Loving Relationships In D/s And The Challenges Of Redirecting The Vanilla Mind

[FurryFury]

Whew !! that's a lot of words & combined with that bloody silly Y/you stuff I found I found it a pain to read. Didn't actually make a lot of sense either, sorry.

LOL.

Incubus'_sub, I'm very impressed that you bothered to actually read it.

I um, well, let's just say I skimmed it.

Fury

 

[Netzach]

Whew !! that's a lot of words & combined with that bloody silly Y/you stuff I found I found it a pain to read. Didn't actually make a lot of sense either, sorry.

I've spoken to a lot, and I mean a LOT of people from the glorious "back then" of SM. I even happen to own one. Wow, I wonder how he puts up with my revisionist ways.

If I want to free him of ego I throw him a copy of the Tao. If I want to free myself of ego, I do the same to myself. I don't find ego becoming in me, simply because I pair sexual and internal fulfillment with control, nor do I find it completely unbecoming in him because he pairs buffets to his ego with the same. If it's "merely sex" I don't see how that's so mere, frankly.

Not one of them opts for W/we or for dusting off a throne of experience and making pronouncements from it. Not a single one who's actually been there or trained by the been-there. They're comfortable, as I am, with being of a time and place, some of which was wonderful, some of which wasn't so great, and they're comfortable with evolution and maybe the notion that not everyone doing things now and possibly differently has their head up their bum.