The BDSM Book Club Discussion Thread

Jenniferbaby,

Thanks for the post on the book! I do still plan to read it. And thanks for the vote too!

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Is "As She's Told" still the january BOTM? I have this in my TBR pile, so i'll read it now, or if its been delayed a couple of months, i'll read it then...not seeing any reviews or comments on it yet
 
Is "As She's Told" still the january BOTM? I have this in my TBR pile, so i'll read it now, or if its been delayed a couple of months, i'll read it then...not seeing any reviews or comments on it yet

Absolutely! As She's Told by Anneke Jabob our BOTM for January 2010! We will discuss it starting the last day of January at midnight. I might even be able to persuade the author to come over and visit with us.

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I FINALLY got this month's book today. Still haven't gotten LAST month's book. My library is failing me.

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Correction, I got next month's book but still haven't gotten last month's. This month's book I've read and it's almost time to discuss it!

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The discussion for As She's Told by Anneke Jabob our BOTM for January 2010 can begin tonight at midnight your time!

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As She's Told by Anneke Jacob BDSM

Did you like the book overall or not?

I liked parts of it.

Do you feel it portrays BDSM in a real way, a positive way and/or your way?


In some ways yes, in some ways no.

Did you like the sex scenes in the book?

Sometimes.

Did you like the rest of the book, the story in it?

Parts of it.

Would you be interested in reading another book by this author?

Maybe

What did you like best about this selection?

I liked that the main characters, no matter how out there fit together so well. Each got what they wanted. (Except poor Maia with her orgasms.)

I liked it when rough play was because they both liked it NOT punishment.

I liked the environmental consciousness.

I liked the use of condoms and such.

I liked the caring for the homeless that Anders and some of his crowd did.

I liked Anders ethics when he wasn't attacking Maia.

What did you like the least?

I don't like denial. I don't like micro management. I really dislike the idea of being left bound alone. I don't like the constant being in the nude thing. I don't like constant restraints or restrictions particularly for hours at a time while waiting alone. I hate the concept of punishment. I hate "you are a bad girl" kind of talk. I'm not much into puppy or pony play. I don't like the idea that a Master takes his frustrations and anger out on his slave. I don't like fiddle music at all. I can't stand blue grass and can barely tolerate music of that general ilk, LOL. This was an interesting fantasy but a lot of it stepped on my limits and pushed a lot of my red buttons, jarring me out of my willful suspension of disbelief. Personally I would have wanted to KILL Anders if I were the female. LOL.

All that constant work Anders did. It always seems like way too much work to me! The perfect house with perfect hardware and toys, that was an interesting fantasy.

How would you have changed the story?

I'm not sure. Personally I was most interested when Anders was in the accident. I wanted to see what would happen if he didn't come back.

I thought from the blurb on the book things would spiral into wrongness and Maia would have to put herself back together. I'm not sure if I would have liked it better if that had happened or not.

I really hated that he shared Maia out but some of those threesomes or moresomes got to me a bit.
 
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Over a month ago, when the book was chosen, I eagerly ordered it as a Christmas present for myself. But I only made it to page 33, before I abandoned it.

I really enjoyed the initial meeting, from the internet contact through the munch. It actually rang true and captured the experience of finding someone who you think might be a perfect fit. I especially like the way the author captured changes in sense perception as that combination of excitement and fear set in. As soon as it moved into the relationship though, I lost interest. I thought the author might have some kind of insight into the slave's experience, but it quickly came off more like an unrealistic fantasy.

Now that discussion has begun, I'll try to pick it up again. I'm kind of curious about the parts I didn't read.
 
I understand just what you mean. I'll be curious to see what your thoughts are if you read the rest.

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Okay. Hopefully some more people will join in our discussion. For now it seems to have waned.

Just a reminder The Love Slave by Bertrice Small is our February 2010 BOTM!

Next up, let's start voting on our March 2010 BOTM. If you have suggestions, please do let me know what they are!

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Okay I still plan to read and discuss last month's book. (I need to check my library holds again.)

In the meantime while we are reading this month's book, let's vote on the February BOTM shall we?

If you notice any books left out, would like to nominate a book or that I've left one in that we've already read, please let me know.


1.) Kushiel's Justice by Jacqueline Carey

Bestseller Carey's fifth book in her Kushiel's Legacy series, volume two of her Imriel fantasy trilogy (after 2006's Kushiel's Scion), is a moody tale of violence and divided loyalties. Phèdre nó Delaunay, the sexually adventurous heroine of the first trilogy, has become a placid foster mother to Prince Imriel, son of the unseen traitor Melisande Shahrizai.

