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Reflections of a straight guy who recently bottomed

VERY cool! I am happy for all involved, but especially you and your wife. I did not want to say what I would choose to do as I didn't want to influence you, but I am bi. but mainly submissively bi. I do enjoy being with other women so I would have made the same decision as you did and for the exact same reasons other than I enjoy giving pleasure to both women and men.

You and your wife worked out your decision in a smart and logical way.

Often the second or third time doing something new people find they enjoy something new because it is more familiar and not so strange and you have a good idea of what will happen and what will happen so we naturally relax a little more each time. Remember how nervous the first time you had your very first sexually experiment or first day of school or a new job. Same thing :D

Play safe, use lots of lube and prepare yourself before hand and enjoy! :D
 
Oh I forgot to mention. Let us know how it goes for you, the guys and everybody concerned. :D Hugs.
 
LauraWilling said:
VERY cool! I am happy for all involved, but especially you and your wife. I did not want to say what I would choose to do as I didn't want to influence you, but I am bi. but mainly submissively bi. I do enjoy being with other women so I would have made the same decision as you did and for the exact same reasons other than I enjoy giving pleasure to both women and men.

You and your wife worked out your decision in a smart and logical way.

Often the second or third time doing something new people find they enjoy something new because it is more familiar and not so strange and you have a good idea of what will happen and what will happen so we naturally relax a little more each time. Remember how nervous the first time you had your very first sexually experiment or first day of school or a new job. Same thing :D

Play safe, use lots of lube and prepare yourself before hand and enjoy! :D
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LauraWilling said:
Oh I forgot to mention. Let us know how it goes for you, the guys and everybody concerned. :D Hugs.
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Laura sounds exceedingly cool, and quite level headed.

My only addition would be to note that this will likely change the dynamics of the swing lifestyle for you. I've noticed an awful lot of couples don't want to play with bi or bi curious males.
It's an extension of their insecurities, I guess...but it's a real phenomenon.
That May not affect you at all. I've seen a lot of couples' swinging profiles look really, really good until I see the disclaimer about no bi men. Not that I was even interested in bi play with their guy, but now I'm turned off by the judgementalism.
In the end, I guess it just presorts the small minded folk.
 
So I sent the guys texts this morning telling them of my decision to be willing to do this again. They are happy about it. One of the guys has asked if I would be open to the idea of a few more being involved. This has taken me a bit off guard. Is this common in this type of setting?
 
28straightguy said:
So I sent the guys texts this morning telling them of my decision to be willing to do this again. They are happy about it. One of the guys has asked if I would be open to the idea of a few more being involved. This has taken me a bit off guard. Is this common in this type of setting?
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The most women at the same time I have been with is myself and two others, but I have been at parties where some male friends took me aside to play and other guys seemed to join in at times. So from my only experience in anything similar is me and some guys, so I can't say if this is common or not. I know I enjoyed my experiences when some extras joined in, but guys and a girl is different than guys and a guy, so it is hard for me to say. Hmmm Just be sure all play safe.
 
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28straightguy said:
So I sent the guys texts this morning telling them of my decision to be willing to do this again. They are happy about it. One of the guys has asked if I would be open to the idea of a few more being involved. This has taken me a bit off guard. Is this common in this type of setting?
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Sounds pretty normal to me. And of course it happening to someone who doesn't even care for it makes me (and probably others) a little envious.
 
28straightguy said:
I am 28, married 7 years. For the past year and a half my wife and I have been involved in the swing scene. We live in a mid size city that has a strong lgbt community and our swing group is open to all. I am straight but have developed friendships with several gay men. Two weekends ago there was a large swing party help that encompassed 3 houses. A few of my gay friends had made plans with this other guy to attend the party at one of the houses and bottom for them but this guy ended up being a no show. Partly out of curiosity but mostly out of friendship I ended up suggesting that I take this guys place. After discussing it with me to make sure I was serious about this 4 friends of mine ended up topping me for about 2 hours. I cant say that I really felt into it sexually but felt ok doing it more from a friendship perspective. I don't have any regrets for it or feel any less of a man from the experience. I do feel that I grew some just as a person. I am just wondering if anyone else have had any type of similar experience.
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i'm glad you made the leap but i wish you'd done it out of desire rather than duty. what you really need is to find a guy who turns you on sexually and have him top you. i think that you'd probably enjoy it a lot more if it was something you actually desired. now that you've jumped the fence i hope you'll experiment with partners and positions to discover what you really enjoy. and, switch up positions at the next gangbang, try laying on your back with your legs up so that the cock in your ass stimulates your prostate. try flip fucking, too.
 
