The "I wish to receive Pm's" (twist on the how many)

[SassySheDevil]

I could not agree with you more and as I am learning the rope it is getting a little easier. I have been on Lit many years but was just a story reader and never came over to this side of Lit. I have had a few nice exchanges and some monumental failures. But your correct that it takes an approach that is a bit more refined that "Hey, you wanna f*&k?" And I'm still looking for that perfect approach, just seems to be just out of reach at times.

Well, your profile is a very good start. Lots of info.

but so many people are still calling this a "Sex site" Apparently very few know that the name Lit-erotica are the combination of the words.

Literature (reading)

lit·er·a·ture

noun: literature; plural noun: literatures

written works, especially those considered of superior or lasting artistic merit.
"a great work of literature"
synonyms: written works, writings, writing, creative writing, literary texts, compositions; informallit
"English literature"
books and writings published on a particular subject.
"the literature on environmental epidemiology"
synonyms: publications, published writings, texts, reports, studies
"the literature on prototype theory"
leaflets and other printed matter used to advertise products or give advice.
synonyms: printed matter, brochures, leaflets, pamphlets, circulars, flyers, handouts, handbills, bulletins, fact sheets, publicity, propaganda, notices
"election literature"


erotica e·rot·i·ca

noun: erotica

literature or art intended to arouse sexual desire.

Again. Both words mean reading, written words. Yes, the Erotica part of it typically means sexual in nature. But you guys who seem to think that women are here to help you get off. Women are here for many reasons, but since women often like their minds stimulated, they like words.

iamincognito45 gave a really nice description of how to be nice to women and chance better results.

 

[hottalyssa]

If I may, I'd like to offer my own unsolicited advice...

Much of what I have to say has been echoed by many here, Sassy in particular.

Guys, the good news is, it really is a very low bar here on Lit. The women of Lit are inundated with countless unsolicited requests for pics and cyber to the point it's a wonder any of them stay. Thank goodness so many wonderful ladies do. You really don't have to do much to stand out from the 'crowd' of unimaginative pigs that pervade the threads.

Trust me when I say, I have sent countless unsolicited PMs over the years. And I have almost always not only received a response, but received a very nice and warm reply. And you know what else? It's incredibly easy. But you have to do more than send a non offensive PM. If all you have as an opening is "How are you tonight?" you are likely to get nothing more than a "Fine" response. If a response at all. You have to engage them in conversation and encourage them to keep up the discussion as things progress to more than one simple PM exchange.

Just be marginally aware of who they are (reading profiles will do wonders), what is going on in the threads and follow a few posts. Sending a PM to someone and referencing something in their profile or a post they made at least helps them know you are paying attention. And it gets the conversation started. You will be surprised how willing these wonderful ladies are to interact with you. If you simply come across as being observant and willing to engage in a simple exchange. A little civility will do wonders for you around here!

Speaking of profiles, be sure to have one of your own. The more information you include, the more it will help the women know something about those with whom they are interacting. And be honest but prepared. If you all you talk about in your profile is how big your cock is, how experienced you are as a Dom and bragging of your conquests, you're not likely to get much in the way of a response.

Same with posts. Have some. Post in the threads your subject posts in. Even better (read - more points for you) if you interact her with or respond to one of her posts. I guarantee the first two things she will do in response to an unsolicited PM is check your profile and take a look at your last dozen or so posts.

If all you want is a visual or auditory stimulus to jack off, there are plenty of easy, free sites to find it. Presumably if you are here, you want at least some minimal, slightly more personal interaction. The point here on Lit is the women of Lit are a vast and diverse resource of fantastic and erotic messages. Following the simple tips above have led me to some of the most volcanic exchanges imaginable. As Sassy and others have said, the ladies of Lit are just as horny as you are. And just as interested in sexy exchanges including everything from PMs to pics to audio to chat to voice to even meeting. But they almost universally want and need some kind of connection before they will open themselves and their own intimate desires and dark fantasies.