Carey's infamous explicit sex scenes now portray Imriel's illicit and often violent affair with Sidonie, daughter of Queen Ysandre. Their romance is frustrated by Imriel's obligation to marry Dorelei, an Alban princess, and beget future rulers of Alba. When Dorelei and her unborn son are betrayed and Imriel is badly wounded, he finds himself torn between his vow to avenge his wife and child and his desire to seek solace in Sidonie's arms. His inner conflicts are ameliorated by religious faith, a change from previous books that may please some readers and dismay others. Imriel serves well as protagonist, however, and events are clearly building to what promises to be a spectacular climax in the sixth volume.

2.) Queen of the Darkness, by Anne Bishop.

"Queen of the Darkness" is the third and last book in Anne Bishop's extraordinary "Black Jewels Trilogy." This is a strong novel which truly enhances the material in the first two books and provides a most fitting conclusion to this epic series. I would strongly advise reading the books in order, beginning with "Daughter of the Blood" and then "Heir to the Shadows" to best appreciate the intricate story, characters and unique world that Ms. Bishop has created. I only wish the author had written a quartet!

3.)Sweetheart by Chelsea Cain

Starred Review. In Cain's superb follow-up to Heartsick, damaged detective Archie Sheridan is back home in Portland, Ore., trying to resume a normal life. Archie's ties to serial killer Gretchen Lowell still run deep, even if he's stopped their weekly visits in prison.

Meanwhile, reporter Susan Ward is finishing an article accusing a beloved U.S. senator of seducing his children's 14-year-old babysitter a decade earlier.

When three bodies are discovered in a local park—where Archie's team found Gretchen's first victim 12 years earlier—Archie worries another serial killer is at large.

After the senator's unexpected death, Susan discovers links between the sex scandal and the bodies in the park.

When Gretchen escapes from prison, Archie knows he's the only one who can stop her from killing. In Cain's capable hands, Gretchen is both a monster and the only person who truly understands Archie's pain. With its brisk pacing, carefully metered violence and tortured hero, Cain's sophomore effort will leave readers desperate for more. 200,000 first printing. (Sept.)
Copyright © Reed Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved.

4.) One Dark Night by Jaid Black.

Finally! A Jaid Black book with a meaningful plot! I was actually engrossed in the mystery of this little who-done-it and not just in the sex scenes. Reading many of Jaid's other stories is a cross between the story line of a cheap porno and the sickeningly sweet endings of a childhood fairy tale. But not this book! Amazing! I hope she keeps it up!

5.) Gordon by Edith Templeton.

Originally written under a pseudonym, this thrilling novel of passion in post-World War II London was banned upon its publication in the late 1960s, and is only now being republished under the author’s real name. Edith Templeton creates an indelible character in the smartly dressed Louisa, a savvy young woman in the midst of a divorce who meets a charismatic man in a pub and within an hour has been sexually conquered by him on a garden bench. Thus begins her baffling but magnetic love affair with, and virtual enslavement to, Richard Gordon.

6.) Warrior's Woman by Johanna Lindsey.

Book Description:In the year 2139, fearless Tedra De Arr sets out to rescue her beleaguered planet Kystran from the savage rule of the evil Crad Ce Moerr. Experienced in combat but not in love, the beautiful, untouched Amazon flies with Martha, her wise-cracking, free-thinking computer, to a world where warriors reigns supreme--and into the arms of the one man she can never hope to vanquish: the bronzed barbarian Challen Ly-San-Ter. A magnificent creature of raw yet disciplined desires, the muscle-bound primitive succeeds where no puny Kystran male had before--igniting a raging fire within Tedra that must be extinguished before she can even think of saving her enslaved world. . .

7.) Choke by Chuck Palahniuk

Victor Mancini is a ruthless con artist. Victor Mancini is a med-school dropout who's taken a job playing an Irish indentured servant in a colonial-era theme park in order to help care for his Alzheimer's-afflicted mother. Victor Mancini is a sex addict. Victor Mancini is a direct descendant of Jesus Christ. All of these statements about the protagonist of Choke are more or less true. Welcome, once again, to the world of Chuck Palahniuk.

"Art never comes from happiness." So says Mancini's mother only a few pages into the novel. Given her own dicey and melodramatic style of parenting, you would think that her son's life would be chock-full of nothing but art. Alas, that's not the case. In the fine tradition of Oedipus, Stephen Dedalus, and Anthony Soprano, Victor hasn't quite reconciled his issues with his mother. Instead, he's trawling sexual-addiction recovery meetings for dates and purposely choking in restaurants for a few moments of attention. Longing for a hug, in other words, he's settling for the Heimlich.

