Ok, very serious question.......

[blulilacgrl]

How so? I said I do better on a low carb, meats are protein ....



Oddly enough my nutritional healing book doesn't have anything to help you out there. I'm sorry!

At some point soon, I am going to get back in the groove of stuff, and at that point, I'd love a low carb buddy. My mom and I have started a y-group to encourage eachother, if you'd like I can send you an invite. However, I am in the closet, and therefore I would appreciate if you'd keep the details of how we met vague.

[laughs] No worries. I am in the closet as well. So I know the value of being vague. But yes, I would love to have someone to chat with and encourage. It is a difficult eating plan to be sure!

 

[KoPilot]

All I know is that A's aren't supposed to eat tomatoes.

I'm a fucking rebel, guys.

 

[LWulf]

How so? I said I do better on a low carb, meats are protein ....

It's getting late and I've been up since 3am. Sorry if I'm getting stuff blurred. I thought you said you are better on lo'carb, BUT...

 

[LWulf]

All I know is that A's aren't supposed to eat tomatoes.

I'm a fucking rebel, guys.

Yet there was a study done by some Polish researchers back in the 80's that said (whole not paste, etc) tomatoes are good for prostate health... I never saw a follow up on that study...

...also, and I had to check wiki on this first... tomatoes aren't a vegetable, they are actually a fruit of the nightshade family.

 

[Kellydude666]

So there you have it, no troll here either. But the one's with the biggest attitudes, judgements, name-calling and loathing are 3 lazy fatties discussing fad diets how to take off unwanted layers of fat because at some point in their lives a man left their ass. And probably not because the weight alone. CLASSIC!

 

[graceanne]

So there you have it, no troll here either. But the one's with the biggest attitudes, judgements, name-calling and loathing are 3 lazy fatties discussing fad diets how to take off unwanted layers of fat because at some point in their lives a man left their ass. And probably not because the weight alone. CLASSIC!

Yeah, you're not a troll. Like I care what a piece of crap like you thinks of me.

I rest my case, y'all.

 

[KoPilot]

So there you have it, no troll here either. But the one's with the biggest attitudes, judgements, name-calling and loathing are 3 lazy fatties discussing fad diets how to take off unwanted layers of fat because at some point in their lives a man left their ass. And probably not because the weight alone. CLASSIC!

FART POO PEE

 

[graceanne]

FART POO PEE

Sooooo glad I didnt have anything in my mouth. lol

 

[DVS]

Thanks to the OP, I just didn't know there were so many fat people in this forum. You just don't know until something like this happens. You know?

 

[DVS]

Buckle up buddy...you're in a for a bumpy ride here.

*waits for the judgement posting to begin*

LOL, truer words have never been said.

 

[Dressedmiss]

I have lurked on here for a while and never felt compelled to post before.

I have given birth to five babies. I have four surviving children. I also have some excess weight. I'm not obese, but I definitely have curves. I am also in my 40's, so I feel I can relate to what this supposed man is saying. And what his wife is going through.

Quite apart from the sneaking behind backs, and using of family money to pay for a pro and the lies and deceit .... Leaving those to one side....


Have you considered that your wife may have depression? Post natal depression is very common and your attitude towards her, as it comes across on this thread, utterly stinks. You come across as incredibly judgemental and shallow. And all of this will not help her if she is prone to any kind of depression.

I was married to a man like you. I thought, after having babies that I was fat and ugly. I really found it all very difficult.

Got rid of the wanker and guess what? I'm still the same size but I have a grin on my face everyday, I certainly don't have any problems getting someone to play with and unlike you, I don't have to pay for it or sneak around.

I will address one comment to your wife. I do heartily hope she reads this.

Sweetie, get this Sorry excuse for a man a taxi. To the far side of fuck. One way.

 

[KoPilot]

Sooooo glad I didnt have anything in my mouth. lol

When my stepbrother was 6, this is the thing he would say when he stopped being the center of attention.

Thanks to the OP, I just didn't know there were so many fat people in this forum. You just don't know until something like this happens. You know?

