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At the moment, because we have two teenagers living at home, our rituals are few and simple.

I will share a couple, if you want.

(Well, I will share a couple anyway!)



BEDTIME
I have a set bedtime ... 10pm - though often I am slightly late if we are both engrosed on reading the forum.
I state the time, and if the kids are not present, ask permission to retire. If they are present, I will alter the wording to something along the lines of 'I will go to bed if you don't mind'.

I do the bathroom routine and then prepare the bedroom. I have set tasks once the bedroom door is closed:
*Disrobe
*Write my journal entry for the day
*Set out the toys, cuffs and play collar. (This task is difficult as I have to try and judge which toys He might like to choose from, or indeed, if He wishes for any to be out.
*If a definate play session has been indicated, light the candles.
*Get into position for Him to enter the room.


Once Master is in the room, I greet Him and then await instructions.
 
Willow

WillowPuss said:
At the moment, because we have two teenagers living at home, our rituals are few and simple.

I will share a couple, if you want.

(Well, I will share a couple anyway!)



BEDTIME
I have a set bedtime ... 10pm - though often I am slightly late if we are both engrosed on reading the forum.
I state the time, and if the kids are not present, ask permission to retire. If they are present, I will alter the wording to something along the lines of 'I will go to bed if you don't mind'.

I do the bathroom routine and then prepare the bedroom. I have set tasks once the bedroom door is closed:
*Disrobe
*Write my journal entry for the day
*Set out the toys, cuffs and play collar. (This task is difficult as I have to try and judge which toys He might like to choose from, or indeed, if He wishes for any to be out.
*If a definate play session has been indicated, light the candles.
*Get into position for Him to enter the room.


Once Master is in the room, I greet Him and then await instructions.
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Your post was a DELIGHT for me to read,...thanks for sharing. :rose:
 
thank you willow

I always enjoy peeking inside of the D/s world you share with your Master.

I enjoy knowing He has given you a bed time ~~~grin~~~
and such a nice early one at that!
 
WillowPuss said:
At the moment, because we have two teenagers living at home, our rituals are few and simple.

I will share a couple, if you want.

(Well, I will share a couple anyway!)



BEDTIME
I have a set bedtime ... 10pm - though often I am slightly late if we are both engrosed on reading the forum.
I state the time, and if the kids are not present, ask permission to retire. If they are present, I will alter the wording to something along the lines of 'I will go to bed if you don't mind'.

I do the bathroom routine and then prepare the bedroom. I have set tasks once the bedroom door is closed:
*Disrobe
*Write my journal entry for the day
*Set out the toys, cuffs and play collar. (This task is difficult as I have to try and judge which toys He might like to choose from, or indeed, if He wishes for any to be out.
*If a definate play session has been indicated, light the candles.
*Get into position for Him to enter the room.


Once Master is in the room, I greet Him and then await instructions.
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Thanks Willow!

Is it me or are all these rituals wonderful? I love this aspect of D/s the best!

Ebony
 
hmmmm

maybe We need a RULES thread...

structure structure structure amongst the spontanaity (sp?) of BDSM moments.
 
I think a "rules" thread would be very entertaining... not to mention a thread about "common practices" or something like that... can't quite put my finger on what I'm trying to say here. Maybe I'm thinking of something more along the line of "Common punishments" or "disaplinary actions".

Anyhoo... as usual, I'm positive anything you post will be very educational and a pleasure to read Shadowsdream.

Thanks again for all you bring to the board.

PBW
 
I am aware that I said I would share a couple ... and only posted one.

Here is another for you to view.


Waking
I have always been a 'morning' person, and have acted as the 'alarm clock' for the rest of the family. This fact has been incorportaed into my ritual.

*Rise immediately alarm goes off.
*Quick ablutions
*Go downstairs and prepare Master lunch for work. Put this in his briefcase
*Prepare a thermos of coffee
*Turn the PC on and open IE and OE to download the mail that came in overnight.
*At 7am (and I am very occasionaally late by a couple of minutes :eek: ) wake Master in the manner He desires.
*Await any instructions He may care to give me.
 
Well, at the risk of looking as if I am following Shadowsdream (being in roughly the same time zone has its advantages :)), I will answer first.


For the bedtime greeting, I am on my knees, facing Master, head bowed.

For the morning ritual, I am kneeling beside Him on the bed.

