Mixed feelings about BDSM

[catalina_francisco]

A day has passed since I brought up this topic..

Catalina, I appreciate the cold shower so to speak you definitely gave me pause for thought enough that I had to read your post several times hehehe.

I hope you all don't have the impression I was coming here for moral support to cheat on my wife. Perhaps it was an inappropriate post on my part to solicite opinions. Rereading my own post I realize it did come across as asking the community what I should do but I was more curious what your perspectives on it would be. I certainly wouldn't have added up which of you was in favor of this option over the other and acted on the one that won hehehhe. I would feel very sorry for any women that had a guy like that.

I thank everyone for you feedback. There's a 99.9999 percent chance that even after discussing it with my wife that this will ever happen. But it was good for our relationship to discuss it.

Cold showers can often save us from ourselves when nothing else will.

Catalina