CarolineOh
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Re: Ah, Hell....
I am happy.
SpectreT said:
I am happy.
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Re: Ah, Hell....
You have ALWAYS posted your opinions in an honest, straight forward manner. Though we have disageed
on an issue. Your posts have never offended me.
As far as starting out on the right foot goes,...
Hell,...I never was good at dancing.(LMAO) I am
glad to see you back Mr. T!!!
SpectreT said:
You have ALWAYS posted your opinions in an honest, straight forward manner. Though we have disageed
on an issue. Your posts have never offended me.
As far as starting out on the right foot goes,...
Hell,...I never was good at dancing.(LMAO) I am
glad to see you back Mr. T!!!
how about a discussion about Anal fisting for all of us? and all anal play now you get down to it - both are things that arouse and frighten me in equal measures - I have a 'tempramental' ass - it loves most anal play but sometimes it just tightens up tighter than a virgins ass!
I do the usual - breath deep, relax, sniff poppers, push out, lube up - but sometimes that babay just ain't gonna open up - otehr tiems however my partner can fuck my ass pretty easily - fisting however - noe thats a whole other concept.
so here's the question - do other switches /subs/ doms get this and for switches do you think it depends partly on how 'sub' you are feeling? I find anal penetration a very sub thing to 'submit' to and maybe it doesn't work if I'm not in the right headpsace? Not sure if this makes sense but let me know your thoguths
(oh and Mz Christa - you scare me a bit too)
And Spectre - I pm'd you before I realised you'd come back - don't scare me like that!!!
I do the usual - breath deep, relax, sniff poppers, push out, lube up - but sometimes that babay just ain't gonna open up - otehr tiems however my partner can fuck my ass pretty easily - fisting however - noe thats a whole other concept.
so here's the question - do other switches /subs/ doms get this and for switches do you think it depends partly on how 'sub' you are feeling? I find anal penetration a very sub thing to 'submit' to and maybe it doesn't work if I'm not in the right headpsace? Not sure if this makes sense but let me know your thoguths
(oh and Mz Christa - you scare me a bit too)
And Spectre - I pm'd you before I realised you'd come back - don't scare me like that!!!
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Hmmm....what an INTERESTING question, petrel
When i saw that you had posted, i thought perhaps you had finally tired of playing the entertaining Home Version of "The Newlywed Game", but now i'm thinking perhaps i was too hasty in my hypothesis.
*stroking bristly chin*
Yes..i'm thinking a LOT! <lol>
That IS a poser though, relating anal receptivity to the "switchy" switch. It IS time this thread was called back into service.
BTW...i don't find MzChrista frightening in any way. Even in close proximity, (which i think i might quite enjoy) you can only be frightened if you CARE whether you will be killed by the next experiment.
i'm willing to sacrifice myself on the Altar of Knowledge. But ONLY if the results are FATAL! i don't want to survive looking like one of those pictures OUTSIDER is always "digging up". DO NOT RESUSCITATE!
When i saw that you had posted, i thought perhaps you had finally tired of playing the entertaining Home Version of "The Newlywed Game", but now i'm thinking perhaps i was too hasty in my hypothesis.
*stroking bristly chin*
Yes..i'm thinking a LOT! <lol>
That IS a poser though, relating anal receptivity to the "switchy" switch. It IS time this thread was called back into service.
BTW...i don't find MzChrista frightening in any way. Even in close proximity, (which i think i might quite enjoy) you can only be frightened if you CARE whether you will be killed by the next experiment.
i'm willing to sacrifice myself on the Altar of Knowledge. But ONLY if the results are FATAL! i don't want to survive looking like one of those pictures OUTSIDER is always "digging up". DO NOT RESUSCITATE!
CarolineOh
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For Sam and I, anal sex was the bridge from vanilla to kink. It always gave me the feeling I have come to recognize as submissive, and it always brought out the command and control part of his personality. Before we understood anything about bdsm, he would order me to wear a buttplug so that I would be ready for him, and wearing one put in public became part of the sex play between us.
On the flip side, my ex-husband loved anal play (and not just with me, that's why he's my ex) and I would use plugs and anal beads on him occassionally, and I can certainly see how being on that side of the equation can bring forth one's inner dominant.
On the flip side, my ex-husband loved anal play (and not just with me, that's why he's my ex) and I would use plugs and anal beads on him occassionally, and I can certainly see how being on that side of the equation can bring forth one's inner dominant.
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Ah, the Butt....
One of my favorite erogenous zones! I've only had my own arse played with a couple of times in the murky past; and I opened right up to it. I also made something of a mess when I climaxed for the first time with a vibrator where the sun don't shine, but I suspect that it's because we'd been playing for quite a while and I was already worked up......
I'd really like to try enema play, but I don't even know enough to ask intelligent questions, beyond the basics like what's a good temperature for it, and what kind of volume of water should you start with? And nozzle types, and....
See? I just confuse myself with all the questions running together in my mind.
One of my favorite erogenous zones! I've only had my own arse played with a couple of times in the murky past; and I opened right up to it. I also made something of a mess when I climaxed for the first time with a vibrator where the sun don't shine, but I suspect that it's because we'd been playing for quite a while and I was already worked up......
I'd really like to try enema play, but I don't even know enough to ask intelligent questions, beyond the basics like what's a good temperature for it, and what kind of volume of water should you start with? And nozzle types, and....