8) Wicked Pleasure by Jaid Black and Lora Leigh.

By CoffeeGurl (MA) - (TOP 100 REVIEWER)
Ties that Bind is one of the most smoldering erotic anthologies I've read as of late, and Jaid Black's Sins of the Father is the highlight of the book. Candy Morgan is James's nemesis. Her father had promised him a lucrative career and a place in the family, but then he discarded James without a moment's hesitation. Now Candy must surrender to James's dark desires and commands if she wants to keep her side of the business running. But little did she imagine that James had an unexpected agenda...

The erotic scenes in Father are insatiable beyond compare! The novella is full of Black's signature eroticism and mouthwatering descriptions. She is a great new voice in erotic fiction. I haven't been able to put down her books and I look forward to reading more of her stuff. Lora Leigh's Surrender, the other novella in Ties that Bind, is also a scorcher. These quickie reads will burn a hole in your sheets! I shall look into reading more of Ellora's Cave authors in the future. In the meantime, I recommend this book along with Jaid Black's The Possession.

9.) The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo by Steig Larsson

This has been a huge bestseller all of Europe and for good reason. It is a crime novel which combines a great plot with really powerful themes such as intolerance and corporate corruption. I'm really looking forward to the next two books in the trilogy.

10.) Memoirs of a Geisha by by Arthur Golden.

Fiction that reads like an autobiography detailing the life and servitude of a geisha. Fascinating to read in a D/s light. Well-researched.

(Synopsis from : http://www.submissiveloving.com/bdsmnovel.html )

11.) Swallowing Darkness (Meredith Gentry, Book 7) by Laurell K. Hamilton

I am Meredith, princess of faerie, wielder of the hands of Flesh and Blood, and at long last, I am with child–twins, fathered by my royal guard. Though my uncle, Taranis, King of Light and Illusion, claims that he is the true father since he abducted me from my home, betrayed, and defiled me. And now he has branded my guards as a threat to my unborn children.

Bearing an heir has placed me halfway to my aunt’s throne, that much closer to my reign over the Unseelie Court–and well ahead of her son, my cousin Cel, in this race. Now I must stay alive to see my children born and claim my place as queen.

But not all in faerie are pleased with the news, and conspirators from every court in the realm plot against me and mine. They seek to strip my guards, my lovers, from me by poisoned word or cold steel. But I still have supporters, and even friends, among the goblins and the sluagh, who will stand by me.

I am Meredith Nic Essus, and those who would defy and destroy me are destined to pay a terrible price–for I am truly my father’s daughter. To protect what is mine, I will sacrifice anything–even if it means waging a great battle against my darkest enemies and making the most momentous decision ever made as princess of faerie.


12.) Halfway to the Grave (Night Huntress, Book 1) by Jeaniene Frost

Half-vampire Catherine Crawfield is going after the undead with a vengeance, hoping that one of these deadbeats is her father—the one responsible for ruining her mother's life. Then she's captured by Bones, a vampire bounty hunter, and is forced into an unholy partnership.

In exchange for finding her father, Cat agrees to train with the sexy night stalker until her battle reflexes are as sharp as his fangs. She's amazed she doesn't end up as his dinner—are there actually good vampires? Pretty soon Bones will have her convinced that being half-dead doesn't have to be all bad. But before she can enjoy her newfound status as kick-ass demon hunter, Cat and Bones are pursued by a group of killers. Now Cat will have to choose a side . . . and Bones is turning out to be as tempting as any man with a heartbeat.

Books I can't get at my library:

13.) Menage by Emma Holly

Bookstore owner Kate comes home from work one day to find her two flatmates in bed...together. Joe - a sensitive composer - is mortified. Sean - an irrepressible bad boy - asks her to join in. Kate's been fantasising about her hunky new houseshares since they moved in, but she was convinced they were both gay.

Realising that pleasure is a multi-faceted thing, she sets her cares aside and embarks on a menage a trois with the wild duo. Kate wants nothing more than to keep both her admirers happy, but inevitably things become complicated, especially at work.

Kate has told her colleagues that Joe and Sean are gay but the gossip begins when she's caught in a clinch with one of them in her lunch hour! To add to this, one of Kate's more conservative suitors is showing interest again, but she's hooked on the different kind of loving that she enjoys with her boys - even though she knows it cannot last. Or can it?

