Submissive "Thought of the Day" Calendar

[catalina_francisco]

January 22nd - words from lark sparrow

You will know you are ready to make your fantasies real when you are compelled to act on them - ready to get out of your head, and actually do it. In each new and somewhat anxiety producing step there was a part of me saying "I can't believe I am actually going to do this!" and yet it was a certainty that it was indeed going to happen despite the anxiety (within all the safety precautions mentioned).

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=152430

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

January 23rd - words from Miss Taken (sub days?)

There is a huge difference between being submissive and being a doormat.

In order to truly submit, one has to be confident in who he or she is and trust their own judgment.

Without confidence, you can't trust your judgement and therefore, will doubt your relationship, doubt your Dom/me and the relationship won't work.

A sub who needs constant reinforcement in terms of building her self esteem would be exhausting for the Dom/me and in that situation, who is really in control?


https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=151863

Catalina

 

[emme]

January 24th

Submission for me is a choice.
It can be a no brainer decision I make unaware of the thought process. Othertimes when I am faced with a task I don't want to do or would not do under other circumstances, it is much more difficult. At those times I base my actions on wanting to please or avoiding consequneces. I chose my Dom carefully so that I will never be put in a situation of having make the choice to end the relationship.

 

[redelicious]

January 25th

(a favorite older post)

"******'s scene was my favorite, though. It showed me that the pain was okay, and accepting it and finding an outlet for it was okay. She screamed and stomped and jumped around and totally lost herself in the sensations; And seemed totally happy with everything when it was over. It was very primal. I can only relate it to the way I dance when I give myself over to the music and it just flows through me, making my body move without my mind controlling anything. I wanted to put this into practice and test my new discoveries… see if I could make friends with the pain and accept it for what it is instead of trying to figure out how the hell to make the pain feel good. God, no wonder I thought I could never be a masochist. I thought I had to somehow convince my body that the pain was pleasure. It’s not that at all… it’s finding the pleasure in the pain… it’s a release for all that pent up anxiety and frustration, fear and anger, stress and depression. Just like dancing, only the music is a little different."

Red Menace

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=123521

 

[Mr Blonde]

Argh!

I feel so inadequate. I am a week behind schedule already!

 

[catalina_francisco]

January 26th - words from dixicritter

"I think the difference for us has been the fact that we would've both been considered nilla before we began our D/s, therefore, the redirection came from both sides. We have both had to rethink our conventional way of thinking of our relationship, to include this new direction we chose to take. The road isn't always smooth either, there are twists and turns, bumps and potholes, all trying to throw you off course. It takes real commitment to each other to make it work."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=144984

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

January 27th - words from s'lara

"there tends to be a mesmerizing quality to watching your skin go through the process of reforming itself to the original color. hypnotic for me if not a little sad."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=151520

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

January 28th - words of lark sparrow

If we have to take everything down to it's lowest common denominator for the most blatantly ignorant person we can imagine or the severely mentally incapacitated, who cannot distinguish fantasy from reality in any way shape or form... well, count me out. Live and learn... or well, don't - it's all out there and available to any adult with even moderate mental capabilities who gives a half-hearted effort to learn.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=156348&perpage=25&pagenumber=3

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

January 29th - words of lark sparrow

"Everyone has expressed themselves... no one has to agree, but I bet the ones who are disagreeing right now over this one topic could agree on a whole lot of other topics. I really think there is something to be said for not being too sensitive to general public disagreement.

If you are set in your way of thought, you are set.

If you are open, there is good and bad, agreement and disagreement.

If you are incomplete without agreement, then don't put it out there in the general population."

( https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=224645&pagenumber=4 )

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

January 30th - words of Kajira Callista

"I think its part of who we are as sub/slaves is needing to show Master/Mistress what we are able to do because of them or for them. And when the trust is there to know that Master knows when playtime needs to be over i doubt a safeword will ever need to be used. "

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=7344929#post7344929

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

January 31st - words of s'lara

"Slut is usually defined as a woman of loose morals or no morals. i think the fantasy is popular because the idea of having sexual freedom with many partners is exciting while the 'enforced' part is about eschewing the guilt for behaving in a manner that is deemed sluttish by general consensus.

For me, it is about the force. The act, whether it be sexual or not, is inconsequential. However, the enforcement of will is what works and works well. "

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=201908

Catalina
Pssst, felllow subs, we still have 11 months to get through......post profusely to provide fuel and feel free to add calendar day quotes.

 

[catalina_francisco]

February 1st - words from Limbhugger

"The other thing is, one size does not fit all. What you may want, need, or refuse may not suit another. Don't try to stuff yourself into jeans that don't fit. Start with ones that fit well and then wear those jeans until they are those perfect ones. That one great pair of jeans that just gets better with every wash and every wear as they change. Of course D/s jeans shouldn't fade...lol."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=7380557#post7380557

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

February 2nd - words from cellis

"I test the waters a little at time, sometimes just to see if he will stay or go... and still he stays... and he is patient with me... he pushes a little and I resist... he waits and I move forward... we grow together... sometimes it is easy and sometimes it is painful...

