subs. how would you be as a Dom/me?

[sunfox]

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LOL, just about everything in and out of D/s, and for the most part nothing at all, sends me into deep depression these days so we just roll with it and hope it improves at some point. For that reason it is difficult for him or I to predict what will or won't send me there....seems what will one day won't another....and then it also seems I am in a depressive state 90% of the time. Thank the universe for spring as we are experiencing a lightning of it from time to time to a point it is manageable. I am just grateful I am not in his shoes and getting it from his side of the whip.

Catalina

I'm lucky in that it's a known set of circumstances that usually push me into depression, so they can somewhat be avoided, with a bit of effort. I don't suffer random depression.. it's always due to internal criticism when I feel I've done something badly or that I'm failing at things.

It is true that the better weather and more sunlight does help me though.. in no small part because I can get outside and do the things I know I'm good at more often.

 

[Bondagebunni]

heehee...In my head I'd be awesome at it. But I know i'd start laughing my ass off at myself five minutes into it and have to stop. I got laughed at the only time I tried to spank someone -_-. I think it was cause my Dom was there at the time. I think I could do it with a girl, though...she'd have to be patient though. Cause, again, the laughing.

 

[schmerzgarten]

In a sexual relationship, I could never roll the Dom card, though I enjoy topping immensely. If even it doesn't turn me on so much sexually, I've enough of a mischievous nature and a boyish curiosity in the "tools of the trade" that makes those times mucho fun. Before we were married, my wife and I went to a play party. Though she's definitely the dominant of us two, she does enjoy intense bare hand spankings. A friend Dom/Top taught me how to do it, without her seeing. I can still remember a room full of fun people beside themselves trying not to cackle as she professed how much she loved "Daddy M's" spankings, all the while Daddy M is over in the corner beside himself as I try and cool my hands in between hits. Finally, she looked up, saw him in the corner, looked backward and saw me, and instantly the term "alternative servicing" was coined. After that grin of hers, the entire room burst into laughter, it was a very fun night.

 

[roosterado9]

wish I knew if iwas Dom Sub or Vanilla Ice Cream

 

[catalina_francisco]

I'm lucky in that it's a known set of circumstances that usually push me into depression, so they can somewhat be avoided, with a bit of effort. I don't suffer random depression.. it's always due to internal criticism when I feel I've done something badly or that I'm failing at things.

It is true that the better weather and more sunlight does help me though.. in no small part because I can get outside and do the things I know I'm good at more often.

I imagine you are good at more things than you give yourself credit for...coming from a severe self critic herself!!

Catalina

 

[Pelagie]

I think I'd start out all sadistic and then break down halfway through in either giggles or tears. It would be bad either way.

 

[Liana26]

I think I'd start out all sadistic and then break down halfway through in either giggles or tears. It would be bad either way.

Exactly.