Sph / tiny penis fetish

[eric_erosfan]

Perhaps harsh but true. Very very few women who actually enjoy and desire vaginal penetration will find a 4" cock to be adequate.

Must be a lot of unsatisfied women in Asian countries then because that is about the average there.

 

[policywank]

Must be a lot of unsatisfied women in Asian countries then because that is about the average there.

Lots of women who's sexual enjoyment would be enhance by more well endowed men - yes indeed. Lots of women who have reduced their expectations of sexual fulfillment due to being monogamous to a man who is sexually inadequate - yes indeed. There and many places in the world.

Listen to all the men here and IRL who complain of an inadequate sex life with their wife. How many of those do you think are because the wife is totally disinterested in sex versus just disinterested in the sexual experience that their husband offers? Lots.

How many wives have just accepted that they may have some enjoyable aspects to their sex life but vaginal penetration sex isn't one of the? Lots.

Look at the statistics on how many women say they cannot or do not regularly orgasm from vaginal sex alone? Most. Do you really think that is solely about their vagina and not at all about the cock going into it?

 

[eric_erosfan]

Look at the statistics on how many women say they cannot or do not regularly orgasm from vaginal sex alone? Most. Do you really think that is solely about their vagina and not at all about the cock going into it?

I'm not sure just plowing into a vagina with a 9" cock is the magic solution that suddenly allows all unsatisfied women to explode with vaginal orgasms. Maybe it is for some women? But I think it is just another fantasy among many that you find on this site. All of the women I have been with in my sexual life I ask how they normally orgasm and ask to watch them do it. We incorporate it into our love making. I knew a woman who could only cum with her legs straight together very rigid. Very hard to use my cock when a woman has her legs together. But I figured out I could slip my cock inside her with her legs open then let her close her legs together and then keep my body above her body and she would have very strong orgasms that way. I have adapted my sexual performance to match each partner I am with. But the common thread is foreplay and orgasm from extended oral play. Then the orgasm pump is primed for customized intercourse along with continued clitoral stimulation.

I have also loved all of the partners I have been with. And unfortunately real life issues do prevent a satisfying sexual life. When a parent is sick or a child is not doing well, or work is taking a toll, the anxiety and depression and tiredness can prevent the sexual part of a relationship. Sometimes it is just easier to jack off in the shower or grab the vibrator from the nightstand and try to sync up next week.

I think what I described is the most common cause of an unsatisfactory sex life and not the fact that a guy is lacking a 9" member. It is a fun fantasy but it is not reality.

 

[Escierto]

Must be a lot of unsatisfied women in Asian countries then because that is about the average there.

You may be right in general but my Filipina trans girlfriend has a big one.

 

[Jeph77]

Perhaps harsh but true. Very very few women who actually enjoy and desire vaginal penetration will find a 4" cock to be adequate.

She may be willing to settle for only oral sex or for what limited stimulation can be provided by a 4" cock. By neither experience compares to or is a substitute for being fucked by a more adequately sized man.

It is a little like having an appetizer, but no main course. If you aren't very hungry it might be enough. And if you are hungry it is a welcome contribution - certainly better than nothing. But is not enough and certainly no substitute for a main course.

 

[bjlatx]

Lots of women who's sexual enjoyment would be enhance by more well endowed men - yes indeed. Lots of women who have reduced their expectations of sexual fulfillment due to being monogamous to a man who is sexually inadequate - yes indeed. There and many places in the world.

Listen to all the men here and IRL who complain of an inadequate sex life with their wife. How many of those do you think are because the wife is totally disinterested in sex versus just disinterested in the sexual experience that their husband offers? Lots.

How many wives have just accepted that they may have some enjoyable aspects to their sex life but vaginal penetration sex isn't one of the? Lots.

Look at the statistics on how many women say they cannot or do not regularly orgasm from vaginal sex alone? Most. Do you really think that is solely about their vagina and not at all about the cock going into it?

I agree with this for the most part. My wife went years without a penetrative orgasm until I started using toys on her that were much bigger than me. That’s what lead us to where we are now with her fucking whomever she wants whenever she wants. She’s decided that she wants to fuck guys with bigger dicks and I 100 % support her.

