I'm not sure what the etiquette is here...is it rude to ask about your tail? What sort of tail you have? Colour, type?
I don't think there is anything wrong in asking

It is a butt plug tail. It is mid-length. Some you see are long and almost reach the ground and others are short bobby things. Mine is mid-length which I think suits me because I am short. I can just about sit with it
It is mixed purple and black and so soft... We are not quite decided what it represents. Possibly a fox
I have only worn it at home on special occasion.

