Lord Pmann Wants to Discuss Blowjobs

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https://autoblow.com/

Anybody want to try it out and report back?

You tell us about this on Christmas Eve?!
It’s too late!
Then again while Santa is out maybe I can get a little something from Mrs. Claus . . .

 

[Sweet_b19]

I have heard "I've never been able to cum from a blowjob" from several different guys I've chatted with over the years, or that it's difficult for them to cum from one. Is that a common thing? Are the blow jobs they get just that bad? Or do they say it hoping it'll entice us to enthusiastically try to be their "first"? I've always wondered.

 

[Photog1rl]

I have heard "I've never been able to cum from a blowjob" from several different guys I've chatted with over the years, or that it's difficult for them to cum from one. Is that a common thing? Are the blow jobs they get just that bad? Or do they say it hoping it'll entice us to enthusiastically try to be their "first"? I've always wondered.

I’ve heard this too. I wonder if it is more connected to a fear of climax. Maybe their past partners did not want them to cum in their mouths and made it a thing and now they can’t relax enough to climax

Let me be clear-I’m not saying it is their partner or past partners fault-at all! I was just thinking about reasons why someone may not be able to climax and comfort level was where my brain landed.

 

[PlayfulLilDarlin]

I’ve heard this too. I wonder if it is more connected to a fear of climax. Maybe their past partners did not want them to cum in their mouths and made it a thing and now they can’t relax enough to climax

Let me be clear-I’m not saying it is their partner or past partners fault-at all! I was just thinking about reasons why someone may not be able to climax and comfort level was where my brain landed.

I am sadly one of those partners. But I have a valid reason, it triggers my gag reflex and throwing up in a guys lap is effective at ruining the whole thing for everyone. So right up to that edge and a nice courtesy tap and can finish them wherever. But yeah, I can't go all the way with it unless I want kill the mood for us both, which no thanks.

 

[Lionel_Hutz1977]

I’ve heard this too. I wonder if it is more connected to a fear of climax. Maybe their past partners did not want them to cum in their mouths and made it a thing and now they can’t relax enough to climax

Let me be clear-I’m not saying it is their partner or past partners fault-at all! I was just thinking about reasons why someone may not be able to climax and comfort level was where my brain landed.

I’m guessing this is somewhat common. I had a former partner who did not want me to cum in her mouth. We were together for many years. The first new partner I had after that asked me to and it took a looong time but happened eventually. Thank god she was patient and persistent. Now I have no problem whatsoever.

I have heard "I've never been able to cum from a blowjob" from several different guys I've chatted with over the years, or that it's difficult for them to cum from one. Is that a common thing? Are the blow jobs they get just that bad? Or do they say it hoping it'll entice us to enthusiastically try to be their "first"? I've always wondered.

Notwithstanding what I just said, I’m sure there are plenty of dudes just using it as a line to solicit a blow job.

 

[Photog1rl]

I am sadly one of those partners. But I have a valid reason,

Any reason you don't want or choose not to do something is valid.

it triggers my gag reflex and throwing up in a guys lap is effective at ruining the whole thing for everyone. So right up to that edge and a nice courtesy tap and can finish them wherever. But yeah, I can't go all the way with it unless I want kill the mood for us both, which no thanks.

I think knowing what does and what does not work is key and there should never been any shame in anyone's game. You've found the solution that works for you and your partner(s). That is key!

 

[Mr_bogey]

I'm thinking of starting a companion thread:
"Lord Bogey Wants to Receive Blow Jobs (apply within)"

 

[Lord Pmann]

I have heard "I've never been able to cum from a blowjob" from several different guys I've chatted with over the years, or that it's difficult for them to cum from one. Is that a common thing? Are the blow jobs they get just that bad? Or do they say it hoping it'll entice us to enthusiastically try to be their "first"? I've always wondered.

I think it is actually true for some guys. My co-worker said that was the case with him. He’s never had an orgasm from one. And I presume he’s not trying to get me to suck his dick.

I think a blowjob is the most intense orgasm, for me.

But quick question…

Or do they say it hoping it'll entice us to enthusiastically try to be their "first"?

^^^^Does this work? AFAF.

 

[SassySheDevil]

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But quick question…

Or do they say it hoping it'll entice us to enthusiastically try to be their "first"?

^^^^Does this work? AFAF.

if she is competitive or just super confident. Yes.

 

[Photog1rl]

if she is competitive or just super confident. Yes.

It’s that damn competitive spirit

 

[Lord Pmann]

Well, this is all such interesting news.

I think a blowjob is the most intense orgasm, for me.

I imagine an orgasm from a blowjob would be pretty intense, but as a virgin, I would have no idea as I’ve never even had an orgasm.

 

[Dribble]

Just like many women do not enjoy giving up their control when a guy goes down on her (and I have heard many women say this here), I suspect there are many guys that do not enjoy a blowjob for the same reason. I personally don’t like them as well as any other form of sex...because the pathway to climax is simply too quick. Feels good...like that...oh fuck I am cumming. It is like a switch is flipped and all that enjoyment I know I could have had is gone...there is no build up. Sorry...I feel the same about masturbation. Sure I can make myself cum. And if that is the only option...it can be the best. But if it isn't the only option? Why would I want that when I can have something so much better?

