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Lady2020 said:
Before I left my husband, I had relatives who assured me it would be better if my husband and I had separate bedrooms instead of divorcing. For the kids. I chose to leave. Unfortunately, I thought telling my husband upfront about leaving was the honorable way to handle things. His response was to rape me. I know what it's like to be in a marriage where my partner has different ideas. I could have stayed for financial reasons. And sold my soul. Fucking make a decision or quit whining.
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Proud of you for leaving! Those relatives should have their noses rubbed in their ignorance. For me, even accepting a reluctant "mercy fuck" from my wife would be the equivalent of forcing myself on her, and the idea of it sickens me. I'm not interested in anything less than a fully willing partner who WANTS to engage in sex with me. I have "creative" ideas of what should be done with rapists.

I truly hope you find some genuine, healthy love.
 
writerzblok92 said:
What valuable insight. I can understand much of that. Those last two items, though, they really struck home with me.

My wife decided she didn't want to have sex anymore when she was in her late 30s so for her, it was a conscious decision and not one triggered by the hormonal changes from menopause.
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Thank you - indeed, it destroys the intimate closeness and impacts on what otherwise is a good relationship
 
AttachedandLonely_UK said:
Today I'm thankful that I should no longer post in this thread...
I've not had sex, still, but I'm no longer in a sexless marriage either.

It all came to a head earlier in the week, and I left. Years too late, probably, but I'm going to enjoy myself now, that's for sure.
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I made the jump almost three years ago. It's lonely sometimes (I'll never get used to eating alone) but less lonely than it was in my marriage and life's different when you've only got half your worldly goods lol. But, every day is another day full of choice and opportunities. I wish you well.
 
The depression some other folks have talked about is hitting hard right now, no change to the situation, I guess work stress on top of the lack of sexual satisfaction is hitting extra at the moment. I hope others are having a great day and good for you Attached, I hope you enjoy yourself to your hearts content.
 
Unleashthelegions said:
The depression some other folks have talked about is hitting hard right now, no change to the situation, I guess work stress on top of the lack of sexual satisfaction is hitting extra at the moment. I hope others are having a great day and good for you Attached, I hope you enjoy yourself to your hearts content.
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Be careful with your depression. I have lived with it since the mid 80s. I had it Under control until I had a heart attack. Then it walked back into my life like a bad nightmare. I still fight with it each day. But I know things can get better. It would help if if there is a way to relieve some stress and sex is a fantastic way. If you need to talk with someone I am always available day or night.
 
Friedfred said:
Be careful with your depression. I have lived with it since the mid 80s. I had it Under control until I had a heart attack. Then it walked back into my life like a bad nightmare. I still fight with it each day. But I know things can get better. It would help if if there is a way to relieve some stress and sex is a fantastic way. If you need to talk with someone I am always available day or night.
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I appreciate it, thankfully my only health issues at 40 is ulcerative colitis. But that doesn't help much either. I appreciate the offer and may have to take you up on it.
 
Wonder if I should ask to change my username? 😂
I should probably edit my profile too!

So, today has been productive - I will be moving out of the bed and breakfast after work on Monday and into a temporary flat - it will only be for a few months, but can at least be my place until then. Enough room for my stuff, secure parking for my toy and a spare room for my teenage kids to stay over when they want. That's all I need for now.

I understand the depression, the relief I have now is all too real. Please look after yourselves.

And now, I'm going to the pub for a beer or two - I'm not a big drinker, but I'm going to go to a new pub to meet some new people. Have a good evening all!
 
Series 6 said:
I hope so! I'm willing.

My marriage was sexless throughout it's 12 year existence for several reasons. I've been divorced for 7 years and it's been difficult finding a partner. I'm up for a fun partner, if anyone is game. :D;)
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I live in New Orleans. If you're in the area, I'll gladly help you out. But if your too far away, We can always chat together and maybe help relieve each other's tension
 
AttachedandLonely_UK said:
Today I'm thankful that I should no longer post in this thread...
I've not had sex, still, but I'm no longer in a sexless marriage either.

It all came to a head earlier in the week, and I left. Years too late, probably, but I'm going to enjoy myself now, that's for sure.
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Kudos to you for having the courage to cast off the lines & sail on. I truly hope you find happiness!
 
Now it was only for about 6 months, but my wife and I opened up our relationship and I never felt it was risky when she was with someone else. Now granted she didn't feel the same way so she made I close things back up so back to where here I am, heh, but I think it is more about knowing where the two of you are, having trust and also just being willing to let their needs be more important than my ego, at least that was how it was to me. So I never felt any jealousy, but that may be more of something that is just in my brain chemistry than something you can just override if that isn't how you feel.
 
Unleashthelegions said:
Now it was only for about 6 months, but my wife and I opened up our relationship and I never felt it was risky when she was with someone else. Now granted she didn't feel the same way so she made I close things back up so back to where here I am, heh, but I think it is more about knowing where the two of you are, having trust and also just being willing to let their needs be more important than my ego, at least that was how it was to me. So I never felt any jealousy, but that may be more of something that is just in my brain chemistry than something you can just override if that isn't how you feel.
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I couldn't do that and it's not about my ego, anyway it's me not getting any.
 
JMJ4Play said:
It seems every DM I get here references a sexless marriage. Is mine sexless? No. It’s just he’s not part of it (that’s not saying I cheat). Hahaha figure it out - I wouldn’t brag that your significant other doesn’t have sex with yku… though I just kinda did didn’t I
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So 2 thoughts come to mind. Either YOUR sex consists of self pleasure... or HE's having sex with someon(s) else. Am I close on either?
 
That wasn't too difficult at all... but I do offer my sympathy on having to be your own source of pleasure. It's fine if it's fine together with your partner but not alone. Again...sympathies. Do you have favorite toy(s)?
 
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