For saying goodbye, or hello, I am standing before Him, resting my head on his chest.
 
This is so enlightening

I want to thank all of you for the insights into your daily lives...

I love these rituals... and they have given me some really great ideas.

Himself and I have been looking for another sub, as you may know... and this thread has given me some great ideas for dealing with one in particular.
 
These rituals are wonderful! It is indeed interesting and fascinating to see how people express their D/s in real life. Not sure if I could do all these things, but then, that's what makes this so great. Plus, the idea of talking to a Dom and thinking up/devising little rituals that have special meaning has only got to intensify the relationship!


Thanks to all for sharing!
 
Robuck and I are hoping to try and find some kind of ritual/ceremony or something really special soon - He is going to buy me a ring for my anniversary (and I want to get Him one) and it would be marvelous if we could find something to make the exchange of rings that bit extra special.


Any ideas ... please?
 
At castlerealm.com they have a section on collaring and rituals... Willow you might get some ideas there.

And there is this other site called www.twoheartsonesoul.com. They might have something there.

Try those two first.... they might have some ideas.
 
Ritualizing house work

I am mulling over this one, as I do not have a 24/7, but my boys do housework when they are around. Anyone has one to share?

Eb
 
1. Clean the gutters

2. Clean the chimney

3. Clean the garage

4. Mow the lawn

5. Do the windows



PBW "Yawnnnn.. you are getting sleepy, very very sleepy"
 
P. B. Walker said:
1. Clean the gutters

2. Clean the chimney

3. Clean the garage

4. Mow the lawn

5. Do the windows



PBW "Yawnnnn.. you are getting sleepy, very very sleepy"
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I should have said apartment work.

LOL
 
Eb, if you wanted to be very exacting ... there is always cleaning the bath or kitchen sink with a toothbrush routine.




(Hmmmmmmm ... should I be suggesting a thing ????)
 
~Eb

You could introduce the mask to the apartment cleaning routine and make a beautiful ritual out of putting it on...explaining why You think it is necessary...checking the straps and buckles from time to time to reinforce the feelings of vulnerability and occassionally give those damn panties a stroke or two.

The tasks become much more difficult with the mask but add a real dynamic if the sub enjoys bondage and You enjoy his humiliation as he tries to see past the straps to ensure he is doing a good job.

Even removing the mask and discussing how You feel about the quality of the work can be built into a ritual that is fullfilling and beautiful as well.
 
Actually, Shadowsdream speaking og wearing masks whilst cleaning reminded me of the time Master practised his rope tying on me. I can't remember what the particular thing is called now ... but the rope goes around the waist and through the legs ... with knots in certain places ...

anywho - he put this on me, and then had me do the daily tasks. Every movement I made reminded me that I was under His control and in His bondage.

Not sure how you could adapt this to male subs ... but I am sure inventive Domme minds will think of something.
 
willow

Damn and I have sooo much rope just looking for a task..and house keeping is definately a task!
 
WillowPuss said:
Eb, if you wanted to be very exacting ... there is always cleaning the bath or kitchen sink with a toothbrush routine.




(Hmmmmmmm ... should I be suggesting a thing ????)
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I thought about that, but then I would have to wait for him to finish! LOL

Eb
 
Shadowsdream said:
~Eb

You could introduce the mask to the apartment cleaning routine and make a beautiful ritual out of putting it on...explaining why You think it is necessary...checking the straps and buckles from time to time to reinforce the feelings of vulnerability and occassionally give those damn panties a stroke or two.

The tasks become much more difficult with the mask but add a real dynamic if the sub enjoys bondage and You enjoy his humiliation as he tries to see past the straps to ensure he is doing a good job.

Even removing the mask and discussing how You feel about the quality of the work can be built into a ritual that is fullfilling and beautiful as well.
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I could do that, and I could add some edge to it by having him do part of it in CBT.

LOL
Eb <evil Domme in training>
 
educational

to everyone on this thread,
i appreciate all the input on this thread. i am receiving an excellent education. lol. thanks to all.
i find the use of ritual to be incredibly erotic. from the information and inspiration here, ritual will figure more and more predominantly in the d/s paradigm i'm slowly constructing.
shadowsdream, the systematic and detailed postings are incredible. they will be put to good use.
willowpuss, i've enjoyed your postings as well. they serve as a fine counterpoint to shadow's experiences.
again, thanks to all.
inbetweendays
 
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