Switch Space

[RisiaSkye]

I'm a bad person to ask, as I don't play in public. Also, I prefer to play with other Switches, who don't ask silly questions about such things as marks on my body. They know, they've been there.

However, my last experience with an fsub did not lead me to believe this is a major problem. If I knew I was going to be showing skin, I made sure that skin wasn't all marked up by not playing in a marking way for 3-4 days beforehand. Easy enough. Then again, I'm a fire player, so there's lots of ways for me to play without lasting marks that draw questions. (Usually, anyway).

I tried, hon, but I'm no expert on the whole "pleasing an audience" angle.

 

[Feelinfroggy]

I don't have much skin to skin experience, but I'd really like to. I'm being rather picky about finding my partner, since he/she will also be my teacher by default. I can see major problems happening if I'm with a Dom/me, and I'm in a Domme mind set. And the same problem with a sub. So here's my question: Do you prefer to play with other Switches? I would assume that it would be more satisfying, but then again, I could be all wrong.

 

[Jonnyray]

Stupid Question

I'm a bad person to ask, as I don't play in public. Also, I prefer to play with other Switches, who don't ask silly questions about such things as marks on my body. They know, they've been there.

However, my last experience with an fsub did not lead me to believe this is a major problem. If I knew I was going to be showing skin, I made sure that skin wasn't all marked up by not playing in a marking way for 3-4 days beforehand. Easy enough. Then again, I'm a fire player, so there's lots of ways for me to play without lasting marks that draw questions. (Usually, anyway).

I tried, hon, but I'm no expert on the whole "pleasing an audience" angle.

What is "fire play"?

 

[Hot4Heels]

OK this is my introduction. I am defintly a switch. 99% of the time I might make some of our Dom's cringe (no disrepect guys). I am one of those true Alpha personlities. Ya know my way or the highway. Yet I also like to revel in the freedom of casting the reigns to the winds and being sub.

Hank Mckoy I could really relate to that X-gf/s quote "so twisted a corkscrew looks straight.

I have been holding back a bit as I thought my flesh to flesh wasnt enough and then realized I have plenty to share here.

Ohh and all you sub-fems that felt trod on get back in here we can use your imput.

 

[artful]

It took a little Digging,...

What is "fire play"?

...but I finally found it. Just click on the link below Jonny,...I think you will find out what you want to know about "Fire Play" on CarolineOh's thread.
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=99905

Hope this helps ya!

 

[Michael42]

bump

bump

 

[P. B. Walker]

Ok, switches... where are ya? I think most of the people that started this thread have retired.

PBW

 

[cellis]

Ok, switches... where are ya? I think most of the people that started this thread have retired.

PBW

Nope I am still around and working on my Domme techniques... while I am still getting my assed spanked... Oh yes, the very best of two worlds....

 

[Cuckolded_BlK_Male]

Think of any purist in any lifestyle, religious, sexual, business, parenting, diet and you will find a common denominator: a closed mind.

OMFG, this is sooooo true. The thing that annoys me most about BDSM and BDSMers is the arbitrary dogma that this scene seems to be swimming in. I find myself having to sit on my hands around people who claim to be the arbiters of what is or isn't properly orthodox BDSM.

 

[three eyes open]

Well, I'm a bisexual switch. I thought I was getting a fulltime sub, but now I don't know.

-3eyes

 

[Ebonyfire]

Bump

 

[MissTaken]

Bump for the switches on the board!


Enjoy

 

[DRxBlue]

Ah, YES! Good idea Miss T!

This is a tasty old thread! Well...except for a few rather nasty examples of attempted anal humor. (i quote myself as a leading offender)

i'm so glad that people have gotten beyond that old doctrine from the days of religious oppression and intolerance.

Thou shalt not suffer a switch to live!

(doubly sorry, Risia)

Carry On! (and how you DO carry on!)
Blue

i think she rather likes "electrical" toys as well.

"Electric Enemas" i can just SEE it! And i WANT to close my eyes, but i might MISS something.

LOOK! That guy can shoot little lightning bolts out his BUTT!

And there's a girl getting lightning shot INTO her butt!

Now the guy with the lightning bolt butt is lighting that other guy's FARTS! And that girl is PUTTING OUT THE FLAMES!

With a stream of soapy water from HER BUTT!!
AAaahhhhhh!!

Mama told me not to come...

Blinded Blue

 

[Angelofsex]

Still don't understand how you be a switch..........isn't a dom a dom and a sub a sub.........how can you be both........to me then you are neither........just was wondering.

 

[Vulpesvulpes]

Still don't understand how you be a switch..........isn't a dom a dom and a sub a sub.........how can you be both........to me then you are neither........just was wondering.

OMFG! Haven't we covered this?

I enjoy really kinky sex. Period. Most of the times I like to be on top, sometimes I like to be on the bottom. THE END

From here on out I patently reject the use of someone else's tired, hackneyed, out-of-date and out-of-time labels!

I am what I am and if you don't like it, get fucked!

 

[cellis]

Still don't understand how you be a switch..........isn't a dom a dom and a sub a sub.........how can you be both........to me then you are neither........just was wondering.

