Straight guys who like gay sex

[Twincam1550]

I befriended a gay man after my divorce (from a woman) and decided to let myself go sexually. In the privacy of his home where there was trust and respect.. I was his wife for two years. But I never felt an attraction to him or any other man. I just liked the sexual attention - and his control over me

It's so hot to be used for another man's pleasure.

 

[Ciceri]

It's so hot to be used for another man's pleasure.

It took a lot to leave my ego at the door and just let myself go. I wore a blindfold and later on a hood. It helped with all the distractions. I've never been more present - my senses

 

[saintcero]

I befriended a gay man after my divorce (from a woman) and decided to let myself go sexually. In the privacy of his home where there was trust and respect.. I was his wife for two years. But I never felt an attraction to him or any other man. I just liked the sexual attention - and his control over me

That sounds so perfect. I too would like to submit to a gay Top

 

[Ciceri]

That sounds so perfect. I too would like to submit to a gay Top

It was perfect the first six months but relations got strained.

 

[saintcero]

It was perfect the first six months but relations got strained.

The same thing happened to me with my first FWB. I knew it would not last but he wanted to Top me so I let him.

 

[Ciceri]

The same thing happened to me with my first FWB. I knew it would not last but he wanted to Top me so I let him.

RG was twice my age. He was intuitive and seemed to know my thoughts and was one step ahead. When he was in a mood he'd say things to let me know he'd seen my type many times. He'd objectify and use me

 

[saintcero]

RG was twice my age. He was intuitive and seemed to know my thoughts and was one step ahead. When he was in a mood he'd say things to let me know he'd seen my type many times. He'd objectify and use me

I am a submissive bottom and still finding my limits as a sub. He would have played me for all I was worth

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I'm not completely happy with the bisexual label either.

While many people don't, I have always looked at love and sex separately. So, I like to use bi-amorous to describe someone who has romantic feelings towards both men and women; while I think that bi-sexual should be more closely associated with the act of having or wanting to have sex with both men and women without having romantic feelings towards the same sex.

In the case of male to male sex, the MSM label is accurate, but doesn't take into account someone who likes to have sex with both sexes.

I can't ever envision becoming romantically involved with another guy, but I have enjoyed many blowjobs from other guys, and although I've never returned the favor, I'd certainly like to if the situation was right. The guy would have to be ST disease free, decent looking and not a jerk. However, it would not involve kissing, hugging or other romantic gestures.

So, I guess that I'm stuck with a bisexual label, both in my definition and that found in dictionaries.

 

[sicpup72]

I'm more than a little confused. How can one be straight and like gay sex, that makes you bi at a minimum. I've been a sissy all by life, and I'm married to a wonderful woman, but being married to a woman doesn't make me straight.

Agree

 

[bijedi]

I don't know what this is or isn't like. It is whatever it is. I don't know of a one-word label that describes my sexuality, and I wonder if attempting to summarize sexual orientation with a one-word label is even helpful in the first place. It seems a bit pointless.

The word you are looking is heteroflexible.

But I would like to say, much like bisexual or similar, it is just a label. Labels can be useful for ease of communicating our thoughts, but they are often inadequate for expressing one's feelings, desires and motivations. YMMV

 

[Chi_Guy_68]

I too have been straight my entire life. But as I've gotten older I got curious about sex with men, especially sucking cock. I recently had my first experience with a guy so I'd consider myself bisexual now instead of just bicurious. Heteroflexible works too.

I still love women (and pussy) and only see myself ever being in a relationship with a woman. But I know now that I do like being sexual with men (and I like cock )

 

[Chi_Guy_68]

If you ever check out the Kinsey Scale, you'll see that his research showed we can be completely straight, completely gay or varying degrees in between (bi). So identifying as bi isn't 50/50 it can be a range.

You might prefer women but like to occasionally have sex with a man. Or prefer men and occasionally like to have sex with a woman. Or you might want sex with either gender equally. All of those preferences are considered "bisexual"

 

[J1biboi]

I'm not completely happy with the bisexual label either.

While many people don't, I have always looked at love and sex separately. So, I like to use bi-amorous to describe someone who has romantic feelings towards both men and women; while I think that bi-sexual should be more closely associated with the act of having or wanting to have sex with both men and women without having romantic feelings towards the same sex.

In the case of male to male sex, the MSM label is accurate, but doesn't take into account someone who likes to have sex with both sexes.

I can't ever envision becoming romantically involved with another guy, but I have enjoyed many blowjobs from other guys, and although I've never returned the favor, I'd certainly like to if the situation was right. The guy would have to be ST disease free, decent looking and not a jerk. However, it would not involve kissing, hugging or other romantic gestures.

So, I guess that I'm stuck with a bisexual label, both in my definition and that found in dictionaries.

My thoughts exactly!

 

[gor5619]

Fuck labels, enjoy what you do whether it is with a man or a woman. Life is too short, make the most of it.

