The New Isolated Blurt BDSM Thread

[MeekMe]

On the way back from my bike ride I stopped to watch a hooting owl. It stopped hooting and stared me down until I left. In the distance was another owl hooting. Some superstitions involving owls in the daytime say that it is a premonition of death. What an interesting first day of the year.

Edited to add: Mister lost his ring today. Interesting start.

 

[seela]

Resolutions for 2016: drink more whisky and do 10 push ups and I don't mean those girly push ups with knees on the floor.

In 2017 I can move on to 10 chin ups.

Yes, I have worded the push up resolution on purpose so that it can be read as "do 10 push ups during the entire year".

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

I didn't make any resolutions this year. So many things have changed for me recently that I don't feel like I have the capacity at the moment. I am the kind of person that changes things on an as needed basis, though, so new years resolutions have never really held much importance for me. It's rare that I have to make a change at that time of year

 

[seela]

I didn't make any resolutions this year. So many things have changed for me recently that I don't feel like I have the capacity at the moment. I am the kind of person that changes things on an as needed basis, though, so new years resolutions have never really held much importance for me. It's rare that I have to make a change at that time of year

I think the above is my first NY resolution ever. I thought I'd start with something feasible.

 

[MeekMe]

What..?

 

[ImOnIt]

My girl surprised me with a professional scarification of her pet name on her ribs. Kanji for rat and it's healing well.

It's a bonus that the bottom half looks like english for 'eel' and we laughed about the eel tattoo. Made me feel all warm.

 

[the captians wench]

I have gorilla arms, I feel your pain! I gave up on actual long sleeves with buttoned cuffs when I was about 15, unless I was sewing for myself.

The solution for too-short straps is to find matching elastic at a good corsetry supplier, cut out the original, and add your own.

https://www.bramakerssupply.com/sit...tegories.asp?id=37&cat=Elastics+and+Strapping

I have a friend who I make stuff for from time to time. He is very broad shouldered and long arms, so when I make his shirts the front is a Medium, the back is an XL and the arms are L. I call him my monkey man.


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Insecure women really bug the shit out of me. What's even worse is that this particular chick's dude does have a thing for me. Total one sided. Girl, I'm so not interested.

Seriously, when your whole identity revolves around being X's girlfriend, I just want to mute your life. The world gets you have a boyfriend. We're happy for you. You do not need to make 20 posts a day on Facebook alluding to the fact that you have a boyfriend.

Fuck, my sister didn't post this much when she was annoying me and she was 16 at the time.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Etoile]

So, like...service topping. That's a thing. And like...not at all easy. But as many times as my sadist asks for it, I'll do it. But still...my brain goes a bit upside-down. Life with a switch.......

 

[seela]

So, like...service topping. That's a thing. And like...not at all easy. But as many times as my sadist asks for it, I'll do it. But still...my brain goes a bit upside-down. Life with a switch.......

Hey, it's Etoile!

I know what you're talking about. I've fallen into a thing with someone that involves service topping. Not at all easy, as it does not come naturally to me, but in some twisted way I find very satisfying too, partially because it is not easy.

I've even worked my way up to being able to spank people without making sound effects.

 

[Etoile]

Hey, it's Etoile!

I know what you're talking about. I've fallen into a thing with someone that involves service topping. Not at all easy, as it does not come naturally to me, but in some twisted way I find very satisfying too, partially because it is not easy.

I've even worked my way up to being able to spank people without making sound effects.

It's me! Hi, gorgeous! <3

And yeah, it's fun because I'm still the one doing the serving, even if it's by topping...so I can enjoy it in that way. It's still really weird though because I'm all "WHOA WHAT AM I DOING HOW DO I DO THIS WHAT IS A FLOGGER" ...like you said, does not come natural at all.

I wouldn't say I'm good at it, but my sadist is very experienced and also collared to someone else, so the demands placed on me are pretty limited and I can usually manage them. I feel like a complete DORK, but I can manage them, and my sadist seems happy.

And then I get the crap beat out of me as a thank-you, so yay!

 

[seela]

It's me! Hi, gorgeous! <3

And yeah, it's fun because I'm still the one doing the serving, even if it's by topping...so I can enjoy it in that way. It's still really weird though because I'm all "WHOA WHAT AM I DOING HOW DO I DO THIS WHAT IS A FLOGGER" ...like you said, does not come natural at all.

I wouldn't say I'm good at it, but my sadist is very experienced and also collared to someone else, so the demands placed on me are pretty limited and I can usually manage them. I feel like a complete DORK, but I can manage them, and my sadist seems happy.

And then I get the crap beat out of me as a thank-you, so yay!

Service top really is such a good term. It has helped me a lot to come into terms with what I do. I top. It's service.

I wouldn't say I'm very good at doing what I do either. Like I said, I have only barely worked my way up from the level where I make stupid swooshing sounds every time I spank somebody.

 

[Etoile]

Service top really is such a good term. It has helped me a lot to come into terms with what I do. I top. It's service.

I wouldn't say I'm very good at doing what I do either. Like I said, I have only barely worked my way up from the level where I make stupid swooshing sounds every time I spank somebody.

Yes, and it makes immediate sense to other people, too! Because the sadist is a switch, when I was asked about topping, I could say "yes, I can service top" and be immediately understood.

I haven't even gotten comfortable with impact yet. I think it would probably be appreciated, but I'm chicken...

 

[seela]

Yes, and it makes immediate sense to other people, too! Because the sadist is a switch, when I was asked about topping, I could say "yes, I can service top" and be immediately understood.

I haven't even gotten comfortable with impact yet. I think it would probably be appreciated, but I'm chicken...

I so wish the term service top, or even the concept of it, would be more commonly recognized here as well. Here meaning where I live. It would make some conversations a lot easier.

It's great to hear from you again. You need to start coming here more often.

 

[Etoile]

I so wish the term service top, or even the concept of it, would be more commonly recognized here as well. Here meaning where I live. It would make some conversations a lot easier.

It's great to hear from you again. You need to start coming here more often.

Yeah, it does seem to confuse people, because a "service bottom" is a totally different thing!

I am moderately active on FL these days; I will try to come around more often now that I'm back in a kink-based relationship-type thing.

 

[the captians wench]

Yeah, sadistic-submissive-pain slut.

I don't really top well, but I can beat the tar out of you quite happily. So you stay in charge, I swing the flogger.

 

[MeekMe]

I think I've lost the excitement of exploration... Is this the 'blah' I've been feeling that's come into focus for me? Hm...

 

[pensivepoet]

I think I've lost the excitement of exploration... Is this the 'blah' I've been feeling that's come into focus for me? Hm...

It's just Janurary, you'll snap out of it come March.

 

[Que]

I think I've lost the excitement of exploration... Is this the 'blah' I've been feeling that's come into focus for me? Hm...

Depresion.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[IrisAlthea]

Depresion.

I was going to say January, but that might be interchangable.

 

[pensivepoet]

I need something

 

[MeekMe]

It's none of those things. Nostalgia for something, maybe. I know depression and this isn't it. January? No, a month doesn't matter in this case.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]