I guess if you are a sub and possess no tendencies to be dominate then it is hard to understand. I love nothing more than to serve and please Himself... but at the same time there is a little thrill I get when the girl crawls up next to me while I am on the computer and lays her head on my lap and calls me "Ma'am".

For me it is the best of both worlds.

 

[Angelofsex]

OMFG! Haven't we covered this?

I enjoy really kinky sex. Period. Most of the times I like to be on top, sometimes I like to be on the bottom. THE END

From here on out I patently reject the use of someone else's tired, hackneyed, out-of-date and out-of-time labels!

I am what I am and if you don't like it, get fucked!

I am sorry I didn't wish to make you mad...was just something on my mind......I respect the person for what ever they are into.

 

[Angelofsex]

I guess if you are a sub and possess no tendencies to be dominate then it is hard to understand. I love nothing more than to serve and please Himself... but at the same time there is a little thrill I get when the girl crawls up next to me while I am on the computer and lays her head on my lap and calls me "Ma'am".

For me it is the best of both worlds.

Thank you cellis, for explaining to me.......just trying to understand it.

 

[Vulpesvulpes]

I'm sorry too. I didn't realize that you were simply asking a question angel. I must be extra defensive today. I somehow read somthing into your Q that you did not intend. Sorry again.

-Vv

 

[DRxBlue]

i think you two should get along fine now...

This does point out just what this forum was invented for. It's a discussion of what's going on in the hearts and minds of people who like their sex...with extra spices.

It can be anything from just wearing a wig or a blindfold to a totally Gorian Master/slave lifestyle. There are an INFINITE number of colors in the rainbow.

Although you might have gotten snapped at, Angelofsex, don't hesitate to ask more questions.

Vulpesvulpes may have been a tad overly defensive in this case, but it's fairly new for people to actually accept these desires as something worth following up. Trying to work BDSM thought into our daily lives does meet with intolerance. That makes one defensive.

Thanks to the web, we can don screen names and talk about these things as never before. It's amazing the things we have in common. It's astonishing how WEIRD some of us are!

There's an underlying love here, that resonates in the hearts of all of us who've chosen this as a part time home.

Blue...the Doc
(edited to make the special effects special)

 

[Angelofsex]

I'm sorry too. I didn't realize that you were simply asking a question angel. I must be extra defensive today. I somehow read somthing into your Q that you did not intend. Sorry again.

-Vv

Thank you for posting this.....sometimes my words does not come out right......always gets in trouble for that....Before I post something.....I promise to think before posting.

 

[Angelofsex]

Re: i think you two should get along fine now...

This does point out just what this forum was invented for. It's a discussion of what's going on in the hearts and minds of people who like their sex...with extra spices.

It can be anything from just wearing a wig or a blindfold to a totally Gorian Master/slave lifestyle. There are an INFINITE number of colors in the rainbow.

Although you might have gotten snapped at, Angelofsex, don't hesitate to ask more questions.

Vulpesvulpes may have been a tad overly defensive in this case, but it's fairly new for people to actually accept these desires as something worth following up. Trying to work BDSM thought into our daily lives does meet with intolerance. That makes one defensive.

Thanks to the web, we can don screen names and talk about these things as never before. It's amazing the things we have in common. It's astonishing how WEIRD some of us are!

There's an underlying love here, that resonates in the hearts of all of us who've chosen this as a part time home.

Blue...the Doc
(edited to make the special effects special)

And thank you.....so much to understand....that is why I come here not to often because, of not understanding things.....would like to ask questions but not to sure how to word it at times.

Sometimes I feel I could be a switch.....but being a sub is still so new to me.....I love to please......and if I please then he will please me.

Thank you again.

 

[MissTaken]

WEll, put Doc!

And you guys rock.

Really!




*hugs* angel.

We are all here for many reasons and trying to understand what we don't understand is only one of the reasons.

 

[DRxBlue]

i think you'll like it here, Angelofsex

Love your animation!

cellis would be the best person for you to talk to about switchiness, i bet.

She's got some posts just a page or so back about being a very satisfied lil subbie most of the time with her husband.

She, as a switch, has the added dimension of being able to take that driving and enfolding love, to experience it and enjoy it, then she can form out of that energy, a gift for her slave grrrl.

Nothing is wasted. The love is cubed.

Free energy...

seems impossible, but it happens

Blue

 

[cellis]

Re: i think you'll like it here, Angelofsex

Love your animation!

cellis would be the best person for you to talk to about switchiness, i bet.

She's got some posts just a page or so back about being a very satisfied lil subbie most of the time with her husband.

She, as a switch, has the added dimension of being able to take that driving and enfolding love, to experience it and enjoy it, then she can form out of that energy, a gift for her slave grrrl.

Nothing is wasted. The love is cubed.

Free energy...

seems impossible, but it happens

Blue

Oh Blue I do so love you!

You have such a way of putting things in perspective.

I don't want people to think that I didn't struggle with this issue... thinking maybe I just into "kinky" sex and nothing more... stuggling with the bi-sexual issue at my age... all of that and more...

and you are so right... just the words I needed to hear today... nothing is wasted... everything is in it's place the way it is supposed to be...

the love is cubed.... and more... it is infinite!

for your wisdom....

~s