 

[Nicklie]

It took a lot to leave my ego at the door and just let myself go. I wore a blindfold and later on a hood. It helped with all the distractions. I've never been more present - my senses

 

[Nicklie]

I totally agree...If you need the label to understand who you are, that's great. There are, however, a goodly number of us who simply enjoy "alternate" forms of sexual pleasure and, speaking for myself only, I simply label it "feun" ...dm me and let me know what you think...y tis

I really like that term fun living my fetish I really love beiwing used by straight men for their pleasure. They didn't have to recipicate just lay back enjoy usually the most dominant one in the group. Also like to serve black men the ultimate taboo using me for their pleasure. I still am giving pleasure to about 3 black men I went to played football
With from the 8th grade and 4 white straight college friends.

 

[DaddysSissySlut24]

Seeing I'm as gay as one can be, the following is a judgement-free statement: No straight man enjoys gay sex. That is...an oxymoron wrapped in a paradox, sprinkled with enigma...and carefully gift-wrapped in denial. You're gay...or bi. Or you can use one of the many newer terms...heteroflexible...it's all smoke and mirrors - you're gay! And...I'm happy for you!

 

[DaddysSissySlut24]

(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

But some years ago I started j/o to porn with a friend. At first we just got naked, watched (straight) porn, and masturbated. But eventually we started sharing BJs. It was easy to immediately enjoy the feeling of slowly kissing and licking a hard cock. It took a bit longer to get accustomed to cum, but eventually I loved that too. I can definitely get turned on by feeling cum shooting into my mouth, or all over my face, or splashing on my body. Also, I have many times experienced frotting, with him and others. That is my favorite MM activity. It's so sexy masturbating with another guy, with a bit of massage oil and our cocks rubbing together. It's an absolutely amazing feeling, just breathtaking. It makes me hard as a rock feeling another warm, erect, oiled cock slipping and sliding against mine. And it is so delicious cumming that way, and seeing and feeling another cock throbbing and squirting all over mine and his. I've also penetrated another guy a handful of times, and had OK-to-excellent orgasms that way. I've also felt a guy cum inside me, but didn't get much sexual feeling from that. But sex with another man, no matter how great, feels like masturbation. It doesn't feel like making love, and never could for me.

I hesitate to call that "bisexual" because "bi" implies some kind of equivalence. To me, they are not remotely similar. One is an emotional, spiritual attraction, with many dimensions. The other is like an enjoyable sex toy, with one dimension. I love it and sometimes crave it, but it's still one-dimensional. I don't know the proper word for this orientation, or if there even is one.

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.

You are correct and yet not. Look up the terms hetero and homo-sexual and lo and behold, you can be both! Easily! It's like guys who self-reference as carnivores....I'll bet you're not! You're probably an omnivore! Which means...you're also a carnivore.

 

[blazingsaddles69]

The thought of feeling a cock grow hard is s real turn on

 

[dkak001]

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.

I understand what you are saying. Maybe try the phrases: "Bisexual, not Biamorous", or "Straight, but sexually flexible".

Or just don't f'n worry about it. You do you, and let them think whatever they want.

 

[gor5619]

Sex is sex, doesn't matter if it's male and female or female and female or male and male it's sex. Just enjoy.

 

[dobbins1]

I believe you're right, on the "...degrees of sexuality..." issue ...
I love females, in fact I'm married to a female for a long time now and only feel attractions to females and have never experienced an attraction to another male.
I do however enjoy varying degrees of sexuality, some of which cannot be provided by a female...hence my desire for a different sexual experience leads me to selectively choose a handsome penis to either masturbate or put into my mouth or my ass and just for the pure sexual enjoyment and gratification I get from my own sexual pleasure...nothing more than a friend with benefits...
DM me here and let me know your thoughts

I totally agree with this. And labels mean nothing as long as any act is between 2 consenting adults!

 

[Bill_Doubleu]

I find language fascinating. It goes beyond what we call things but affects how we feel. OP begins with descriptions of his feelings of attraction to girls. His description is on par with how I felt growing up, madly in love with a beautiful blond 4th grader before I knew what was happening downstairs. The point is we are talking about emotions. Sexuality is an emotional/sexual affair. 'Homosexual' "Heterosexual" indicates what sex a person is sexually attracted to and doesn't bring the emotional to the table. There is also "Solosexual", where a person is alone masturbating. This can be done with objects. People can be considered objects. I think this is what 'straight' guys getting blowjobs are doing. We also run into words like 'Love' which is another quagmire, that I love to contemplate about.

 

[gor5619]

As long as its legal and all taking part consent, go for it.

 

[Wanking_Frank]

I too have been straight my entire life. But as I've gotten older I got curious about sex with men, especially sucking cock. I recently had my first experience with a guy so I'd consider myself bisexual now instead of just bicurious. Heteroflexible works too.

I still love women (and pussy) and only see myself ever being in a relationship with a woman. But I know now that I do like being sexual with men (and I like cock )

Congrats and welcome to the club. I wouldn’t really consider any kind of long term relationship with a guy beyond FWB but it sure would be nice to get a regular dose of cock, cum, and getting boned.