My situation as a straight man with not so straight urges. Anyone else?

[wishywashy]

Sexual Pleasures are knocking at your door....

Been dating the sissies for 3 years; love it! Now I am gonna be the girl on my next date! Wig, bra, panties, nylons, garters. I am so excited and will be such a cocksucking slut. I am gonna make him fuck me silly. This is SO much easier than dating a dame....

Hey there why don't you come over to my place and lets take care of business together sweety

 

[tallyguy]

not alone

Let me ask this question. Does anyone else have Jekyll and Hyde moments like I do? Meaning at times I am so horny that I would not only kiss a guy, suck his cock, but also bottom for him. When I am in this phase I think about it a WHOLE LOT. Then at other times I can go for a month and not hardly think about it. That is one reason that I could not live with another man, although at times things would be really HOT, other times I wouldn't want to touch him or him me.
Am I alone in this?

Nope, you are not alone. Also, I am only attracted to a few men.

 

[Astroman72]

Let me ask this question. Does anyone else have Jekyll and Hyde moments like I do? Meaning at times I am so horny that I would not only kiss a guy, suck his cock, but also bottom for him. When I am in this phase I think about it a WHOLE LOT. Then at other times I can go for a month and not hardly think about it. That is one reason that I could not live with another man, although at times things would be really HOT, other times I wouldn't want to touch him or him me.
Am I alone in this?

I'm almost exactly the same. I go for stretches where I only want a nice pussy, and then have stretches where all I can think about is a big cock and how I would service it. But yeah, I would also be incapable of a real long-term, intimate relationship with a guy, because there would be no romance or emotional intimacy from my side.

The way I'm wired, I see gay sex as like a really, really exciting form of masturbation---something extremely physically pleasurable, but pretty one-dimensional.

And for me, I never went through any evolution, or sexual "confusion." I've pretty much always had these exact same desires, and I understood them early on. And that's also why I've never actively sought out gay sex. If I was single and the right opportunity came up, I'd probably go with it (and maybe couldn't resist it), but for me, I"m attracted to women on EVERY level so they're a more complete option.

But yes, as has been mentioned in this thread, I think this a REALLY common thing among guys, even if it's not openly admitted. Even completely straight guys can get away with the joke "if I could suck my own cock, I wouldn't leave the house," and I think the truth underlying that joke is that most guys would have no problem sucking a cock under the right circumstances.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I agree with you

100%. (I wish you'd turn on PMs.)

 

[Astroman72]

100%. (I wish you'd turn on PMs.)

Sorry--no offense, but I just like participating in the public threads here.

 

[transqueen]

I'm slowly coming to the conclusion that I was never straight. I'm bi curious and will soon strike out and act on those urges.

 

[J1biboi]

I'm almost exactly the same. I go for stretches where I only want a nice pussy, and then have stretches where all I can think about is a big cock and how I would service it. But yeah, I would also be incapable of a real long-term, intimate relationship with a guy, because there would be no romance or emotional intimacy from my side.

The way I'm wired, I see gay sex as like a really, really exciting form of masturbation---something extremely physically pleasurable, but pretty one-dimensional.

And for me, I never went through any evolution, or sexual "confusion." I've pretty much always had these exact same desires, and I understood them early on. And that's also why I've never actively sought out gay sex. If I was single and the right opportunity came up, I'd probably go with it (and maybe couldn't resist it), but for me, I"m attracted to women on EVERY level so they're a more complete option.

But yes, as has been mentioned in this thread, I think this a REALLY common thing among guys, even if it's not openly admitted. Even completely straight guys can get away with the joke "if I could suck my own cock, I wouldn't leave the house," and I think the truth underlying that joke is that most guys would have no problem sucking a cock under the right circumstances.

I agree with your assessment completely.

 

[saintcero]

Morning all. Morning Astroman72. Your summation is shared by many.

 

[CuriousTxGuy]

Let me ask this question. Does anyone else have Jekyll and Hyde moments like I do? Meaning at times I am so horny that I would not only kiss a guy, suck his cock, but also bottom for him. When I am in this phase I think about it a WHOLE LOT. Then at other times I can go for a month and not hardly think about it. That is one reason that I could not live with another man, although at times things would be really HOT, other times I wouldn't want to touch him or him me.
Am I alone in this?

That's not much different than going home with a woman, then waking up in the morning and wondering, "What am I doing here with this..."

 

[midwestdude]

.......

 

[southfl_bicur]

Hear it ALL the time

I am curious but not into kissing or massaging. I just want to touch another dick or maybe suck or be sucked.

I'm the same way.

 

[bi golly]

The steps of how I got to where I am now are these:

1) Learned to masturbate. Fantasies were about young, compliant women who wanted sex with me.

2) Started to play with my anus as part of masturbation. Started to fantasize about women who would play with my anus as part of sex. Sometimes the woman would use a dildo on me or put a plug in me while we engaged in sex.

3) Started to fantasize about having sex with men. In these fantasies, I was always tricked into sex as the receptive partner, and it was always anal sex. I could not conceive of sucking cock. Usually it was where a woman would be the intercessory to me getting fucked. And I would not like it at first, but then accept it and learn to like it.

4) Started to fantasize about being a willing partner, where I met an understanding man who would break me in gently and show me the ropes. Many times there was massage involved where the man massaged me and knew what I wanted when I couldn't ask for it. He would take the lead and relieve me of my virginity.

5) Started to fantasize about sucking cock. On my knees. Sucking cock with a purpose. Wanting a man to strip me, push me to my knees and hold my head with his hands as he fucked my mouth. A man kissing me. Putting me against the wall, pinching my nipples, spreading my legs, holding my ass in his hands while fingering my anus, telling me he was going to fuck me, just as soon as I finished sucking his cock.