 

[Cat]

Just like many women do not enjoy giving up their control when a guy goes down on her (and I have heard many women say this here), I suspect there are many guys that do not enjoy a blowjob for the same reason. I personally don’t like them as well as any other form of sex...because the pathway to climax is simply too quick. Feels good...like that...oh fuck I am cumming. It is like a switch is flipped and all that enjoyment I know I could have had is gone...there is no build up. Sorry...I feel the same about masturbation. Sure I can make myself cum. And if that is the only option...it can be the best. But if it isn't the only option? Why would I want that when I can have something so much better?

See... This is also triggering for.. at least my competitive spirit, and overall.. my need to give.

 

[VoraciousValue]

He’s hideous to look at, but also a rapist.

This was the point I was going to make. Ron Jeremy's probably going to prison for the rest of his life.

 

[Photog1rl]

Just like many women do not enjoy giving up their control when a guy goes down on her (and I have heard many women say this here), I suspect there are many guys that do not enjoy a blowjob for the same reason. I personally don’t like them as well as any other form of sex...because the pathway to climax is simply too quick. Feels good...like that...oh fuck I am cumming. It is like a switch is flipped and all that enjoyment I know I could have had is gone...there is no build up.

Is this the case with every blowjob you’ve had? Could you or have you tried a more edging approach? Might being brought close to the edge repeatedly appeal to you? (Not offering just wondering ) this just seems like an area that would be a lot of fun to explore. Admittedly there is a power piece that I love so it may be just me that thinks this is fun/interesting but being brought to the edge over and over again quickly can be just as good as getting there slowly. It’s just a different kind of enjoyable.

Just like many women do not enjoy giving up their control when a guy goes down on her

I can’t say I understand this in particular. As much as completely controlling the pace for my partner holds intoxicating power so does completely letting go and giving over that control.

 

[SassySheDevil]

I can’t say I understand this in particular. As much as completely controlling the pace for my partner holds intoxicating power so does completely letting go and giving over that control.

I am one of these people. No matter how much someone reassures me that they want all the mess. My fear of making a mess prevents me from totally letting go. I am able to hold back which prevents me from enjoying it the way I could.

 

[Dribble]

See... This is also triggering for.. at least my competitive spirit, and overall.. my need to give.

I get it...I really do. When my first wife had an emergency hysterectomy...well intercourse was off the table for quite some time. But her doctor told her it was totally OK to cum...just no vaginal sex...not even insertion of a finger. So being the loving husband i did whatever I needed to make her feel OK as a woman because the operation did mess with her head. Likewise, she always took care of me. It isn't about not cumming. And I will say we were probably the most intimately connected during that time than ever. But it wasn't the same. I can't explain it

 

[VoraciousValue]

I’ve heard this too. I wonder if it is more connected to a fear of climax. Maybe their past partners did not want them to cum in their mouths and made it a thing and now they can’t relax enough to climax

Let me be clear-I’m not saying it is their partner or past partners fault-at all! I was just thinking about reasons why someone may not be able to climax and comfort level was where my brain landed.

I'm one of those people. I'm absolutely serious about this. It is almost impossible for me to come from a blowjob in less than 30 minutes. It's hard to define why, but I suspect I have something of a sweet spot on my dick (more than the frenulum) that has to be hit enough for me to come. There was no commonality with blowjob partners that would explain it otherwise.

I've had similar trouble with intercourse on occasion, but that works much better for me.

 

[ydahecnot]

I'm thinking of starting a companion thread:
"Lord Bogey Wants to Receive Blow Jobs (apply within)"

Wouldn’t it be “apply around”?

 

[Indie]

I am one of these people. No matter how much someone reassures me that they want all the mess. My fear of making a mess prevents me from totally letting go. I am able to hold back which prevents me from enjoying it the way I could.

I could have written this, Sassy.

 

[Photog1rl]

I could have written this, Sassy.

really? Both of you? And it’s the mess that worries you? @SassySheDevil @Indiesoul
But you’ve each had kids…I’m sorry. I’m not trying to shame y’all in any way. I just can not imagine this.
*my mind starts spinning*
So what about other sexual messiness? Does that bother you?

 

[Indie]

really? Both of you? And it’s the mess that worries you? @SassySheDevil @Indiesoul
But you’ve each had kids…I’m sorry. I’m not trying to shame y’all in any way. I just can not imagine this.
*my mind starts spinning*
So what about other sexual messiness? Does that bother you?

Yep really! It's not just the mess, but whether someone really would like it or not. Not sure what kids had to do with it though? Lol.

What other messiness you talking about? Like cover me in cum? Sure.

 

[Photog1rl]

Yep really! It's not just the mess, but whether someone really would like it or not. Not sure what kids had to do with it though? Lol.

What other messiness you talking about? Like cover me in cum? Sure.

Sassy mentioned the mess…unless I’m misremembering…
And I couldn’t understand that, especially with all that goes on with having kids…

 

[default24]

cover me in cum? Sure.

 

[Photog1rl]

No matter how much someone reassures me that they want all the mess. My fear of making a mess prevents me from totally letting go.

This was what I was referring to.
And no @Indiesoul i have no doubt you’d be happy to be covered in cum. I just thought it was more of a female wetness issue. I hear that’s not the case but I just can’t wrap my head around it.
But also, good sex is messy af. At least in my experience.
You don’t know why someone would like that?