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I would like to get a closer look at your clit jewelry. About tongue length away.
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I would like to get a closer look at your clit jewelry. About tongue length away.
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You always look amazing! Today is no different, and makes me want to enjoy every part of your gorgeous body!
Have a great trip this weekend!
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Oh my freshly cleaned and dangling jewelry yum.
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Lovely St. Pat's pictures. Thanks as always for sharing.
Enjoy Sedona!
Enjoy Sedona!
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Awesome sunsets worth the walk for sure
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Thank you for these wonderful pics...!
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Good morning!
How are all of you doing? Have a good weekend?
Thank you for the comments! They are so appreciated!
We had lots of fun in Sedona. Friendship and food was great! Sex? Not so much.
MrSB and I decided what they really want is to have a woman (me) pleasure her as their excitement and foreplay before they have sex. However, they know they need to play with us to get that. Let's call them F and MrF.
So I pleasured F and the guys watched which is ok IF I know we are all on the same page for play. After a few minutes, MrSB started playing with her and MrF played with me. She never touched me or MrSB. She laid there kind of giggling and acting nervous and shy.
MrF was going down on me and would lick my ass. After that, when we were fucking, I whispered in his ear that it felt good. He whispered back that he had be careful and nodded his head towards her. She doesn’t like anal and I guess doesn’t want him to do it with anyone. Oh, he would rub my g-spot and it hurt like hell. I have a bladder sling and any focus on my g-spot is very painful. I would move and change to get him to stop. I was not comfortable saying anything out loud because of F.
Then I was on top of him and it all became funny. Know what pussy farts are? Well, we had belly farts. Every time I went up and down that sound would happen. Have no idea why. We all started laughing. Kind of broke things upwhich was just fine with me. They went to their room and we could hear them having sex.
Clearly their level of play is not ours. When one person is so concerned about the reaction of their partner, it's not good. I think she has insecurity issues anyway and is needy. He constantly has to placate her and explain every time he teases, etc.
Yet, over all we really have fun going out with them. So, if the subject of play comes up, we're going to be honest and tell them that we have different levels of play and it would be best if we remained friends without play.
If he and I had been alone, I believe we would have had fun playing. He could enjoy what he enjoys without worry. I could be open about telling him what I like and asking him what he likes.
Even out of bed, he is very reserved and doesn't flirt or kiss me at all.
What really makes that clear is, as we were making the 2 hour drive back home, I got a text from the couple that has the airplane. They are moving to Texas and were driving back from TX to CA after house hunting.
They were going to be in the Valley Saturday night. I told them to stay at our house. So they did. When they got there, he wrapped his arms around me and kissed me long and deep! omg....gave me goose bumps! MrSB and she kissed too. lol I wasn't paying attention to them though!
We didn't play as they were exhausted after house hunting and a 10 hour drive. We were tired too. The next day we enjoyed breakfast and relaxing a bit before they left to drive 6 more hours to CA. So no sex. But!!!!! The desire was there! I so wanted to play. Timing was just not right.
We are definitely on the same play page! The difference was like night and day. It just reinforced that we are not going to attempt play again with F and MrF.
Here are some photos of me sewing and doing chores.
Enjoy!
http://imgur.com/a/jh6sM
How are all of you doing? Have a good weekend?
Thank you for the comments! They are so appreciated!
We had lots of fun in Sedona. Friendship and food was great! Sex? Not so much.
MrSB and I decided what they really want is to have a woman (me) pleasure her as their excitement and foreplay before they have sex. However, they know they need to play with us to get that. Let's call them F and MrF.
So I pleasured F and the guys watched which is ok IF I know we are all on the same page for play. After a few minutes, MrSB started playing with her and MrF played with me. She never touched me or MrSB. She laid there kind of giggling and acting nervous and shy.
MrF was going down on me and would lick my ass. After that, when we were fucking, I whispered in his ear that it felt good. He whispered back that he had be careful and nodded his head towards her. She doesn’t like anal and I guess doesn’t want him to do it with anyone. Oh, he would rub my g-spot and it hurt like hell. I have a bladder sling and any focus on my g-spot is very painful. I would move and change to get him to stop. I was not comfortable saying anything out loud because of F.
Then I was on top of him and it all became funny. Know what pussy farts are? Well, we had belly farts. Every time I went up and down that sound would happen. Have no idea why. We all started laughing. Kind of broke things upwhich was just fine with me. They went to their room and we could hear them having sex.