Well, I know for a fact that I'm bony, but I guess I'm also fat now... I'm trying to imagine what it would look like in order to be both simultaneously. The only thing I can come up with that reconciles this is for me to have my bones on the outside, so I guess the OP is asserting that I'm a crustacean. (Which is cool, I like pillbugs a lot.)

 

[SirVPL]

straight and to the point.

You shouldve explored this want to submitt with your wife before going to a Domme whether you were scared or not.
Any form of sexual act with another woman is cheating.
Despite your yearnings you have a vow to keep, keep doing this and you will lose your wife and maybe more.
You are a business man, think of your reputation if one day you are followed.
Most wives get suspicious when things change. Such as a change of schedule, change of scent, change of how much money is being spent.
The longer this goes on the greater the chance you will be found out.
Soon you will become paranoid thinking someone is following you.

In all this you have a choice. Stop and save what you can, or keep going and lose everything.

The choice is yours.

 

[LallyH]

Sweetie, get this Sorry excuse for a man a taxi. To the far side of fuck. One way.

That made me laugh out loud

Thank you!

 

[Bramblethorn]

You see that's where it hits the fan. O is, arguably, the oldest blood type. Meats are supposed to be the healthiest things for O's to eat. which flies against what you said earlier...

it needs some more research for sure...
I'm O-

O's supposedly are prone to thyroid problems, so don't ignore the iodized salt. iodine is good for healthy thyroids...
also prone to bowel hyperpermeability and celiac...

Blood type diets are a load of bollocks, as are D'Adamo's claims about when the different types emerged.

That said, iodine deficiency is real and very common, so one way or another it's worth making sure you're getting enough.

 

[incubus'_sub]

all of the above just proves that people will believe anything if you dress it up with stats and pseudoscience reports.

eat whatever you want to but just eat less of it. simple really and blood types be damned. if it doesn't agree with you, don't eat it again. again, quite simple.

back to the topic. i believe that this poor guy still has a bit of blood and a few strips of skin left.

 

[Kellydude666]

all of the above just proves that people will believe anything if you dress it up with stats and pseudoscience reports.

eat whatever you want to but just eat less of it. simple really and blood types be damned. if it doesn't agree with you, don't eat it again. again, quite simple.

back to the topic. i believe that this poor guy still has a bit of blood and a few strips of skin left.

Thanks incubus, it's funny because only a couple of people actually answered my real question and a few pm'd letting me know that in fact there are a few rubber cones here who have nothing better to do than play up to their gang on mentality when we all know what their real issues are. They just never thought a stranger would bring it up and now they find they can't get away from it and they have to look in the mirror. Bitter women who hate men, it's always amusing.

Anyway I'm nothing like portrayed here and of course it's a post so I can't post every little detail here of the last nine years I'm married so of course no one can get the true picture, but any intelligent person can certainly read between. But yes I can see that this is a lifestyle that is more accepted than I originally thought. You can say I'm cheating and I accept that but I really wanted to experience the from of pain and humiliation because that is what I feel deep down inside. Me masturbating at the end of the session is a beneficial part of it because you are turned on through the whole session. As a matter of fact when I originally went to the first session I had no idea that would be part of to be honest. I was shocked when she demanded me to do so, but I would be lying if I said I didn't enjoy it.

I'm not sure how I'm going to fix my marriage, there actually were some good advice that came from a few posters here, so I'm sure I will take it and try them. I still think it's salvage and valuable to me.

 

[graceanne]

all of the above just proves that people will believe anything if you dress it up with stats and pseudoscience reports.

eat whatever you want to but just eat less of it. simple really and blood types be damned. if it doesn't agree with you, don't eat it again. again, quite simple.
.

Bull. I want to eat bread and only bread. It doesn't matter how little bread you eat, if all you're eating is carbs you aren't going to lose weight. How do I know this? Because my average carbs are about 700 A DAY. I have crohns disease, and I can't eat more than that a day. And oddly enough, I don't lose weight that way. When I switch my daily 700 calories to mostly protein and veggies suddenly I start losing weight. And, btw, my dietician TOLD me to do that and so did my primary and my gastroenterologist.

