Reflections of a straight guy who recently bottomed

[luckyseven]

I am so happy that you got to try anal, my first time has yet to come but when I topped a guy we both loved it, I didn't cum in him but he sucked me dry, my cock was hurting with the amount of spunk he sucked out of me.

I hope it won't be too long as it has been repeated here many times it is something to enjoy and savour.

 

[blade_rocknut]

I'm kinda in this club. Early/mid-30s. Married and settled for a decade. However when that fell apart I started dabbling with cock. Always safe.

I'd bene toying my own ass for years, like 20+ so I know what feels good and what I can take.

However, month or two ago an impromptu stroke meet with a regular gay guy who's quite hung, resulted in me bottoming. On my back, legs over his shoulders.

Observations during; it was painful at first, good lord I felt full. Perhaps because I wasn't controling the ingress of 7"+ cock into me. However once he'd got going, it was incredible. I was writhing around his bed, making noises I've never done before in my life... Not faking either. Eyes shut... Moaning... Become at one with the cock in me. As soon as he touched my cock, I was solid, and begging for release.

In all honesty I probably lasted under 10 minutes from start to end before I had an explosive orgasm and felt him swell then fill my ass.


Aside from the physical feelings, the mental aspect was phenomenal. I had no interest in him, guys don't sexually arouse me. However, his cock filling me and pushing all the right spots... Insane.

Afterwards I felt spent, weak, and a little embarrassed. Especially when he mentioned how slutty I'd got.

Within an hour or two, is reconciled with myself and come to understand that I am indeed bi. I love women, all of them. 18-70yr old. There isn't many I wouldn't jump into bed with. Beguiling creatures, dangerous and yet so soft.

However, cock works for me on a couple of levels.. firstly the physical sensation, secondly the utter submission I go into... And lastly, guys are typically no fuss. So set meet up, meet, cum, leave.


My one and only bottoming experience left me wanting more, but on my terms. And when I want it. Equally I've had a couple of women since and had a whale of a time

Wow, that was quite the description.
I'm curious af myself, just not attracted to guys. :-/

 

[Terrylipstick]

I am 28, married 7 years. For the past year and a half my wife and I have been involved in the swing scene. We live in a mid size city that has a strong lgbt community and our swing group is open to all. I am straight but have developed friendships with several gay men. Two weekends ago there was a large swing party help that encompassed 3 houses. A few of my gay friends had made plans with this other guy to attend the party at one of the houses and bottom for them but this guy ended up being a no show. Partly out of curiosity but mostly out of friendship I ended up suggesting that I take this guys place. After discussing it with me to make sure I was serious about this 4 friends of mine ended up topping me for about 2 hours. I cant say that I really felt into it sexually but felt ok doing it more from a friendship perspective. I don't have any regrets for it or feel any less of a man from the experience. I do feel that I grew some just as a person. I am just wondering if anyone else have had any type of similar experience.

What an awesome and liberating experience.

 

[Eighty6ed]

Good info

I’ve been curious about bottoming lately and it’s hard to get a good answer about the experience sometimes from those that have. I haven’t been with a guy since my teens and never took a cock. Like a lot of guys cock turns me on, but I’m not so much attracted to the men themselves. The thought of it is extremely erotic though, letting myself go and getting filled up with a hard dick

 

[bwb58]

ok, guys, I been wanting to bottom for a long time now, bought a dildo, but it was too big, so i bought this training set, and took the small first time, moved up to next size and took it the second day, now up to the biggest one, and about half way in with it. I will try it daily till I get it. So question for you guys, once I can take the biggest one with ease, do you think i am ready? here is what I got.

https://shop.literotica.com/product/CNVEF-EDJ-5350-05-2/wendy-williams-anal-trainer-kit-black

 

[BrokenQuill]

While I have identified as Bi for quite some time, it has only been recently that I have bottomed for the first time (unfortunately only a couple of weeks before lock-down here in the UK).

I had been looking forward to it for some time, but I had been waiting for the right guy to be with as so many gave the impression that I was going to be fucked long and hard by them from the get go.

My first experience was everything I wanted it to be.

It was a long passionate build up to get us both excited, and a very gentle experience. In-fact he was super gentle and applied loads of lube, asking me if everything wad alright all of the time. We didn't have any reason to rush, which also took any pressure off of either of us.

I loved it, and I want a lot more of the same, unfortunately though I will have to wait until this crazy time has passed.

Luckily I am still in touch with him and we are planning a fabulous reunion as soon as restrictions are eased.

 

[OlderBtm4U]

While I have identified as Bi for quite some time, it has only been recently that I have bottomed for the first time (unfortunately only a couple of weeks before lock-down here in the UK).

I had been looking forward to it for some time, but I had been waiting for the right guy to be with as so many gave the impression that I was going to be fucked long and hard by them from the get go.

My first experience was everything I wanted it to be.

It was a long passionate build up to get us both excited, and a very gentle experience. In-fact he was super gentle and applied loads of lube, asking me if everything wad alright all of the time. We didn't have any reason to rush, which also took any pressure off of either of us.