All of that being said, only one of her 3 current bulls has made her cum, including the porn star guy with an 8 inch dick. The one that made her cum is maybe 6 1/2 almost 7, thick, and curved up. He made her cum 4 times one afternoon…she’s never been able to have multiple orgasms before. He’s also the one that she chats with most regularly, so they have more of a connection than the other. To her, the connection is almost as important as dick size.

 

[Jeph77]

I was responding to the image of an expensive purse, which he probably paid for, hooked over the gentleman's stiff little nubbin, making him even harder in sweet degradation. Teary eyes and a leaky little knob. Yikes!

 

[policywank]

I'm not sure just plowing into a vagina with a 9" cock is the magic solution that suddenly allows all unsatisfied women to explode with vaginal orgasms. Maybe it is for some women? But I think it is just another fantasy among many that you find on this site. All of the women I have been with in my sexual life I ask how they normally orgasm and ask to watch them do it. We incorporate it into our love making. I knew a woman who could only cum with her legs straight together very rigid. Very hard to use my cock when a woman has her legs together. But I figured out I could slip my cock inside her with her legs open then let her close her legs together and then keep my body above her body and she would have very strong orgasms that way. I have adapted my sexual performance to match each partner I am with. But the common thread is foreplay and orgasm from extended oral play. Then the orgasm pump is primed for customized intercourse along with continued clitoral stimulation.

I have also loved all of the partners I have been with. And unfortunately real life issues do prevent a satisfying sexual life. When a parent is sick or a child is not doing well, or work is taking a toll, the anxiety and depression and tiredness can prevent the sexual part of a relationship. Sometimes it is just easier to jack off in the shower or grab the vibrator from the nightstand and try to sync up next week.

I think what I described is the most common cause of an unsatisfactory sex life and not the fact that a guy is lacking a 9" member. It is a fun fantasy but it is not reality.

Nobody said a 9" cock was necessary. And yes of course there are many reasons why people have unsatisfactory sex lives.

But, respectfully your response is fairly typical of what men do (and women do to avoid confrontation or awkward conversations) when faced with this topic. They conflate the valid premise that many other things matter too, with the hoped for (but inaccurate) conclusion that size doesn't matter at all.

Let me womansplain (light hearted sarcasm intended). Suppose I said that all that matters to a car's performance is the horsepower of the engine. You would be quite right to say that is wrong. Torque, gearing, power band, suspension, aerodynamics, weight, drive system and an increasing array of high tech features all matter a great deal to how a car performs. Clearly horsepower is not all that matters. But that doesn't mean it doesn't matter at all. In fact, you know it does matter.

As to whether the factors you cite matter more or less than cock size is purely speculative and subjective. Respectfully, you believe what you want to believe. While I tend to agree with you I also know with somewhat greater certainty that women frequently do not feel free to give an honest response. All of our reference points are distorted by a society that protects the male ego at all costs on this point.

Is every woman who's husband has a 4" penis unsatisfied because he has a small dick? In this context unsatisfied is a relative term. What I can say is that where it comes to vaginal penetration as an experience, yes all other things being equal most women would get greater satisfaction from a penis larger than 4". There are many other important factors to sexual enjoyment and some of them may be more important. That doesn't mean size doesn't matter at all.

Personal preference also matters. Back to my analogy if your idea of a sports car is something with nice acceleration that is great on windy roads that is very different from something that can complete the 1/4 mile in the fastest possible time. For some women a pleasurable vaginal experience may be less important than it is for other women. I didn't say it was all important to all women just like I wouldn't say that 1/4 mile performance is important to all car enthusiasts. But for those that do care about 1/4 mile performance horsepower is a big factor just like for those women for whom vaginal penetration is a critical part of sex, yes cock size is a factor. And on this criteria 4" is clearly sub-optimal for most women and up to a point yes more is absolutely better.

 

[bjlatx]

So are you saying that my 4 inches would be sub optimal for you?