14.) Breaking the Girl by Kim Corum

See what all the fuss is about. "I wasn't a slave. I was a willing participant." "His name was Frank. Just Frank. His last name really doesn't matter. It was Smith or Jones or Gallagher or... Hell. Just pick one. They're really all the same. I didn't know that much about him." "Maybe Frank classified me as a whore." "I stopped talking, begging, pleading. Plotting. I wasn't going to win him over. It was his way or no way. And I knew that. So it was his way." "I just wasn't that kind of tie me up, tie me down, beat me, switch me, hold me tight, love me forever' kind of girl. Frank was that kind of guy. Which made me that kind of girl." "And when it was over, we fell away from each other gasping for air." ".he brought the money-in fifties and hundreds-to me, delivering it in a bank bag. Delivering it to me with a big smile on his face, as if he were happy to deliver it, glad he could accommodate me. Who was the real slave here?" Breaking the Girl-a story of white hot sex and submission.


15.) Safe Word by Molly Weatherfield. From the author of Carrie's Story comes the continuing tale of a young woman's uncompromising sexual adventure.

Carrie leaves Jonathan, the S/M master who initiated her into a life of slave auctions, training regimes, and human "ponies" preening for dressage competitions. Whisked away to Greece by the demanding gentleman who has chosen her as his own, she learns new, more rigorous methods of sexual pleasure.

16.) Slaves of the Empire by Aaron Travis.
Steven Saylor in disguise, his hot porn still includes marvelous details of Rome at its dirtiest, wealthiest, and most kinky.

17.) Topping From Below by Laura Reese.

The title of this devilishly pornographic?albeit literate?novel is taken from the argot of sadomasochism and refers to a rebellious dynamic in which the dominant partner (the "top") is subtly manipulated by the submissive partner (the "bottom").

After her young sister, Franny, is found murdered?bound, gagged and mutilated?Nora Tibbs, a journalist for the Sacramento Bee, discovers in Franny's computer a diary that details her brief affair with "M.," an arrogant music professor in his late 40s. Cruelly exploiting the overweight, love-starved woman, M. forced Franny to submit to a humiliating gamut of outre sexual practices.

Convinced that M. is Franny's murderer, Nora sets out to prove his guilt by pretending to submit to his depraved aberrations. But, to her astonishment, she discovers a dark, pagan side of herself when M. enthralls her with intense, if perilous, sexual pleasure. Graphic descriptions of exotic sexual practices (bondage and discipline, sadomasochism, bestiality, etc.) accumulate, counterpointed by Nora's sweetly romantic relationship with a fellow reporter.

The suspense, a bit attenuated by thin secondary characters, also is muted by artless foreshadowing, but the conclusion is satisfying in a savage sort of way and Nora's plunge "down, all the way down" under M.'s manipulations will keep most readers gripped even as they're aware that Reese's shameless pandering is manipulating them in turn. Comparison to Story of O is well earned. 100,000 first printing; Literary Guild and Doubleday Recommended for adult fiction collections.

18.) Wild Rain by Christine Feehan

Feehan has a knack for bringing vampiric Carpathians to vivid, virile life in her Dark Carpathian novels, and in this new book, which builds on her short story "The Awakening," she focuses on a different kind of sensual predator—a half-human/half-leopard species of shapeshifters.

Mysterious freelance paramilitary operative Rio Santana is a member of this breed, but he's been banished from his clan and lives in a solitary rainforest dwelling. Enter Rachel Lospostos, who has marooned herself in the jungle to escape a group of murderers.

Blood runs hot between the two, both emotionally and literally—their first meeting is a near-terminal cat fight that leaves Rachel bedridden with a mangled leg and a broken wrist. As Rio cares for her, it becomes clear that their relationship is fated, but it may soon be cut short if they don't figure out who wants Rachel dead.

Suspense often takes a backseat to the protagonists' romantic feelings, but Feehan handles both elements skillfully, drawing villains who are sufficiently threatening and creating a romance that feels both destined and believable. Readers whose fantasies center on untamed wilderness and on untamed heroes who are as sensitive as they are strong will be seduced by this erotic adventure. Copyright © Reed Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved.