I loved it, and I want a lot more of the same, unfortunately though I will have to wait until this crazy time has passed.

Luckily I am still in touch with him and we are planning a fabulous reunion as soon as restrictions are eased.

How wonderful! Thanks for sharing.
I hope the time passes quickly until the restrictions are lifted.

 

[LauraWilling]

Please excuse a woman slipping in here, but I have a question for you, 28straightguy. This was a large swing party and you said your wife was into swinging with you. Was she at another house party or with you and if not with you did she know and okay with you helping out your gay friends? My husband was orally bi and I am bi also, but curious about this.

 

[28straightguy]

Please excuse a woman slipping in here, but I have a question for you, 28straightguy. This was a large swing party and you said your wife was into swinging with you. Was she at another house party or with you and if not with you did she know and okay with you helping out your gay friends? My husband was orally bi and I am bi also, but curious about this.

She was there, This was spread out among the 3 houses. She had hooked up with this other couple. I just was not having any luck as far as being able to get with any other couples that evening so I figured what the heck, why not do this for my gay friends. They were feeling pretty down that this other guy had backed out on them.

 

[28straightguy]

What an awesome and liberating experience.

Thanks

 

[LauraWilling]

She was there, This was spread out among the 3 houses. She had hooked up with this other couple. I just was not having any luck as far as being able to get with any other couples that evening so I figured what the heck, why not do this for my gay friends. They were feeling pretty down that this other guy had backed out on them.

So she is aware of what you did and is fine with it. I'm glad. I think what you did was cool and being a good friend. Just don't let it bother you. I've done similar things for friends. You sound like a good guy and a good friend.

 

[28straightguy]

So she is aware of what you did and is fine with it. I'm glad. I think what you did was cool and being a good friend. Just don't let it bother you. I've done similar things for friends. You sound like a good guy and a good friend.

I am just at a crossroads of where I have been asked to do it again.

 

[LauraWilling]

Do you have any feeling pro or con about doing it again? I know what you said about the physical part, but I may have missed it if you said anything about having bad or good feelings about it afterwards or none at all that you just helped out a friend or friends.

If you have been asked to do it again, go to You Tube, Look up Sexplanations. The lady doctor on there is a hoot and she has answer to almost everything sexual and if you look at what she says about anal sex, check that out. Plus she is entertaining and even funny most of the time, but great information. Gay, bi or straight. It does not sound like your group of friends will judge you if you do it. You might even get a great BJ. I assume you will have tme to think it over if you have already been asked to do it again. Relax, Don't over think it. It is only another choice on the menu.

Two last things before I quite bugging you. If you do it, remember safe sex Condoms are an absolute. And read up on how to prepare yourself for it.
I hope this helps. Good Luck and enjoy whatever you decide.

 

[28straightguy]

Do you have any feeling pro or con about doing it again? I know what you said about the physical part, but I may have missed it if you said anything about having bad or good feelings about it afterwards or none at all that you just helped out a friend or friends.

If you have been asked to do it again, go to You Tube, Look up Sexplanations. The lady doctor on there is a hoot and she has answer to almost everything sexual and if you look at what she says about anal sex, check that out. Plus she is entertaining and even funny most of the time, but great information. Gay, bi or straight. It does not sound like your group of friends will judge you if you do it. You might even get a great BJ. I assume you will have tme to think it over if you have already been asked to do it again. Relax, Don't over think it. It is only another choice on the menu.

Two last things before I quite bugging you. If you do it, remember safe sex Condoms are an absolute. And read up on how to prepare yourself for it.
I hope this helps. Good Luck and enjoy whatever you decide.

Emotionally I just didn't have any feeling one way or another with it. I did it as being a friend. As friends these guys just feel I should be able to do it again for them. I just posted about it as a way to try to help me work thru my decision. The only real negative aspect from it all was feeling a bit sore the next day. The guys say that's to be expected from doing this.

 

[saintcero]

Emotionally I just didn't have any feeling one way or another with it. I did it as being a friend. As friends these guys just feel I should be able to do it again for them. I just posted about it as a way to try to help me work thru my decision. The only real negative aspect from it all was feeling a bit sore the next day. The guys say that's to be expected from doing this.

with regards to your first experience, did your partners help with cleaning internally before they mounted you or did you clean yourself ahead of time?

 

[28straightguy]

with regards to your first experience, did your partners help with cleaning internally before they mounted you or did you clean yourself ahead of time?

I did myself. I was given an enema bulb. It had directions on it as far as how to use it. I used it in the bathroom until I felt clean.

 

[saintcero]

thanks for the response. wondering what the mindset of your friends might be. are they just wanting another round with you just for the sex or perhaps they think you need some encouragement to come around to their way of thinking. are all three talking with you about a second time or is one doing the talking more than the others.

 

[28straightguy]

thanks for the response. wondering what the mindset of your friends might be. are they just wanting another round with you just for the sex or perhaps they think you need some encouragement to come around to their way of thinking. are all three talking with you about a second time or is one doing the talking more than the others.

Its the 4 of them talking to me. They are 10 to 20 years older them me. They have been telling me that I am just a natural for this the way I was able to handle it the 1st time. They view this as just sex.

