Older Widows abandoning all sexual norms?

[2ServeWoman]

I sometimes wonder if older widows just abandon all sexual norms and become sluts like having sex with the mail man and stuff like that?

A friend of mine who is a trucker said he’ll occasionally see women over 55 or 60 lingering around truck stops just wanting to be passed around from one trucker to another.

I find it kind of hot to think that maybe people reach a certain age or life circumstances and they no longer care about the downfall of their social reputation and they just make their whole life having the most bodily sexual pleasures.

I’d be happy to visit them at their home to ASSist them getting off so intense they’re breathless! I’m open to “ALMOST” anything to please a woman!

 

[live4thebj]

I heard you find more STD’s in retirement homes than anywhere else because they just don’t give a shit anymore.

 

[2ServeWoman]

I heard you find more STD’s in retirement homes than anywhere else because they just don’t give a shit anymore.

Always has to be a fly in the ointment! It’s like hearing “Life sentence” for committing crimes (lol) it’s a moot point!

 

[hulmule]

I heard you find more STD’s in retirement homes than anywhere else because they just don’t give a shit anymore.

Dont know if they dont give a shit, but yes they have a lot of STD issues... Maybe cant remember to put on a condom?? lol Still living in the 60, 70? lol

 

[SloBlo69]

Old Ben Franklin was, for the most part, correct!

I have been with two widows, one in the past and now my present GF.
They were/are the most wanton women I have ever met. Totally insatiable, multi orgasmic and very W E T!

True, I can truly attest to that.

 

[SloBlo69]

I absolutely adore older women, most hubbies treat them like antiques, however, they now only peaking in their lives. Kids r out of the house, internet is closr than evr perhaps leading to unimaginable cravings. I find them absolutely amazing, their intellect, personal hygiene, sense of dress & not to mention stamina. Boy o boy, they are a treat beyond ur wildest imagination. Most I've seen are between 59 & 70. All I can say is WOW, they are absolutely amazing in every sense. A women beyond your wildest dreams, yet an absolute lady - I luv that

 

[SheWaits4it]

Dont know if they dont give a shit, but yes they have a lot of STD issues... Maybe cant remember to put on a condom?? lol Still living in the 60, 70? lol

Or don't want to!

I absolutely adore older women, most hubbies treat them like antiques, however, they now only peaking in their lives. Kids r out of the house, internet is closr than evr perhaps leading to unimaginable cravings. I find them absolutely amazing, their intellect, personal hygiene, sense of dress & not to mention stamina. Boy o boy, they are a treat beyond ur wildest imagination. Most I've seen are between 59 & 70. All I can say is WOW, they are absolutely amazing in every sense. A women beyond your wildest dreams, yet an absolute lady - I luv that

And whenever those older women are widows, they have the same desires as before. We love to be with men.

 

[SloBlo69]

Or don't want to!

And whenever those older women are widows, they have the same desires as before. We love to be with men.

Exactly

 

[hulmule]

I've always loved older women. In my younger years got introduced to older women , divorced and widows. As a high sexual drive guy they were more than willing to accept my sexual drive to fill their needs. But they always seemed to make sure i got my needed pleasure. I guess making sure i would return. Boy did I !! Now in my mid 60's still look at older women. Just wish i could find a FWB that we could help each other out .

 

[Scotchlander]

I suppose its arousing to think of them as horny older women. But its also worth considering that they are desperate poverty-stricken women looking to make some money.

Not at all. Most have received insurance money and an inheritance. So they are far from being poverty stricken. Money does not come into it. They have every right to continue their life’s and be with whoever they want and do whatever they want without people judging.

 

[waynejeffries]

I'm not 55, I'm almost 50 and have been a widow for near 2½ years. For myself, I was promiscuous since I was 18.. but, I was a very independent woman my whole life, and enjoyed having sexual encounters often

I'm thinking that the reason older widows may turn slutty is because a lot of women lived with their parents until they turned 18, then got married right away?
When I was 18, I babysat for a lady who had just left her husband. Her story was just that, as I described above. Married right out of high school, now she was feeling lost.