 

[policywank]

I agree with this for the most part. My wife went years without a penetrative orgasm until I started using toys on her that were much bigger than me. That’s what lead us to where we are now with her fucking whomever she wants whenever she wants. She’s decided that she wants to fuck guys with bigger dicks and I 100 % support her.

All of that being said, only one of her 3 current bulls has made her cum, including the porn star guy with an 8 inch dick. The one that made her cum is maybe 6 1/2 almost 7, thick, and curved up. He made her cum 4 times one afternoon…she’s never been able to have multiple orgasms before. He’s also the one that she chats with most regularly, so they have more of a connection than the other. To her, the connection is almost as important as dick size.

I think virtually every woman would say that there are many factors at play. And I don't know any who would say that size alone is adequate. I don't even think many would say that size is the most important factor. And for those of us that are willing to express a size preference (we all have one, we are just reluctant to say it) I don't know any for whom bigger is always better. There is such a thing as too big same as there is too small and at both ends of the spectrum and in between what you plan on doing with it also matters.

But it also isn't irrelevant. And the important of it is affected by just how big or small it really is relative to my ideal. My ideal is 8"-9" and thick. But 7" is plenty and a guy with 6" on a guy with a lot of hustle who knows what he is doing can be as good as anybody. But at 4" that is a pretty big disadvantage to overcome. To my earlier analogy a 300hp car with all the right features can be just as fast as a 400hp car.....but if you are only working with 125hp you need to focus on something else.

 

[policywank]

So are you saying that my 4 inches would be sub optimal for you?

Ya, sorry dude. I'm sure you are great at all kinds of other stuff. But when I want to get my pussy stuffed (as every desirous woman does at some point) that just isn't going to do.

 

[bjlatx]

Ya, sorry dude. I'm sure you are great at all kinds of other stuff. But when I want to get my pussy stuffed (as every desirous woman does at some point) that just isn't going to do.

Do you think you’d be able to feel me if I reclaimed you after you’ve had a lover with a big dick?

 

[NancyPan]

I think virtually every woman would say that there are many factors at play. And I don't know any who would say that size alone is adequate. I don't even think many would say that size is the most important factor. And for those of us that are willing to express a size preference (we all have one, we are just reluctant to say it) I don't know any for whom bigger is always better. There is such a thing as too big same as there is too small and at both ends of the spectrum and in between what you plan on doing with it also matters.

But it also isn't irrelevant. And the important of it is affected by just how big or small it really is relative to my ideal. My ideal is 8"-9" and thick. But 7" is plenty and a guy with 6" on a guy with a lot of hustle who knows what he is doing can be as good as anybody. But at 4" that is a pretty big disadvantage to overcome. To my earlier analogy a 300hp car with all the right features can be just as fast as a 400hp car.....but if you are only working with 125hp you need to focus on something else.

As an example of my vulnerability to small penis humiliation, just reading this post gave me an erection. I imagined standing naked in front of @policywank as she lectured on this topic and my nearly four inches strained for attention.

Question: Should small penises be called cocks? Or should that term be reserved for “the real thing?”

 

[bjlatx]

As an example of my vulnerability to small penis humiliation, just reading this post gave me an erection. I imagined standing naked in front of @policywank as she lectured on this topic and my nearly four inches strained for attention.

Question: Should small penises be called cocks? Or should that term be reserved for “the real thing?”

Same here!

 

[bjlatx]

My wife was texting me earlier and talked about how much she loves getting big dicks now. I told her I couldn’t get up from my desk at work because I had a hard on. She said nobody would notice anyway

 

[eric_erosfan]

When I was a certain age I used to masturbate with these two buddies. I have no idea why, but we did. One was about 8". One of those meaty cocks that is wider in the middle. It was kind of fun to watch him jack off because his fingers could not close fully around the middle but would meet up again around his cockhead. I am a little over 7". Our other buddy had a very small penis that really looked like he was stroking a crayon. The hung guy and myself finished first and sadly we just started to humiliate this poor guy making fun of his small dick. At this point he had to stop and just started crying. We told him we were just kidding around but Holy crap I felt awful and vowed I would never make fun of a guy's dick size ever again. Now if some guys are into it I guess more power to them but it seemed to hurt this guy to his very core.