Clearly their level of play is not ours. When one person is so concerned about the reaction of their partner, it's not good. I think she has insecurity issues anyway and is needy. He constantly has to placate her and explain every time he teases, etc.
Yet, over all we really have fun going out with them. So, if the subject of play comes up, we're going to be honest and tell them that we have different levels of play and it would be best if we remained friends without play.
If he and I had been alone, I believe we would have had fun playing. He could enjoy what he enjoys without worry. I could be open about telling him what I like and asking him what he likes.
Even out of bed, he is very reserved and doesn't flirt or kiss me at all.
What really makes that clear is, as we were making the 2 hour drive back home, I got a text from the couple that has the airplane. They are moving to Texas and were driving back from TX to CA after house hunting.
They were going to be in the Valley Saturday night. I told them to stay at our house. So they did. When they got there, he wrapped his arms around me and kissed me long and deep! omg....gave me goose bumps! MrSB and she kissed too. lol I wasn't paying attention to them though!
We didn't play as they were exhausted after house hunting and a 10 hour drive. We were tired too. The next day we enjoyed breakfast and relaxing a bit before they left to drive 6 more hours to CA. So no sex. But!!!!! The desire was there! I so wanted to play. Timing was just not right.
We are definitely on the same play page! The difference was like night and day. It just reinforced that we are not going to attempt play again with F and MrF.
Here are some photos of me sewing and doing chores.
Enjoy!
http://imgur.com/a/jh6sM
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Great pictures as always. Love hearing about your play/no play experiences, so thank you!
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Mmmmmm those nips and that ass OMG.
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Yep I agree, it does look like F and Mr F are not ideal play mates. I am not into the same, but I would have thought that before you enter that lifestyle, then both partners would agree that they are free to be full open about whatever goes on and not have to be concerned that the SO isn't going to be happy about some of the action.
I noticed you didn't get much sewing done. Lovely photos though.
I noticed you didn't get much sewing done. Lovely photos though.
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So how long did it take to get all the wrinkles out of the ironing pad?
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Gotta love naked chores.
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Good morning!
Thank you for the comments!
Todger.... Each couple has their own fantasies, ideas and rules about the lifestyle. And each of those are ever evolving. However, some couples don't communicate that well with other couples.
In the beginning, we were ONLY interested in a woman for a threesome. Well, we quickly discovered that sane, normal single women in the lifestyle are called Elusive Unicorns for a reason. They don't exist!!
So we evolved to married couples where only the women play. We also quickly discovered that we didn't like the guys being left out. Though many couples only do that. There are many couples where the guy just wants to watch.
I remember the first time I had a cock in each hand! OMG!!! We were in a hot tub and wow! It was an amazing feeling! I loved it!
I did worry a little bit what MrSB thought the first time I had oral (no penetration) with a man in front of him. So I couldn't totally let go. We talked afterwards and he was fine with it.
We further evolved to full swap in the same room. Lol… this was with the first couple in the hot tub so the 2nd time we got together. We were all in our bed. She was SOOOOOO rough with MrSB! She pulled and squeezed and twisted his balls so much I had to intervene! She did that to her husband too and he flinched. Anyway, her husband and I were done and I could see her playing with MrSB and it hurt me! So I joined in and worked my hands under hers and took over. When they left, I asked MrSB if she hurt him. He said hell yes! However, he was too much of a gentleman to say anything.
After that, I was worried if he was enjoying himself, what the women was doing, etc. I know he likes a soft and slow technique. Most women have no idea how to pleasure a man.
Then came prostate cancer. When we played after that, I was worried was the shot working? Was he enjoying himself. Was the woman’s technique too rough? Would she get upset that he doesn’t orgasm?
We always had fun but I was worried about him. He kept telling me he was a big boy and could take care of himself and not to worry. But I did.
Then we met a couple that wanted to do separate room. We talked about it and decided to go with the flow. We discovered that we liked it. I could totally let go! I could experiment with things that maybe he and I don’t do.
The key is communication. We talk and talk and talk and talk. And we evolve. We are at the point where we go with the flow and if something happens we’ll talk the next day and decide what to do going forward.
Not all couples evolve or communicate like we do. They have their own agenda and that’s fine but maybe not for us.
Bottom line, it’s all fun. However, sometimes it’s just the sexy open vibe with couples that is the most fun.
Skowt....that was a new pad and I was trying to smooth it out!
These coffee pics were taken last spring. Enjoy! There are more to come. You know the routine!
http://imgur.com/a/I1Ewu
Thank you for the comments!