So, the women are now single/widowed and death does something to the libido. At least for me. Mine increased after my spouse died. I didn't go for anyone IRL, only virtual.. but I use orgasms to cover the pain.,

I hope this helps

Sorry to hear of your loss, but hope that the IRL part comes to fruition for you as by reading your stories, you are a woman of strong sexual thoughts, needs and feelings. Keep writing, and thanks.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

Sorry to hear of your loss, but hope that the IRL part comes to fruition for you as by reading your stories, you are a woman of strong sexual thoughts, needs and feelings. Keep writing, and thanks.

Thank you! I've always been highly charged sexually, as I say, I've lived a very colorful sex life. There's really nothing I need from an IRL relationship that I haven't already experienced.
I like new challenges, so to say.
Right now I'm experiencing some of the best orgasms I've ever had from an IRL partner. (Well, my husband was great at oral!! Those orgasms were amazing!)
Maybe it's age, knowledge of my body, knowing my desires..

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Not at all. Most have received insurance money and an inheritance. So they are far from being poverty stricken. Money does not come into it. They have every right to continue their life’s and be with whoever they want and do whatever they want without people judging.

Really?
I was responding to a reference to women at truck stops going from cab to cab.
I would be truly amazed if such women were financially comfortable.

 

[Scotchlander]

Really?
I was responding to a reference to women at truck stops going from cab to cab.
I would be truly amazed if such women were financially comfortable.

No problem. But I just read this …..

“its also worth considering that they are desperate poverty-stricken women looking to make some money”


So I thought you were referring to all “older woman / widows” as you stated…..

“I suppose its arousing to think of them as horny older women”


I have found them all to be financially stable. In fact probably a very good catch.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

No problem. But I just read this …..

“its also worth considering that they are desperate poverty-stricken women looking to make some money”


So I thought you were referring to all “older woman / widows” as you stated…..

“I suppose its arousing to think of them as horny older women”


I have found them all to be financially stable. In fact probably a very good catch.

The original poster wrote this:
"A friend of mine who is a trucker said he’ll occasionally see women over 55 or 60 lingering around truck stops just wanting to be passed around from one trucker to another."
That is the comment I was responding to.
It is unclear from your statements whether you are saying that you hang around truckstops to meet wealthy horny older women, but I do not read it that way.

 

[waynejeffries]

Thank you! I've always been highly charged sexually, as I say, I've lived a very colorful sex life. There's really nothing I need from an IRL relationship that I haven't already experienced.
I like new challenges, so to say.
Right now I'm experiencing some of the best orgasms I've ever had from an IRL partner. (Well, my husband was great at oral!! Those orgasms were amazing!)
Maybe it's age, knowledge of my body, knowing my desires..

nice, glad to hear that you are experiencing such things IRL,

 

[Uncut1969]

I've always loved older women. In my younger years got introduced to older women , divorced and widows. As a high sexual drive guy they were more than willing to accept my sexual drive to fill their needs. But they always seemed to make sure i got my needed pleasure. I guess making sure i would return. Boy did I !! Now in my mid 60's still look at older women. Just wish i could find a FWB that we could help each other out .

Wow very lucky dream cum true for you

 

[fma20fma]

I know of a middle aged single woman (i think she may be divorce or widowed), living next door in our flat. common balcony and fire escape. I have on many occasions observed a fit young boy visiting her and the clear sounds of sex through the common wall. i was tempted to peep through the door crack and found them engaged in bareback anal sex in various postures on many occasions. both were traveling in a different crazy anal sex mating, they never bothered to look up and secure privacy.

 

[fma20fma]

I wish some writer in lit gets the plot and develops this plot as a story series to thrill the readers.