See? I just confuse myself with all the questions running together in my mind.
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Let's get CYM!
She's a specialist, a Wizard of Weird Thing Found In Sphincters, the Beethoven of Butthole Surfers!
She like Totally Enematronic, eh!
She don't switch in a D/s context, but i hear she'll gladly "try the other hole" when the company is congenial.
Be respectful now. She is addressed as "Your Assholiness".
Let us all bow toward the San Francisco Bay and chant together.
"cymbidia... cymbidia... cymbidia... cymbidia... cymbidia... cymbidia... cymbidia... cymbidia..."
Cue the drums!
She's a specialist, a Wizard of Weird Thing Found In Sphincters, the Beethoven of Butthole Surfers!
She like Totally Enematronic, eh!
She don't switch in a D/s context, but i hear she'll gladly "try the other hole" when the company is congenial.
Be respectful now. She is addressed as "Your Assholiness".
Let us all bow toward the San Francisco Bay and chant together.
"cymbidia... cymbidia... cymbidia... cymbidia... cymbidia... cymbidia... cymbidia... cymbidia..."
Cue the drums!
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Re: Ah, the Butt....
Just one suggestion, bud. This might not be the best time to seek out alternate patchwork solutions (so to speak) from the gardening section at your local Home Depot.
Just one suggestion, bud. This might not be the best time to seek out alternate patchwork solutions (so to speak) from the gardening section at your local Home Depot.
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Re: Let's get CYM!
ROTFL!! Enematronic, eh? I am imagining water and wires and electricity and colons, and thinking well, if the voltage was low enough, just maybe.....
ROTFL!! Enematronic, eh? I am imagining water and wires and electricity and colons, and thinking well, if the voltage was low enough, just maybe.....
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Now you've done it, Monster!
i think she rather likes "electrical" toys as well.
"Electric Enemas" i can just SEE it! And i WANT to close my eyes, but i might MISS something.
LOOK! That guy can shoot little lightning bolts out his BUTT!
And there's a girl getting lightning shot INTO her butt!
Now the guy with the lightning bolt butt is lighting that other guy's FARTS! And that girl is PUTTING OUT THE FLAMES!
With a stream of soapy water from HER BUTT!!
AAaahhhhhh!!
Mama told me not to come...
Blinded Blue
i think she rather likes "electrical" toys as well.
"Electric Enemas" i can just SEE it! And i WANT to close my eyes, but i might MISS something.
LOOK! That guy can shoot little lightning bolts out his BUTT!
And there's a girl getting lightning shot INTO her butt!
Now the guy with the lightning bolt butt is lighting that other guy's FARTS! And that girl is PUTTING OUT THE FLAMES!
With a stream of soapy water from HER BUTT!!
AAaahhhhhh!!
Mama told me not to come...
Blinded Blue
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Re: Now you've done it, Monster!
And I am thinking all we need are some deep blue and red and yellow florescent lights in the mix and breaking at a strategic moments, and then with we can have neon technicolor fartlight displays.
And I am thinking all we need are some deep blue and red and yellow florescent lights in the mix and breaking at a strategic moments, and then with we can have neon technicolor fartlight displays.
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Multiple partners as a switch
I've recently reentered the scene, and have begun playing as both a Domme and a sub...and am curious as to how others in this same position deal with the different difficulties involved. How do you explain to your sub why you have bruises? And if you play as a sub...how much liberty do you give your Dom, when you are going to be Domming others? Most importantly...when you are playing with a Dom on Tuesday and a sub on Wednesday, and a different sub on Thursday....how do you schedule all of this and give full attention to each? Obviously it takes a great deal of negotiation, and absolute honesty.....would love to hear from the rest of you out there how you solved the inherent problems.
I've recently reentered the scene, and have begun playing as both a Domme and a sub...and am curious as to how others in this same position deal with the different difficulties involved. How do you explain to your sub why you have bruises? And if you play as a sub...how much liberty do you give your Dom, when you are going to be Domming others? Most importantly...when you are playing with a Dom on Tuesday and a sub on Wednesday, and a different sub on Thursday....how do you schedule all of this and give full attention to each? Obviously it takes a great deal of negotiation, and absolute honesty.....would love to hear from the rest of you out there how you solved the inherent problems.
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Interesting question,
and one that I don't think has been fully answered over in my "Switch Space" thread. I'll go bump the thread, so we can put this into an already-existing thread devoted to such issues.
or maybe I should ask James Blandings to merge this with mine....
and one that I don't think has been fully answered over in my "Switch Space" thread. I'll go bump the thread, so we can put this into an already-existing thread devoted to such issues.
or maybe I should ask James Blandings to merge this with mine....
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<beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee...>
We now return to our regular program, "Switch Space", here on K-LIT, Literotica radio. in a separate thread, a new poster, Theshra Kai, asked the following questions:
As my experience was with one partner, I don't have much to say on that one, but I'm sure some of our other Switch posters have some thoughts and ideas to share! C'mon, guys, and help out with this one!
We now return to our regular program, "Switch Space", here on K-LIT, Literotica radio. in a separate thread, a new poster, Theshra Kai, asked the following questions:
As my experience was with one partner, I don't have much to say on that one, but I'm sure some of our other Switch posters have some thoughts and ideas to share! C'mon, guys, and help out with this one!
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