Good luck!

Thank you for your advice to others. So many times I have directed men to go and read my profile. If I want to talk to you I will contact you. And for those that do contact me......civility will keep me from slammig the door in you face.men, you should try it sometime!!

 

[hottalyssa]

If I may, I'd like to offer my own unsolicited advice...

Much of what I have to say has been echoed by many here, Sassy in particular.

Guys, the good news is, it really is a very low bar here on Lit. The women of Lit are inundated with countless unsolicited requests for pics and cyber to the point it's a wonder any of them stay. Thank goodness so many wonderful ladies do. You really don't have to do much to stand out from the 'crowd' of unimaginative pigs that pervade the threads.

Trust me when I say, I have sent countless unsolicited PMs over the years. And I have almost always not only received a response, but received a very nice and warm reply. And you know what else? It's incredibly easy. But you have to do more than send a non offensive PM. If all you have as an opening is "How are you tonight?" you are likely to get nothing more than a "Fine" response. If a response at all. You have to engage them in conversation and encourage them to keep up the discussion as things progress to more than one simple PM exchange.

Just be marginally aware of who they are (reading profiles will do wonders), what is going on in the threads and follow a few posts. Sending a PM to someone and referencing something in their profile or a post they made at least helps them know you are paying attention. And it gets the conversation started. You will be surprised how willing these wonderful ladies are to interact with you. If you simply come across as being observant and willing to engage in a simple exchange. A little civility will do wonders for you around here!

Speaking of profiles, be sure to have one of your own. The more information you include, the more it will help the women know something about those with whom they are interacting. And be honest but prepared. If you all you talk about in your profile is how big your cock is, how experienced you are as a Dom and bragging of your conquests, you're not likely to get much in the way of a response.

Same with posts. Have some. Post in the threads your subject posts in. Even better (read - more points for you) if you interact her with or respond to one of her posts. I guarantee the first two things she will do in response to an unsolicited PM is check your profile and take a look at your last dozen or so posts.

If all you want is a visual or auditory stimulus to jack off, there are plenty of easy, free sites to find it. Presumably if you are here, you want at least some minimal, slightly more personal interaction. The point here on Lit is the women of Lit are a vast and diverse resource of fantastic and erotic messages. Following the simple tips above have led me to some of the most volcanic exchanges imaginable. As Sassy and others have said, the ladies of Lit are just as horny as you are. And just as interested in sexy exchanges including everything from PMs to pics to audio to chat to voice to even meeting. But they almost universally want and need some kind of connection before they will open themselves and their own intimate desires and dark fantasies.

Good luck!

Thank you incognito for reading my mind and telling everyone how most of the women feel here on lit. Its not that I mind unsolicited messages, its the lack of respect that bothers me. The k you again

 

[Iceprincess12]

LoL! Whoa! Stand down, warrior Princess!

I don't know how I became the target here; I was only asking a question. When you go to a car show, you expect to find women who are interested in cars. When you come to a sex site, one can reasonably expect to find women who are interested in having sex.

"Not with you" is a perfectly acceptable answer, in my opinion. But don't whine and carry on about how many times you have to repeat it; it's in the nature of the site. You can't move to the country and then in fairness complain about the country smells, including the fragrance wafting off the cow farm down the road.

As for me, I don't PM people unless they've written something I find interesting. I've never solicited cyber sex from anyone--it doesn't make sense to me. I spend my time in the "story ideas" forum and the SRP forum, because I like to write. And in a few of the playground threads that have something clever going on, like "write our own limerick" or "edit the one above you". That's it.

So turn your guns on someone else, okay? I'm not the enemy, unless you consider anyone with a cock and balls the enemy. Then I plead guilty and throw myself on the mercy of the court--though from the sound of it that would be a desperate and forlorn last resort.

