Netzach
>semiotics?
- Joined
- Mar 3, 2003
- Posts
- 21,732
Let me ask this follow up question then.
What where you confession habits like in a previous relationship that did not employ punishment. Any difference?
I'm very transparent in my relationships.
Whether I'm in control or not, really. That doesn't change much.
When I'm on the bottom, with T, sometimes it's really hard to ask for things. It's partly that I don't like worrying if I'm influencing/controlling when I'm not supposed to, and part of it is that it's damn embarrassing. I get knotted up about whether I should or shouldn't ask for something and then I do and I find out he's tickled by my having to expose myself to that level.