no vibrator and horny as hell

I agree with the Erika, don't hide it from him. Get some toys and a webcam, that way he can watch you while he is away.

My husband travels a LOT. Sometimes I suprise him with new toys while online, we both love it.
 
My wife and I have used my electric razor on an out of town trip before. We were messing around with the cutting end to shave, but then I had the idea to turn it around and use the rounded end on her. We had a blast that night. When we got home, we went shopping right away and bought her a proper toy!
 
SO i don't have a vibrator and i find using my hands aren't that fun for me anyone have any ideas on how i can have a great orgasim without the use of either???

I could use some help!

Go take a test ride on a Harley.
 
What about a hairbrush handle.

One other one i heard once that woks well is a power drill against the clitoris, with a town inbetween.

What about the gear stick of a car, if its a manual, just park it in the garage and turn on the engine and let that rhythm take you over.
 
I'll second the shower attachment :) Or you could try climbing a rope - I once had an orgasm whilst climbing a rope in the gym at school ;) I was half way up when it struck. 'Come on, can't you get any higher than that?' the gym mistress shouted - but I was high enough already :D

However did you manage to keep holding on? Or was it the other way around, one of those clenching hard types?
 
The removable shower head, as others have mentioned, is great. If that's not an option, I love to read/watch something that gets me really wet, then turn on the faucet to the shower so the water volume is the greatest and the water is really hot, and stick my pussy underneath. That never fails to make me come ;D
 
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great ideas

Im in another country for a couple of months, and didnt bring my toys.... I thought "Its only 3 months"... Well they sure feel looong! Anyways there are just some great ideas over here I might try.
 
Im in another country for a couple of months, and didnt bring my toys.... I thought "Its only 3 months"... Well they sure feel looong! Anyways there are just some great ideas over here I might try.
LOL - beside the shower head, there must be some great motorcycles whereever you are...lmao..just park on and let it run..positioning is everything!!! See, what u really needed is one of those internet remote control ones...always more fun with 2 or more!!
 
Horny as hell

Um, well, set your cell on vibrate and have someone hit continuous redial. Or turn on the alarm and turn it to vibrate. I can get much more inventive, but you have a plethora of suggestions already. Grin and "bare" it!!
 
LOL - beside the shower head, there must be some great motorcycles whereever you are...lmao..just park on and let it run..positioning is everything!!! See, what u really needed is one of those internet remote control ones...always more fun with 2 or more!!

Where do I get one of these internet remote control motorcycles?
 
hmmm all great ideas...just for some inspiration....or maybe i should just go and buy somthing....my only thing is how do i get it past the hubby ????

I agree, why hide it? I'd say in a sexy, sultry voice "I fantasize about playing with a toy and having you "catch" me and watch me...the thought turns me on to no end". And see how he responds. If he responds favorably, ask him to help you pick one out, drag his butt over to the computer and shop for one together. I'm sure he'd have definite opinions on what toys he'd like to see you playing with, with the added bonus of building up anticipation for the toy's arrival.

I have several toys and hubby is well aware that I play with them, sometime with him, sometimes without. He's not threatened by them, since he knows that a cold toy is no replacement for a hot body attached to the person that I'm in love with.
 
LOL - Ms Bella so true bout the cell phone redial, butt more fun to watch and play at the same time..hmm....couple of free sites i visit to watch and comment....now who said i was a dirty ole man!! The suggestion about the best motivator in the world is to vibrate the mind with fantasies...safe, erotic and dynamic!!

Um, well, set your cell on vibrate and have someone hit continuous redial. Or turn on the alarm and turn it to vibrate. I can get much more inventive, but you have a plethora of suggestions already. Grin and "bare" it!!
 
Well, vibrating the mind with a vibrator is nice, too. They feel really good on the head and neck areas, too. ;)
 
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What about a hairbrush handle.

One other one i heard once that woks well is a power drill against the clitoris, with a town inbetween.

What about the gear stick of a car, if its a manual, just park it in the garage and turn on the engine and let that rhythm take you over.