And on another note, I am SO sick of people saying 'well if you just stop eating so much you'd lose weight". It's not that easy, and only skinny people think it is. What you eat is as important as how much you eat, and any dietician will tell you that - I know I've seen more than fair share of them. I also know, from my last dietician, that MOST fat people actually don't eat enough. Ever read about the feast or famine syndrome? When people starve themselves, their metabolisms slow down, and they stop losing weight by cutting out calories - it's the bodies way of protecting itself. I have crohns disease and suffer, no matter how much I eat, from malnourished (actually diagnosed by a doctor). I have literally nearly starved to death, twice, because of inflammation in my colon and scar tissue - and I was still sporting quite a bit of weight around my middle - because my body started taking MUSCLE to save me, and left all the fucking fat! Don't tell me that eating less will help me lose weight, cause that's bull crap. If I ate less, they'd call me anorexic.

 

[Kellydude666]

Bull. I want to eat bread and only bread. It doesn't matter how little bread you eat, if all you're eating is carbs you aren't going to lose weight. How do I know this? Because my average carbs are about 700 A DAY. I have crohns disease, and I can't eat more than that a day. And oddly enough, I don't lose weight that way. When I switch my daily 700 calories to mostly protein and veggies suddenly I start losing weight. And, btw, my dietician TOLD me to do that and so did my primary and my gastroenterologist.

And on another note, I am SO sick of people saying 'well if you just stop eating so much you'd lose weight". It's not that easy, and only skinny people think it is. What you eat is as important as how much you eat, and any dietician will tell you that - I know I've seen more than fair share of them. I also know, from my last dietician, that MOST fat people actually don't eat enough. Ever read about the feast or famine syndrome? When people starve themselves, their metabolisms slow down, and they stop losing weight by cutting out calories - it's the bodies way of protecting itself. I have crohns disease and suffer, no matter how much I eat, from malnourished (actually diagnosed by a doctor). I have literally nearly starved to death, twice, because of inflammation in my colon and scar tissue - and I was still sporting quite a bit of weight around my middle - because my body started taking MUSCLE to save me, and left all the fucking fat! Don't tell me that eating less will help me lose weight, cause that's bull crap. If I ate less, they'd call me anorexic.

HaHa love the excuses!!! Keep going!

 

[graceanne]

HaHa love the excuses!!! Keep going!

Oh good you're still here! Trolls ARE so much fun! How's your 'marriage'? Hasn't she left your worthless ass, yet?

Don't worry, she'll get around to it. *pats hand*

Just as importantly, I still don't care what a liar and a cheat thinks about me. As far as I can tell your a big whiney baby and babies aren't capable of forming informed opinions as that would require maturity. So keep trying to interject your opinion - your only proving your a troll. As soon as everyone realizes that and stops feeding you my job will be done and I won't come back. I'm sure that will be a ay a happy day for you, as then you won't have people reminding you of what a piece of crap you are.

 

[blulilacgrl]

you know, I have to say your comments really make me wonder at how supportive you have been of your wife's attempts (if she has many any) to lose weight.

That you see having an understanding of one's own body chemistry and limits as not playing a role in weight loss makes me think that you have no idea what it takes for some people to lose weight.

Neither graceanne nor I have made excuses for our weight. I know that in order to lose weight there are certain things I need to do. And honestly for the past few years I have had other things that are more important than weight loss to concentrate on. When I am ready to give my attention to it, I will.

 

[KoPilot]

HaHa love the excuses!!! Keep going!

Poopy butt dummy my dad can beat up your dad and you were adopted.

 

[KoPilot]

This is boring now. Guess I should get back to making my multiple contributions to society in meatspace.

 

[graceanne]

Ok, so I had a duh moment.

troll+sub often = looking for insults as it helps get the trollsub off.

So, no more insults to the trollsub, he won't be getting his domination for free from me.

 

[blulilacgrl]

Ok, so I had a duh moment.

troll+sub often = looking for insults as it helps get the trollsub off.

So, no more insults to the trollsub, he won't be getting his domination for free from me.

[laughs] I was just thinking the same damn thing! Didn't he say in the very beginning that he likes to be humiliated? Duh. I think we gave him exactly what he is craving. I will put it down to having a 'blonde moment'.