 

[Uncut1969]

I know of a middle aged single woman (i think she may be divorce or widowed), living next door in our flat. common balcony and fire escape. I have on many occasions observed a fit young boy visiting her and the clear sounds of sex through the common wall. i was tempted to peep through the door crack and found them engaged in bareback anal sex in various postures on many occasions. both were traveling in a different crazy anal sex mating, they never bothered to look up and secure privacy.

Every boys dream cum true ! I have stroked to many moms -neighbors- older women thinking about fucking them growing up

 

[Xenaqueen]

I'm not 55, I'm almost 50 and have been a widow for near 2½ years. For myself, I was promiscuous since I was 18.. but, I was a very independent woman my whole life, and enjoyed having sexual encounters often

I'm thinking that the reason older widows may turn slutty is because a lot of women lived with their parents until they turned 18, then got married right away?
When I was 18, I babysat for a lady who had just left her husband. Her story was just that, as I described above. Married right out of high school, now she was feeling lost.

So, the women are now single/widowed and death does something to the libido. At least for me. Mine increased after my spouse died. I didn't go for anyone IRL, only virtual.. but I use orgasms to cover the pain.,

I hope this helps

I agree with Ssbbw4u1974. I, myself got married when I was in my late 20s. Before I got married, I was sexually active. When I was married I was loyal. But as we were in process of a divorce, he passed away. When we were separated, I immediately went back to my sexually active life. I just went through menopause, had a hysterectomy and now my sex drive is better and stronger.
In my opinion, women who have married right out of high school, had kids, and are now are divorced or widowed. Are enjoying they're freedom and life more. That is my opinion.

 

[SheWaits4it]

I agree with Ssbbw4u1974. I, myself got married when I was in my late 20s. Before I got married, I was sexually active. When I was married I was loyal. But as we were in process of a divorce, he passed away. When we were separated, I immediately went back to my sexually active life. I just went through menopause, had a hysterectomy and now my sex drive is better and stronger.
In my opinion, women who have married right out of high school, had kids, and are now are divorced or widowed. Are enjoying they're freedom and life more. That is my opinion.

I agree 100% with you. If we married early, we missed the experimental years that are so often experienced in our 20s. Now that we find ourselves without a wedding ring, we can enjoy our lives to the fullest.

 

[Older_Pervert]

I agree 100% with you. If we married early, we missed the experimental years that are so often experienced in our 20s. Now that we find ourselves without a wedding ring, we can enjoy our lives to the fullest.

It’s never too late!

 

[live4thebj]

She wasn’t quite near the listed age in this thread and she wasn’t technically going to be a widow since they were divorced but she was hurting because of her exs prominent death. She made up in her mind she just wanted to have sex on our first date. I am the one pushed to at least have dinner before we did. Was enjoyable but never saw her after that and I was interested in doing so but clearly I was a bandaid.

 

[Toffer_Guy]

As an older widow, I know that my libido is still strong (why am I here). I can enjoy sex without the trappings of life. I don't need to worry about cheating, I don't have to worry about getting pregnant. I don't want a marriage; I had that. I want the thrill that sex brings. I want communication. I don't want it broadcast to the world that I'm still enjoy sexual relations. Just because widows are older doesn't mean they can't be great partners.

Currently in my 40s. Most of my fantasies tend to be about much older women. Even when I was younger. Just never saw the intense fetishization of virginity or much younger women. Felt like a lot of insecure guys afraid of being compared to a woman’s other partners. “Can’t be the worst if she has little to nothing to compare by.”

A lot of guys need to learn if they want to pleasure a woman. They need to stop focusing on their own ‘Oh’ and ask what their partner enjoys. Showing genuine interest in your partner’s pleasure goes a long way.

I‘m more excited by women with experience and a drive for sex. Feels odd to want to fuck someone who isn’t also enjoying themself. Among my favorite pornstars is Nina Hartley. Currently in her 60s and still making hot porn. Bet with her experience she can give blowjobs to blow your mind. Imagining if I could fuck her. Knowing I can’t get her pregnant but exciting to fuck like we are trying.