rae121452 said:
i'm glad you made the leap but i wish you'd done it out of desire rather than duty. what you really need is to find a guy who turns you on sexually and have him top you. i think that you'd probably enjoy it a lot more if it was something you actually desired. now that you've jumped the fence i hope you'll experiment with partners and positions to discover what you really enjoy. and, switch up positions at the next gangbang, try laying on your back with your legs up so that the cock in your ass stimulates your prostate. try flip fucking, too.
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You are so right - having the desire makes all the difference between an 'okay' experience and one that totally satisfies you.
 
rae121452 said:
i'm glad you made the leap but i wish you'd done it out of desire rather than duty. what you really need is to find a guy who turns you on sexually and have him top you. i think that you'd probably enjoy it a lot more if it was something you actually desired. now that you've jumped the fence i hope you'll experiment with partners and positions to discover what you really enjoy. and, switch up positions at the next gangbang, try laying on your back with your legs up so that the cock in your ass stimulates your prostate. try flip fucking, too.
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I am just going to play things by ear and see how it goes. My understanding is they have another 2 guys interested in joining. They want to try it 2 at a time just so that everyone is more engaged in it.
 
WHOA! 2 at a time?!? I don't think you are ready for DP yet from what you have said or do you mean one in the back door and one orally?
 
OH BOY! Are you ready to try that? How do you feel about it and have you discussed it with your wife and is she okay with it. I was with my husband but he had done it before meeting me but I was fine with it.
 
LauraWilling said:
OH BOY! Are you ready to try that? How do you feel about it and have you discussed it with your wife and is she okay with it. I was with my husband but he had done it before meeting me but I was fine with it.
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My wife feels that its good that I am open minded enough to try this for he guys. The guys themselves have said they will help me through it. This is going to be a new area for me.
 
Actually I think you will find you enjoy it. I agree with your wife on this also. I am happy that you are getting to experience both of these experiences. Very open minded of both of you and you are very brave to really do it.

Most straight guys I ever met that tried sucking another guy said they were surprised how much they enjoy doing it and all the sensations of having one in their mouths. It is an interesting and fun thing to do. I think you will like it more than you might think right now. :D

There is a thread in the Fetish area asking straight men whether they would rather kiss a guy on the lips or suck his cock. The majority said they would prefer to suck his cock. Interesting I thought. :D
 
Damn. 6 on one...I would love to experience that. Especially with a woman who wants to watch.
 
LauraWilling said:
There is a thread in the Fetish area asking straight men whether they would rather kiss a guy on the lips or suck his cock. The majority said they would prefer to suck his cock. Interesting I thought. :D
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I can relay to that. I don’t consider myself bisexual because I’m not attracted men. Nothing physically about a mans looks or any attribute that I would be attracted to in a woman turns me on. But fantasize about being a top/bottom/switch all the time, especially in a MMF scenario. Even being gang banged as the OP described is attractive.

Kissing is more of an emotional bond I guess.
 
jabberwockyjon said:
I'd love that too, especially licking her clean afterwards. We could invite more guys and take shifts ;)
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OOOH Sounds wonderful, but I don't want to take away from 28 straightguys thread. PM me if you want. :D
I feel this is an important thread and I want to support him. I just tried to throw some levity in here. :D
 
These guys are just starting to ask me alot of questions. They want to know if I would consider letting them tie me up for it.
 
28straightguy said:
I am 28, married 7 years. For the past year and a half my wife and I have been involved in the swing scene. We live in a mid size city that has a strong lgbt community and our swing group is open to all. I am straight but have developed friendships with several gay men. Two weekends ago there was a large swing party help that encompassed 3 houses. A few of my gay friends had made plans with this other guy to attend the party at one of the houses and bottom for them but this guy ended up being a no show. Partly out of curiosity but mostly out of friendship I ended up suggesting that I take this guys place. After discussing it with me to make sure I was serious about this 4 friends of mine ended up topping me for about 2 hours. I cant say that I really felt into it sexually but felt ok doing it more from a friendship perspective. I don't have any regrets for it or feel any less of a man from the experience. I do feel that I grew some just as a person. I am just wondering if anyone else have had any type of similar experience.
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Wow, interesting to get your perspective. Sounds so HOT! :)
 
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