For me - it was easier - my OH pretty much lost interest in sex. I lived in frustration for a few years, but eventually said effectively - i love you and i dont want to leave you if i can avoid it, but i need sex, and the warmth of a sexual relationship. She came back a few days later with hall pass.
I now have 3 stable relationships and the occasional encounter. There are no secrets and i think everyone is having an ok time. Even my wife doesnt complain, she just sees me with a spring in my step and a hefty bill for the 3 sets of flowers/lingerie/dinners i am now providing.
A couple of other truths - Firstly younger cute and sexy women really do like older guys. So long as we are virile and healthy we are often seen as more stable, loving and if you like worldly. Secondly plenty of women prefer the situation of a boyfriend they can see and be seen with regularly but not live with. The more professional ones have a life to live which you can be an important part of, but they also like some alone time, some work time and some girlie club time.
I now have 3 stable relationships and the occasional encounter. There are no secrets and i think everyone is having an ok time. Even my wife doesnt complain, she just sees me with a spring in my step and a hefty bill for the 3 sets of flowers/lingerie/dinners i am now providing.
A couple of other truths - Firstly younger cute and sexy women really do like older guys. So long as we are virile and healthy we are often seen as more stable, loving and if you like worldly. Secondly plenty of women prefer the situation of a boyfriend they can see and be seen with regularly but not live with. The more professional ones have a life to live which you can be an important part of, but they also like some alone time, some work time and some girlie club time.