I have used the brush handle with a lover, and when she was alone, I'd occassinally find her with it. When we broke up I kept the bills & she got my favorite long-handled brush.

One of my lovers watches porno flicks like mad on-line & rubs against a pillow - watching her on cam doing so makes for some wild moments.

Hopefully these will help.

Blessings,


Julian
 
Got a gaming console with duel shock controllers? >.> And a game that produces rumble effects, of course... sit down with your game and have some FUN while gaming. >.>

As for the shower thing, I highly recommend showers before the tap. Stick an elastic band over the showerhead so that it makes the flow uneven, or elastic band a cloth to it if your shower doesn't already produce an uneven flow...

Seriously, who needs a vibrator? I've never used one. Not to say I haven't thought about it... (and then went "yeah, okay, where the hell am I going to get one in THIS town?") Way too easy to be creative. There's tons of things in the house that you can use to stimulate yourself. I definately wouldn't go with a blender/mixer myself. Electric toothbrush, maybe... there's this one you can get that does 'sonic vibrations', it makes the handle vibrate like crazy...

i was going to say video game controllers too! they actually can get you off... although your ingame performace in whatever would totally suck as you just keep crashing your race car or getting shot so the thingy shakes...

if you've a jacuzzi it's like an upgraded shower. turn on the jet and adjust yourself to a comfy distance and let it blow your mind!!

if you're into clit stimulation my fave, the hitachi magic wand works like a charm. it's never taken me over 10 minutes to cum. hard.
 
SO i don't have a vibrator and i find using my hands aren't that fun for me anyone have any ideas on how i can have a great orgasim without the use of either???

I could use some help!

Ahhhh,let's see,Oh yea you could let me help you.
 
Definitely don't hide toys from your husband. If you're worried about him feeling that you're using the toys to replace him or something to that extent, start off by getting more neutral sex objects, and using them in bed. Like, say, try sex with lube if you haven't already, or handcuffs. And so on. Once he likes the idea of toys, get more! You'll have a vibrator (or two or three, heh) and enhance your sex life.

As for the rest, laying under a running faucet works best for me. It's got to be a strong, steady flow, though, and I actually don't like using a showerhead. Only the faucet. But hey, tastes differ.

Good luck.
 
Definitely don't hide toys from your husband. If you're worried about him feeling that you're using the toys to replace him or something to that extent, start off by getting more neutral sex objects, and using them in bed. Like, say, try sex with lube if you haven't already, or handcuffs. And so on. Once he likes the idea of toys, get more! You'll have a vibrator (or two or three, heh) and enhance your sex life.

As for the rest, laying under a running faucet works best for me. It's got to be a strong, steady flow, though, and I actually don't like using a showerhead. Only the faucet. But hey, tastes differ.

Good luck.
Well, just take the sprayer part off and you'll have your hand held faucet. ;)
 
I agree with the Erika, don't hide it from him. Get some toys and a webcam, that way he can watch you while he is away.

My husband travels a LOT. Sometimes I suprise him with new toys while online, we both love it.


Geez...I'm trying to get my wife to use some toys as well as use them together.

I don't ever seeing it happen:(
 
i was going to say video game controllers too! they actually can get you off... although your ingame performace in whatever would totally suck as you just keep crashing your race car or getting shot so the thingy shakes...

if you've a jacuzzi it's like an upgraded shower. turn on the jet and adjust yourself to a comfy distance and let it blow your mind!!

if you're into clit stimulation my fave, the hitachi magic wand works like a charm. it's never taken me over 10 minutes to cum. hard.

Yeah, you have to be careful on the game you pick. If you do a shooter, and you have a machine gun or something... some vehicles in games make some nice rumbling... and if you can set the NPC level... that works nicely. Just sit there, shooting into space, one NPC running around... mm...

I'd rather get a vibe but there are so many problems with that (notably, no place to get one locally, no way to order online without paypal and sharing a mailbox with certain people who, ah, wouldn't understand... at ALL...), and my cell phone isn't strong enough anyway. (sigh)

It just makes me be creative!
 
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