 

[Astroman72]

Not trying to be rude here, as we're all on our own journey, but the whole scenario still seems rather odd to me.

You've got four gay guys, who presumably love cock, and none of them are interested in or even willing to bottom for the others?

And you, who have no interest in cock and derive zero sexual pleasure from anal sex, volunteered to do it once and are considering doing it again? And you've stated several times that you felt nothing emotionally?

And if these are gay guys that are all much older than you and you met them at a swingers party, do you really have a such a deep friendship with them?

I'm not judging you for doing this, (heck, the fantasy of getting fucked by four gay guys gets me instantly hard,) but I'm just not clear on what needs or desires of yours are motivating you to go along with all of this.

 

[SuperSissy]

I'm kinda in this club. Early/mid-30s. Married and settled for a decade. However when that fell apart I started dabbling with cock. Always safe.

I'd bene toying my own ass for years, like 20+ so I know what feels good and what I can take.

However, month or two ago an impromptu stroke meet with a regular gay guy who's quite hung, resulted in me bottoming. On my back, legs over his shoulders.

Observations during; it was painful at first, good lord I felt full. Perhaps because I wasn't controling the ingress of 7"+ cock into me. However once he'd got going, it was incredible. I was writhing around his bed, making noises I've never done before in my life... Not faking either. Eyes shut... Moaning... Become at one with the cock in me. As soon as he touched my cock, I was solid, and begging for release.

In all honesty I probably lasted under 10 minutes from start to end before I had an explosive orgasm and felt him swell then fill my ass.


Aside from the physical feelings, the mental aspect was phenomenal. I had no interest in him, guys don't sexually arouse me. However, his cock filling me and pushing all the right spots... Insane.

Afterwards I felt spent, weak, and a little embarrassed. Especially when he mentioned how slutty I'd got.

Within an hour or two, is reconciled with myself and come to understand that I am indeed bi. I love women, all of them. 18-70yr old. There isn't many I wouldn't jump into bed with. Beguiling creatures, dangerous and yet so soft.

However, cock works for me on a couple of levels.. firstly the physical sensation, secondly the utter submission I go into... And lastly, guys are typically no fuss. So set meet up, meet, cum, leave.


My one and only bottoming experience left me wanting more, but on my terms. And when I want it. Equally I've had a couple of women since and had a whale of a time

This is a great post. Personally, I think that left on our own, we'd probably all be bisexual, or more. That was way to complicated to deal with by the people who made the societal rules centuries ago. Procreation won out over reality, because they needed to grow the population. My philosophical post of the day.

 

[28straightguy]

Not trying to be rude here, as we're all on our own journey, but the whole scenario still seems rather odd to me.

You've got four gay guys, who presumably love cock, and none of them are interested in or even willing to bottom for the others?

And you, who have no interest in cock and derive zero sexual pleasure from anal sex, volunteered to do it once and are considering doing it again? And you've stated several times that you felt nothing emotionally?

And if these are gay guys that are all much older than you and you met them at a swingers party, do you really have a such a deep friendship with them?

I'm not judging you for doing this, (heck, the fantasy of getting fucked by four gay guys gets me instantly hard,) but I'm just not clear on what needs or desires of yours are motivating you to go along with all of this.

If I knew my desires about this I wouldn't be feeling the way I do. I had previously thought about bi sex but the reality is a lot different than thinking about it. Others from the swing group have been supportive of what I did.

 

[jabberwockyjon]

I wouldn't do it again. You don't have an emotional or a physical desire to do it, and if they were actually good friends they wouldn't be pushing you for a repeat. It's obviously a thrill for them to fuck a younger guy who doesn't play for their team.

 

[LauraWilling]

I am glad everybody in your swing group is supportive of you and I hope you will let us know what you decide on doing it again and how it goes for all involved. Good luck and enjoy which ever you decide.

 

[Bluebuell]

Never have I acted on my fantasy, but I am getting older and would kinda like to see where it goes what it is and if it is just a kinky streak.
I have always had the fantasy of being taken by a man. Usually I daydream about just walking into a stranger's house, going to his bedroom and stripping nude. I pay face down on the bed as he walks into the room. He joins me on the bed and straddles my knees, and works a lubricated finger into my ass prepping me for his cock. Once I am comfortable he slides into me bareback, just a little at first. Then as I get used to him he slides his entire shaft into me and stays there enjoying the feeling. Eventually he builds a rhythm and fucks me gently. I gasp as I can feel him ready to cum, he pushes deeper each time now and I can feel him cumming deep inside of me.


But like I said for now it's just a fantasy

 

[28straightguy]

After talking this over with my wife I have decided to go thru with it again. Her advice was that I should. The main things that we felt fell in favor of it was.

1. Physically I was ok with it.
2. Emotionally it didn't have any negative effect on me.
3. Its an enjoyable experience for the guys.

Being swingers we have always had the mind set that if others wanted to do things with us and it didn't have any negative impacts on us that we would be open to doing it. This sorta just falls into that category. Once things are declared safe socially I will work out a meeting with the guys.