Married Men - Online Affairs

[drobert44]

Sounds just like me. Actually a lot.

Yep, love is serious, not a word to throw around.

 

[toowiredup]

I've never had one, mainly because I've never found someone who will set ground rules and stick to them. Would be a really nice thing to find though.

 

[none2_none2]

I am wondering how many of the married men, men with a long-term gf, or men who "identify" as straight out in the "real world" have had an on-line affair with another man? I don't just mean a long-term on-line JO buddy, but one where there was an intimacy, a romantic energy, and/or perhaps you used the "L" word with each other (and I don't mean lesbian).

CuriousMature,
I hope you find what you are looking for. Your post as well as some who responded similarly gives me hope for the male gender of which I am a member usually with what seems to be a minority view. Sure men can really enjoy just sex, but at some point there has to be more. I don't know if it is with dwindling testosterone, maturity that comes with age, or something else, but I believe that a real man eventually wants MORE than just an orgasm or fantasy for a later solo j/o session.

I'm fortunate in that I have what I want -- in real life: A man who has loved me for just about 2 decades. When I found out I couldn't sire kids, I just had no desire to have a conventional heterosexual relationship knowing that I could never create life no matter how much I cared. So I went down the path that was best for me.

Before i met my mate, I had many m2m experiences. I crave toping manly men, and had plenty. However, what I remember most is the memories of all the talks and sharing that happened before and after sex with those men who were open to more than getting off and leaving...

When a man is willing to open up about himself, it seems to be so special. We are taught that we are supposed to compete with other men, but when another man lets his guard down and wants to talk about his loves, likes, fears, joys, it is so very special.

Though I don't want my partner to ever be alone, I hope he outlives me. I could not begin fathom a life where he isn't a part of it. I like watching him think. I like seeing him laugh. I like watching him be so turned on by his hobbies that he gets excitable. I know it sounds pathetic like I have no life of my own. I truly am a loner, but around him I feel like have a front row seat to watching life through his eyes. Life is good.

 

[Uncut1969]

Interesting posts. For those of us in this awkward spot the ideal is a safe and local partner. Random hooks ups do not fill the emotional void or provide the physical intimacy that we want - and the risks are unacceptable. An online "relationship" is a reasonable alternative that can give a way to deal with the frustration of a complicated situation

Very true

 

[Tayloroc]

I am wondering how many of the married men, men with a long-term gf, or men who "identify" as straight out in the "real world" have had an on-line affair with another man? I don't just mean a long-term on-line JO buddy, but one where there was an intimacy, a romantic energy, and/or perhaps you used the "L" word with each other (and I don't mean lesbian).

I have. It was wonderful. Looking for another

 

[Tayloroc]

Very true

Yes, the risks are so high. Online let’s us play and cum safely

 

[Tayloroc]

That would be a gift!

 

[HornyMarriedMale]

Still looking for that special friend to have fun withb

Here here

 

[julesasnerisgod]

whos looking for an online lit jo buddy?

Someone that is as horny as you are, looking to cum and shoot many hot loads, talk dirty and have best time without any risk.

 

[paulman999]

I am wondering how many of the married men, men with a long-term gf, or men who "identify" as straight out in the "real world" have had an on-line affair with another man? I don't just mean a long-term on-line JO buddy, but one where there was an intimacy, a romantic energy, and/or perhaps you used the "L" word with each other (and I don't mean lesbian).

Not there yet, but dancing on the line, Who knows it may happen soon, i do,enjoy the emotional intimacy as much as the physical. Life is a dance, For as long as the music plays…

 

[Gator50]

I had a long-term affair with someone I met online as a JO buddy. It started with meeting a few weeks after we agreed to show each other our faces after cumming together online.

 

[coloradobi]

I’m here in Colorado. I’d love a fun relationship with a nice guy. Contact me.

 

[Busy54]

Not sure what defines an online relationship, but I’ve started chatting with the most terrific man I met on Literotica right here. John is the best! We’ve exchanged messages nearly everyday for the past month or so. He writes with such vivid detail, describing what he wants to do to me, weather it’s making love in the morning rough fuck in the afternoon, or sharing me with friends. He sands me flowers and tells me how special I am! John is the perfect man!

 

[vidmin]

Not sure what defines an online relationship, but I’ve started chatting with the most terrific man I met on Literotica right here. John is the best! We’ve exchanged messages nearly everyday for the past month or so. He writes with such vivid detail, describing what he wants to do to me, weather it’s making love in the morning rough fuck in the afternoon, or sharing me with friends. He sands me flowers and tells me how special I am! John is the perfect man!

Congratulations, I think it's wonderful you've found each other. I wish you much fun and happiness.

 

[JudyCD]

So many men have more needs than their wives are willing to give.

 

[vidmin]

So many men have more needs than their wives are willing to give.

So very true

 

[Tayloroc]

So very true

That’s for sure

 

[Replicant2018]

So many men have more needs than their wives are willing to give.

True

 

[Busy54]

True

All the better for us!

 

[Uncut1969]

So many men have more needs than their wives are willing to give.

So right wish they were more open minded

 

[writerzblok92]

So many men have more needs than their wives are willing to give.

Mine outright refuses to have sex with me. Guess once or twice a year was excessive. It's been over 10 years now that my sex life has been dead

 

[phreedom]

I’m married to a woman, but she doesn’t know I love sex with men. I’m all bottom for a man, so maybe that’s part of the reason I love feeling that intimate connection both physically and mentally. I can’t help falling in love a little bit with a top who knows what I need. I’ve found I’m the same way chatting with a top man online. I can’t hold back my feelings, especially if he seems to feel the same.

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

In-depth chats on line can be very good with both men and women about anything, sexual or not. Its seems to be easier to open up about intersts and opinions when there is that feeling of being anonymous. Unfortunately, they don't seem to last all that long

 

[Tayloroc]

In-depth chats on line can be very good with both men and women about anything, sexual or not. Its seems to be easier to open up about intersts and opinions when there is that feeling of being anonymous. Unfortunately, they don't seem to last all that long

You’re right. It would be nice to build a relationship

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

You’re right. It would be nice to build a relationship

... the trick is to have one or the other stick around. I've had chats on line that lasted longer when not talking about sex. When it was about aspects of sex, they weren't long in duration