6) Fantasizing about searching out and finding a man who wanted to dominate me in any way he wanted. Come home, find me in the kitchen, pull my pants down and fuck me standing up. Take me to a sex party and fuck me in front of everyone. Rolling over onto me in the morning, spreading my legs and fucking me like he did the night before.

In short, willful, wanton, submission.

In between, I got married and divorced twice, had kids, had a lot of lovers.

But I want to be wanted and taken by a man now.

 

[lustatopia]

I discovered I was bisexual in college when late one night my room mate and I got stuck into his Hustler magazine collection while doing bong hits and started to jack off together. We got so horny that it turned into "I'll suck you, if you suck me." The next day we were both too ashamed to talk about it. But it happened again the very next weekend. This time we did talk about it. We both agreed we weren't like totally queer, but liked it and were "curious." We both liked girls far more. It would be our secret. Truth is we were both fucking totally gay for each other and ended up fucking like wild cats in every way possible and then started to go to gay bars together on the wrong side of the tracks.

Years later my old room mate went all Christian and I guess suppressed his sexuality. I see him on Facebook with his nice family and church links.

Me, I kept wading deeper into gay sex. Adult bookstores, gloryholes. I even pimped myself. The thing is I never did fit into the gay scene, like where I had "boyfriends" that I wanted to live with. I never got crushes on guys. It was always like just sex with a buddy or a john or some stud I just met and would never see again... But with women I couldn't help but get emotionally involved. I was always falling in love with my girlfriends.

Of course, I knew I was hopelessly queer and I quickly learned that nice girls, although they might be at first attracted to me - I was great with the ladies - once they learned I was bisexual, they would freak out.

So I steered towards girls with bad reputations. Ladies you wouldn't bring home to meet mom. Punk chicks or "the class slut," dancers, wannabe actresses, models, and as it turns out these bad girls were just as good, just as human, just as prone to fall in love and be caring as the nice girls, only they were much better in bed. I have always been with women who not only accepted my bisexuality but were seriously aroused by the possibilities inherent in having a bi lover.

Now I am happily married to a beautiful bad lady who I occasionally share around with guys like you in hot bisexual three and moresomes. Guys who like it a bit bi and kinky but unfortunately married nice girls when they were still young and naive. Guys like that always show up with their balls loaded with cum and ready to stand tall for hours on end.

 

[wouldluvtoshare]

I find im getting more and more bi curious as i go on. I do find it a double standard that society generally is into bisexual women but not bisexual men

 

[Mqoi]

When I brought it up, I just mentioned one time when I had spent the night in bed with another guy and we sucked each other off and on all night. She pretty much freaked out and refused to talk about it any more. A couple of weeks later, she decided she could talk about it and said she was going to chalk it up to youthful experimentation. I decided it was best to just keep the rest of my bi history to myself with her. Although a month or so later she did bring up that one of her friends told her that her husband said he wanted to try a blowjob from a guy to see if guys did it better. I felt that she was just testing to see what I said, so I was very non-commital about it while thinking that if I did, I'd suck his cock well enough that he'd come back for more.

As a PS to this, we had a long talk about our relationship and sex the other night and she's come to the realization that I am bi and always have been. She wasn't happy with the idea and I was told upfront that if she'd have known when we got together, she'd have kept going and that she didn't think bisexuals were capable of a long term committed relationship.

I told her that we've been together for going on 20 years now and sexual preferences have nothing to do with having a long term committed relationship. And that if she wanted to get rid of me, she'd best get a big stick to do it with as I'm not going anywhere. She's just afraid that I'll start running around behind her back (I'm not that way).

So things are more in the open now and I'm just giving her the time she needs to digest it all.

 

[southfl_bicur]

Thats what college is all about - finding yourself. My problem is all during my teens thru early 30's I was always in a relationship with a female. It wasnt until my mid 30's when I started feeling bi curious. My past relationships my gf was not into bi or even butt sex so I had to squash the feelings. Now that I am single again the feelings have surfaced again but I'm now in my 50's and it gets tougher & tougher to explore these feelings. Anyone can get hookup sex from another man but I dont think thats what most of us are looking for (or just me).

 

[Sclovers]

I am curious but not into kissing or massaging. I just want to touch another dick or maybe suck or be sucked.

I'm the same way.

Same here

 

[CuriousTxGuy]

The way I'm wired, I see gay sex as like a really, really exciting form of masturbation---something extremely physically pleasurable, but pretty one-dimensional. .....most guys would have no problem sucking a cock under the right circumstances.

That's me, too.

 

[bicurnow]

I am curious but not into kissing or massaging. I just want to touch another dick or maybe suck or be sucked.

I'm the same way.

Perfect in my book, southfl

 

[Mr. Briggs]

You say your wife is kinky. Mention to her your ideas of sucking a cock and see if she would want to watch and participate.

That is a bold move. One you really have to be sure of the answer before making.

 

[Dreamer110]

That is a bold move. One you really have to be sure of the answer before making.

Lol. That could be a major backfire if you're not pretty sure.

 

[bkarp8]

I am totally in this boat as well, haven't done anything but would love to find someone to explore with

 

[Dreamer110]

I am totally in this boat as well, haven't done anything but would love to find someone to explore with

Shouldn't be a problem here.

 

[mmarfox]

I'm a "straight" Guy with bi-curious tendencies. I've had them since I was a teen and they've manifested occasionally since then when I get the urge to watch gay porn and masturbate to it.

I now have an amazing wife who is herself bi-sexual and my absolute equal in every way. With her, I have no reservations and can truly be me because she is more than on the same page.

So yeah, I'm a "straight" Guy with bi-curios tendencies. But what us "straight"? I'm realizing more and more sexuality is fluid, and there is nothing wrong with that

 

[GregInOC]

Bingo!