19.) The Reluctant Dom by Tymber Dalton

Love hurts...if you're lucky.-

Kaden knows he's dying, but before he goes, he has one problem he needs to solve - he must ask his oldest friend Seth to take over as his beloved wife's Dom and Master after his death. Seth has always seen himself as the perpetual screw-up and Kaden as the strong and steady one, so his friend's request rocks his world.-

Now Seth finds himself immersed in a role he's far from comfortable with: inflicting pain to provide emotional comfort for the woman he's secretly loved for years. Can he deal with his crushing grief and learn the skills he must master in time to become THE RELUCTANT DOM?-

Warning: m/f/m menage, anal sex/play/toys, BDSM, bondage, D/s relationship, and the lesser-known "normality" of the world of BDSM.-

20.) Domme By Default by Tymber Dalton

Kinky never looked so normal. When a wife is faced with the question of what she is wiling to do for love, her answer is-anything. She sets aside her own inhibitions to fulfill her husband-s wildest fantasies. But at what cost to her peace of mind?Warning: erotic m/f BDSM sex and activities including anal play/sex/toys, a home-improvement challenged husband, a sarcastic wife, and a portrayal of the kinder, gentler side of BDSM.

Online Stories:

21.) Tales From Subspace by NIGHTQUEEN1963. http://english.literotica.com/stori...ry.php?id=84817

In addition I have another book thread for reads that do not have to do with BDSM. It's called reading books for pleasure and it is here:

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=410377

Any book you consider to have been pleasurable, and somewhat BDSM please share!

Nominations are always open!

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I loved Tales from Subspace, the whole training scenario was hot, wasnt so keen on the ending little bit fairytail.
 
Possible recommendation

How about either The Relucant Dom or Domme By Default by Tymber Dalton - my vote would be for The Relucant Dom - its available in both print or ebook through her website or amazon.
 
As she's told review

As She's Told by Anneke Jacob BDSM

Did you like the book overall or not?
I liked the majority of it, there were definitely some cringe-worthy moments, but I couldn’t stop reading it.

Do you feel it portrays BDSM in a real way, a positive way and/or your way?
I think it portrays a very small portion of the BDSM world, in that of the total power exchange – but that it is an area that people are involved in and there is actually other literature on it – Chained Convict by JG Leathers being another one. However, its not a common sect of BDSM which I think is hard for most readers to wrap their heads around. I read this along with some other people on goodreads and the comment was made by someone else, that they had expected slightly more than more books featuring BDSM and had gotten a long jump in differences.

Did you like the sex scenes in the book?
I did for the most part – I wasn’t so sure about the orgasm withholding or forced orgasms, but as I’ve read more about this facet of BDSM, I’ve noticed that they are common themes and had seen it slightly in previous books, but not to the same extent

Did you like the rest of the book, the story in it?
I did, but I felt that it just ended and I was left hanging a bit – would have liked to have seen more about what happened after the farm that summer – did she go back to work, how did she reintegrate into society after the pony play all summer.

Would you be interested in reading another book by this author?
She only has one other book out – Owned and Owner and I bought it after completing this book, but haven’t yet read it.

What did you like best about this selection?
I think it was something totally different – although this is the first time I’ve participated in the book of the month, I’ve looked at previous selections

What did you like the least?
I can’t say that pony play or being caged really interests me – but it was an interesting aspect

How would you have changed the story?
I would have liked to have seen more at the end following their return from the farm; or a pseudo alternate ending as someone else pointed out, if something had happened to Anders, what would have happened to Meya then…
 
Great observations Austhokie!

Thanks for the post. I'm glad you enjoyed the book overall!

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For me personally, I can't stand orgasm denial. I think it's rather cruel but some people are into that. For me, the second and third and so on orgasms are always more intense! For some going a long time between is more intense but not for me.

Oh and I have added your recommendations to the nominations list, thanks!
 
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Votes so far for our March 2010 BOTM

The Relucant Dom by Tymber Dalton 1

Consider each 1 a hash mark.
 
I would like to participate, again. All of the books listed sound like great reads. I'm most intgrigued by Gordon and Breaking the Girl.

(And, at the recommendation of a good friend, I just bought Tansmen of Gor. Anyone read this one?)

I haven't I tried to read a Gor book but I was just not able to get into it.

So which of those two books are you going to vote for?

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Sorry I haven't participated more. I have had a hard time finding the books around here and no money to purchase them. Ok, and I just couldn't finish December's book. I am not very good at this obviously.

I will get Feb. book and I will try to finish it before march.
 
Sorry I haven't participated more. I have had a hard time finding the books around here and no money to purchase them. Ok, and I just couldn't finish December's book. I am not very good at this obviously.

I will get Feb. book and I will try to finish it before march.

Don't give up. We love having you with us no matter what!

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