Todger.... Each couple has their own fantasies, ideas and rules about the lifestyle. And each of those are ever evolving. However, some couples don't communicate that well with other couples.
In the beginning, we were ONLY interested in a woman for a threesome. Well, we quickly discovered that sane, normal single women in the lifestyle are called Elusive Unicorns for a reason. They don't exist!!
So we evolved to married couples where only the women play. We also quickly discovered that we didn't like the guys being left out. Though many couples only do that. There are many couples where the guy just wants to watch.
I remember the first time I had a cock in each hand! OMG!!! We were in a hot tub and wow! It was an amazing feeling! I loved it!
I did worry a little bit what MrSB thought the first time I had oral (no penetration) with a man in front of him. So I couldn't totally let go. We talked afterwards and he was fine with it.
We further evolved to full swap in the same room. Lol… this was with the first couple in the hot tub so the 2nd time we got together. We were all in our bed. She was SOOOOOO rough with MrSB! She pulled and squeezed and twisted his balls so much I had to intervene! She did that to her husband too and he flinched. Anyway, her husband and I were done and I could see her playing with MrSB and it hurt me! So I joined in and worked my hands under hers and took over. When they left, I asked MrSB if she hurt him. He said hell yes! However, he was too much of a gentleman to say anything.
After that, I was worried if he was enjoying himself, what the women was doing, etc. I know he likes a soft and slow technique. Most women have no idea how to pleasure a man.
Then came prostate cancer. When we played after that, I was worried was the shot working? Was he enjoying himself. Was the woman’s technique too rough? Would she get upset that he doesn’t orgasm?
We always had fun but I was worried about him. He kept telling me he was a big boy and could take care of himself and not to worry. But I did.
Then we met a couple that wanted to do separate room. We talked about it and decided to go with the flow. We discovered that we liked it. I could totally let go! I could experiment with things that maybe he and I don’t do.
The key is communication. We talk and talk and talk and talk. And we evolve. We are at the point where we go with the flow and if something happens we’ll talk the next day and decide what to do going forward.
Not all couples evolve or communicate like we do. They have their own agenda and that’s fine but maybe not for us.
Bottom line, it’s all fun. However, sometimes it’s just the sexy open vibe with couples that is the most fun.
Skowt....that was a new pad and I was trying to smooth it out!
These coffee pics were taken last spring. Enjoy! There are more to come. You know the routine!
http://imgur.com/a/I1Ewu
hairball18
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Such a beautiful woman. And she enjoys coffee.
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I did not send you a pm. My pm inbox/sent is not full. Not sure why you got that message.
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Todger65
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Thanks SB for that insight into your playing.
As I said, we have never been into the lifestyle as my wife was never interested in it. We did talk about it in early days, but she didn't agree so that was the finish.
I agre it has to be about enjoying what happens and if one person isn't, then it is time to review the situation and adapt your ways or needs, or stop altogether.
2 way communication is a must.
I like your outdoor photos today, and suspect they will follow your usual pattern.
As I said, we have never been into the lifestyle as my wife was never interested in it. We did talk about it in early days, but she didn't agree so that was the finish.
I agre it has to be about enjoying what happens and if one person isn't, then it is time to review the situation and adapt your ways or needs, or stop altogether.
2 way communication is a must.
I like your outdoor photos today, and suspect they will follow your usual pattern.
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That's not quite accurate, is it? He can orgasm, but doesn't ejaculate? I wonder how important that is to women, since I'm a prostate cancer survivor, as well.
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You are right in general terms. He can orgasm but there is no ejaculate unless he leaks a little urine which is extremely rare. He says that feels most like the orgasm from before the surgery.
In our case, he is only able to orgasm with me. I think that is in his head. He tells me I'm the only one who can get him to orgasm. He has a few times if we are in a threesome and I'm the one actively pleasuring him while he's playing with the other woman.
lol... I know how to get him off!
And that goes back to learning what a person likes. He does not like fast and hard stroking like in porn. The head of his cock gets very sensitive. In fact, the guys I play with tell me they've never had anyone do a HJ or BJ like me and that it is so much better than they've ever had.
It's not something I created. I learned from watching Hegre erotic massage videos. Take it slow, tease, stroke, flutter fingers, lick, nibble and use a light technique. When he gets close then a faster stroking might be needed but not always.
Women seem to go way too fast and hard. It's not a race! Take your time and savor it! There is so much one can do besides what we see in porn.
Oh! I use Sweet Almond Oil when I do that. It's different than lube. Slippery but with a little grip.
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He's a lucky man to have such an understanding partner.
