can just tell her it had to be someone else.

 

[Indie]

See...I feel like those that say it's not pee just don't want to admit they're peeing on their partners.

Because I would love to say it's not pee. And honestly, it doesn't look or smell like it either. I always pee before sex so my bladder is empty. But study after study show that the make up of a squirting orgasm is urine, so I'll side with science even if I don't wanna.

 

[default24]

I have some better ideas to avoid that problem.

I'm all ears
But it better not have anything to do with it going in my ears, they're sensitive

 

[Indie]

Hopefully she ends up with a bad memory and you can just tell her it had to be someone else.

Oh that woman hates me with a passion and holds grudges for life. She won't forget haha.

 

[SassySheDevil]

See...I feel like those that say it's not pee just don't want to admit they're peeing on their partners.

Because I would love to say it's not pee. And honestly, it doesn't look or smell like it either. I always pee before sex so my bladder is empty. But study after study show that the make up of a squirting orgasm is urine, so I'll side with science even if I don't wanna.

My hang up too. I don't want to pee on my partners face

 

[ToPleaseHim]

See...I feel like those that say it's not pee just don't want to admit they're peeing on their partners.

Because I would love to say it's not pee. And honestly, it doesn't look or smell like it either. I always pee before sex so my bladder is empty. But study after study show that the make up of a squirting orgasm is urine, so I'll side with science even if I don't wanna.

From what I’ve read (which I will admit is not super extensive, but at least several articles), it’s not exactly peeing, but the ejaculate will mix with any liquid that’s in the bladder at the time. Unless we are being crazy spontaneous, I always pee before sex. And mine has never smelled like urine, either.