Trust takes time."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=69600

Catalina

 

[Limbhugger]

February 3

By Anelize,

"It bothers me when people dance around a subject, and never get to the point; or worse, gloss over the truth, or lie by omission. I try to always avoid those sins in my dealings with people."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=224297

 

[catalina_francisco]

February 4th - words of lark sparrow

"There are few things worse in the relationship than feeling as though I have let Her down when it wasn't necessary. Some people say the submissive has the bottomline control, but if so, only at the high cost of no longer submitting. So, again the Dominance and submission must compliment eachother, must work together as a single unit in some ways. I'm not sure perfect submission exists, but I believe total submission does, within the bounds of an imperfect world and imperfect but evolving people, within the balance between control/responsibility which marks consensual D/s... if that makes sense."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=152262

Catalina

 

[Limbhugger]

February 5

By lark sparrow,

"Re: What is a cock....really?
Outdoor plumbing.

Perhaps a little crude and outdated, but I hear some people still like it."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=225860

 

[Limbhugger]

February 6

By tassie,

"cling film. sweated like a beast underneath it but that was kind of nice, and my body looked kind of cool wrapped in it! it makes a really menacing noise when it's wrapped round too, and the tube is handy for a few thwacks."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=98275

 

[catalina_francisco]

February 7th - words of A Desert Rose

"I think maybe once the sadness is moved away... we all see clearer and maybe friendship does remain. Of course, that is all provided that the other party wants that too, at some point.

The desire to give (friendship) to someone only to find out they do not want to recieve, causes an emptiness and sadness of it's own."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=145043

Catalina

 

[Limbhugger]

February 8

By apet4you,

"Yes, a pat on the head, *well done*, or some such thing would be appreciated but is not neccessary. Like everyone else basically said...it's about the parties involved and how they choose to carry it. Each case, each person is different."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=221417

 

[catalina_francisco]

February 9th - words of Quint

"Actually, I think "sober" can be stuck under "safe" as a general rule. ***, you worry me a little with your use of hallucinogens, but I don't know to what degree you play and it seriously is not my place to criticize you...just be careful. Same with anyone who does anything more than "relaxation" stimulants, or does those to extremes. Especially if right now you're thinking "I have experience, I know what I'm doing." Cockiness plus altered-consciousness gets you ouchies. You can quote me on that."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=79703

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

February 10th - words of Sierra Moon

"My previous Dom and i used to drink beer when we would play. After awhile, i started noticing the difference in him, when he would have too much to drink. i asked him to not drink during his time with me, and he refused. That ended up in us not seeing each other for a couple months... after which, he contacted me, and told me that he was clean (legal problems forced him to quit drinking), so i decided to play with him again. During that first play session after our long split, he consumed almost 2-12 pks of beer, within a 24 hour period.. although he still appeared to be aware of everything that was going on, i could see a dangerous sadistic streak starting to surface....that is the last time i played with him.

So, no.. i don't want to be under the influence of anything when i play now. To me, it's not worth the risk of harm to myself. But.. as others have said.. to each his/her own "

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=79703&perpage=25&pagenumber=2

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

February 11th - words from AnelizeDarkEyes

"While this may sound somewhat politically incorrect, there is nothing I personally love more that a good old-fashioned face fuck. His hands wrapped in my hair, hips pumping His cock in and out of my throat, saliva dripping down all over Him, that final deep thrust grinding into me. No finesse, no technique, just raw power. He loves it, i love it, and the my submission is never more complete, and i look up, near to cumming, nipples swollen and hard, eyes half closed...lost."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=148105

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

February 12th - words from s'lara

"It is somewhat unrealistic to believe two things: a) giving someone the full power to control you will result in an apocalyptic catastrophe where your demise is imminent and ghastly, or b) the Dominant is a wonderful, error-free individual who always has your best interests at heart and will never hurt you (emotionally/mentally) and living life according to TPE is utopia; bliss on a SSC high you never want to come down from ... ever.

You have no guarantees in life (in general) and TPE, in terms of D/s, doesn't suddenly afford you with assurances you didn't have before. It's a grown up choice and not a solution. It is a conscious decision and the last one you will make in terms of selecting the course of your life ... it is claiming the full package of anothers life and directing it with the knowledge that your acts, choices, missteps, and successes are what determines this persons life from now. Yeah, scary.

All in all, you tend to look for the best fit in most things ... defining your TPE relationship is just one more facet of your life where you must tailor it and fine tune it until satisfied."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=7462636#post7462636

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

February 13th - words from s'lara

"Blood sex is jarring. It's rutting, scent guided and decadent ... the kind that forces a secret, embarassed smile out of you the next time "the curse" comes along. It's the nasty thing we were warned never to do or forever bear the label "whore" or "dirty slut." Whether the the flow is from the cut between your legs or inflicted by another during the course of a session, the pull towards the blood is without a doubt undeniable. Well, to some."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=7506879#post7506879

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

February 14th - words of lark sparrow

"Most if not all, people want to be loved and love at some level with someone... but there can be a surrender in being in love, being a pleaser, that can be fatal on the wrong side.... not impossible, but semi-treacherous at times. I suppose it all depends on what is needed. I am still a believer in that possibility, but I cannot say I have experienced it in the long run. When the tables turn, they turn.... and so do I. I don't know... is that entirely unhumanistic and unrealistic? lol It's a huge enigma... no love is unfulfilling, too much being "in love" can just be vanilla with a tickle and slap. I'm looking for this answer myself."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=223640&pagenumber=2

Catalina

Happy Valentine's Day everyone