 

[bjlatx]

I wouldn’t be into it from a guy or from anyone I wasn’t involved with sexually. That would piss me off.

My wife and I make it very clear to the guys she plays with that humiliation is not part of the deal. Now after he leaves, she can tell me how much more she enjoyed his dick than mine all she wants.

 

[Escierto]

When I was a certain age I used to masturbate with these two buddies. I have no idea why, but we did. One was about 8". One of those meaty cocks that is wider in the middle. It was kind of fun to watch him jack off because his fingers could not close fully around the middle but would meet up again around his cockhead. I am a little over 7". Our other buddy had a very small penis that really looked like he was stroking a crayon. The hung guy and myself finished first and sadly we just started to humiliate this poor guy making fun of his small dick. At this point he had to stop and just started crying. We told him we were just kidding around but Holy crap I felt awful and vowed I would never make fun of a guy's dick size ever again. Now if some guys are into it I guess more power to them but it seemed to hurt this guy to his very core.

You crushed him, dude. I wonder if he ever recovered from it? You are right though, guys are very sensitive about their cock size. You are lucky to have a good sized cock.

 

[eric_erosfan]

You crushed him, dude. I wonder if he ever recovered from it? You are right though, guys are very sensitive about their cock size. You are lucky to have a good sized cock.

No, because he was so good looking he got a ton of girls after that. Even caused broken marriages by cheating with married women. So maybe some of those women were disappointed when they first got his pants off but he's gotten way more pussy than me. And we never told anyone his secret.

 

[Escierto]

No, because he was so good looking he got a ton of girls after that. Even caused broken marriages by cheating with married women. So maybe some of those women were disappointed when they first got his pants off but he's gotten way more pussy than me. And we never told anyone his secret.

I laughed reading your reply. Damn, he might have had a little one but he was busy with it!

 

[policywank]

Do you think you’d be able to feel me if I reclaimed you after you’ve had a lover with a big dick?

I don't think that I would frame that way.

Consider that the vagina is soft tissue and muscle. To the extent that it is "stretched" that means that the extent of its flexibility has been extended, not that it has been permanently altered or unable to contract.

Imagine stretching your hamstring muscles. It is not as if by stretching them further and making them more flexible you will no longer be able to stand up straight. They don't lose the ability to contract. Nor do they lose strength. They just gain the ability to extend more. If the muscles are fully relaxed they may feel "looser" if they have been well stretched, but they won't be any looser when they are flexed or contracting.

Likewise if a woman's vagina is fully relaxed after being stretched by a big cock it may feel looser. But she hasn't lost the ability to contract those muscles. And in fact the stimulation that comes from riding a big dick may leave the area more engorged and feeling tighter as a result.

So in that scenario I would need to contract my pussy muscles to feel your little dick. And while I may not feel it any more or less than I would if I hadn't just been fucked by a big dick the juxtaposition of the two would almost certainly make the limited sensation I get from your little dick feel even less by comparison.

 

[eric_erosfan]

I laughed reading your reply. Damn, he might have had a little one but he was busy with it!

I remember he had giant testicles that seemed out of place with his small penis. He would still have an impressive bulge in his jeans but it was all testicles. And the guy could shoot a big load.

 

[bjlatx]

I remember he had giant testicles that seemed out of place with his small penis. He would still have an impressive bulge in his jeans but it was all testicles. And the guy could shoot a big load.

This is like me, except my dick is thicker than a crayon (probably more like a roll of quarters). I have big balls and can still shoot a load across the room.

 

[Jeph77]

My wife was texting me earlier and talked about how much she loves getting big dicks now. I told her I couldn’t get up from my desk at work because I had a hard on. She said nobody would notice anyway

A sense of humor is needed in love and sex.

 

[Jeph77]

I remember he had giant testicles that seemed out of place with his small penis. He would still have an impressive bulge in his jeans but it was all testicles. And the guy could shoot a big load.

Maybe it's the nuts that determine alpha status in some circles.