So if this is a sex site then why haven't you written any pm's asking women to cyber? I assume if you are a man with a cock and balls, that you should be routinely sending cock shots to any name that looks vaguely female.

If you want to write why don't you go to dozens of other sites designed for writers? If you want to play word games why don't you go find a site for games?

I expect that when you log on next, that you will be sending me a picture of your cock and an explicit request for sex. You are a writer, so I want it to be creative as well.

Do you see how this works now? You can't assume I am here for sex but it's ok for you to be here just to write. So start sending out your head shots.

Congrats! You have a little ways to go but you are being a much better dick than before!!

 

[azco15]

I wouldn't mind a PM. Any takers?

 

[vanillyicecream]

So if this is a sex site then why haven't you written any pm's asking women to cyber? I assume if you are a man with a cock and balls, that you should be routinely sending cock shots to any name that looks vaguely female.

If you want to write why don't you go to dozens of other sites designed for writers? If you want to play word games why don't you go find a site for games?

I expect that when you log on next, that you will be sending me a picture of your cock and an explicit request for sex. You are a writer, so I want it to be creative as well.

Do you see how this works now? You can't assume I am here for sex but it's ok for you to be here just to write. So start sending out your head shots.

Congrats! You have a little ways to go but you are being a much better dick than before!!

This girl is on a roll! LMAO!

 

[BiGirlAudrey]

Wouldn't mind a pm, would like to talk about a taboo subject or two.

 

[SPORTZDOK]

Wouldn't mind a pm, would like to talk about a taboo subject or two.

Ditto That.

 

[Cycle Tom]

Wouldn't mind a pm, would like to talk about a taboo subject or two.

I'd love som PMs too, and I also like some taboo subjects.

 

[nervoussub]

I would really like to hear from ladies who are dominant or at least interested in Ds and/or femdom, they can be curious or experiences, I am looking to make friends and new connections

 

[liquid_dares]

PM fetish you might say...pic in AV is me...pm me!

 

[DirkPitt06]

i haven't had much interaction with Lit lately, a bizarre sleep schedule has kept me from really enjoying my time here. That said, if any women were of a mind, I'd love to chat over meaningless things. flirting, slowly growing more bold, before one of asks pops that all important questions that drops all walls.

And what happens from there, well. As you will.

 

[ATLfoto]

There are so many people in the "how many PMs did you get today" thread that always seem so disappointed when they get either no PMs or little PMs, That I thought I would start this for them..

Maybe if you advertise in here that you are seeking PMs the ladies or men will know you wish for them

Then maybe there will be less of 's and more of 's...


Good Luck!!

I'm fine receiving PMs. I enjoy sharing back and forth. That's what I'm here for. Its such a reliefe to talk to others about things you wouldn't dare talk about with your friends.

I'm definitely up for it.

 

[jcED8723]

send some this way!!

 

[redsoxlv]

I thought I might throw my hat into the ring here. I'd love to receive PM's from a lady or two. It's always nice getting to know someone a little bit and seeing where it goes. Whether it's talking about the weather or having some naughty fun, it's always fun meeting someone new.

 

[Imp1982]

I always love receiving PMs

 

[jcED8723]

finally some pms my way

 

[Imp1982]

finally some pms my way

A man as sexy as you should not go without tons of PMs

 

[mrmphilllll]

Some pm from ladies por favor

 

[Thickguy4]

I love getting PM's from fun ladies... makes the day go by so much quicker.....

 

[scorpio1121]

Looks like another bang my head against the desk boring day at work. How about a few PM's that will make me laugh or raise my eyebrows? M/F dosent matter, just help make my day move along.

 

[nevergetenough]

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[Iceprincess12]

I always think if you post here asking for a pm you should send one as well. Even if it's to another guy to wish him luck or talk about sports. Cheer Seahawks won!!

 

[BlueEyedGuy29]

This sounds like fun...

 

[StainedCollar]

perhaps one I shouldn't read while she is here in the room...