The NEW UK Kink Thread

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[skinnysinner]

Lol! That would be an awesome outfit to own!

I think I was being a bit poetic . Kind of like, I am going to wear this dress, don't care how it might look, whether it floats up in the breeze or if it turns out too chilly to wear it. I will wear it with confidence and swagger.

Aah, I see! Not an aggressive dress to wear, more wearing a dress 'aggressively'! Go for it, at least you have the choice to wear something thin and floaty and get away with all that cool air in places we would love to have cool but have to cover up :-(

 

[skinnysinner]

Is everybody warm enough today? I am. . At last. I was certainly in a sundress earlier, and would have been happier in less I wanted to rest all day but had to do a chore this morning, and now am taking my siesta and I am glad I did not put the winter duvet on. The light one in our beautiful cool room is just right for me to relax lightly cover d to the waist, and the cats are giving me some space, so they are warm enough.

I plan to pick red currants for jelly this evening, and set them to strain over night.

Not fair... lightly covered to the waist... and the rest??/ You tease! Hope you enjoyed Am off to pick raspberries, they only just started to ripen up here

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[LucyBee01]

Some places I have lived men have option of shorts for work, in places attire is usually very serious. Shorts as part of a uniform is also quite 'cute'. I feel most sorry for people in cities in places in uk in hot weather. Not set up for it. Thank god for air con in buildings. ( and I want my car air con .

I think I will appreciate air con indoors tomorrow. It is confusing for the body though and requires layers of clothes which seems wrong when it is hot outside.

Men in shorts. Mmmm. Nice thought.

 

[Malich]

Evening all

I survived the move, just. Was hellish warm. not sure how much i've sweated off the last few days but I'm sure its worth it.

Hope you're all doing ok. sounds like most of you are enjoying the sun... for me it's just too hot!

 

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[Mindfondler]

I survived the move, just. Was hellish warm. not sure how much i've sweated off the last few days but I'm sure its worth it.

Glad to hear that you've survived the upheaval.

Any chance of seeing you more regularly on our travels now?

I think I will appreciate air con indoors tomorrow. It is confusing for the body though and requires layers of clothes which seems wrong when it is hot outside.

Men in shorts. Mmmm. Nice thought.

I may have to inflict that unedifying spectacle on the poor punters at the munch that my wife and I are attending tomorrow evening. With a packed bar area to fill and a promise of 32°C temperatures, there may be no other option for me to avoid dangerous overheating.
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[Malich]

My back is not happy but cooperating for now! Johann has settled nicely and is much happier in a warm, modern flat than a cold old house... i am less comfy but I'll get used to it.

I hope to get to a few more events once everything has settled and belle had come back home.

And Elle i have to be careful in the sun too. I am currently peeling after burning through factor 50. Stupid, pale, Norse skin!

 

[StrangeView]

Hi Mal, good to hear you're settling in

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[LucyBee01]

Glad to hear that you've survived the upheaval.

Any chance of seeing you more regularly on our travels now?


I may have to inflict that unedifying spectacle on the poor punters at the munch that my wife and I are attending tomorrow evening. With a packed bar area to fill and a promise of 32°C temperatures, there may be no other option for me to avoid dangerous overheating.
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Go for it! It really is just too hot for anything else, whilst remaining respectable.

I am meant to be doing my dancing tonight but I am on heat strike. I am hoping it might cool off enough for me to go for a jog later outside instead. I would really like that.

My back is not happy but cooperating for now! Johann has settled nicely and is much happier in a warm, modern flat than a cold old house... i am less comfy but I'll get used to it.

I hope to get to a few more events once everything has settled and belle had come back home.

And Elle i have to be careful in the sun too. I am currently peeling after burning through factor 50. Stupid, pale, Norse skin!

I am glad your cat is happy. Is he a very sensible cat with a name like Johann?
I hope you settle in quickly and your back recovers soon.
Look forward to meeting you one of these days.

 

[skinnysinner]

I think I will appreciate air con indoors tomorrow. It is confusing for the body though and requires layers of clothes which seems wrong when it is hot outside.

Men in shorts. Mmmm. Nice thought.

Mmm... not so sure, you haven't seen my legs :-(

Women in skirts, now that's much nicer

 

[Malich]

I am glad your cat is happy. Is he a very sensible cat with a name like Johann?
I hope you settle in quickly and your back recovers soon.
Look forward to meeting you one of these days.

I think I can safely say the answer to that first question is.... not really

And yes, I am sure we'll bump into each other at some point. So many folks on various sites I know are in London and I hope to see most of the at some point.

 

[StrangeView]

Good to hear you're settling in ok Mal, will this be the last move for a while?

 

[Mindfondler]

Just wondering whether anyone who has met my wife and me would like to do us a small favour.

Mrs MF and I have just posted a BDSM personals advert (see the link in my signature or here). We've done our best to be open and accurate about ourselves, our wishes and our motivations.

If anyone here who knows us wishes to add a short reply in our advert thread to offer their honest appraisal of us, then we'd be very grateful. It's possible that this could make the difference to a jaded, nervous or cynical female Litster between venturing a reply or not.

Thanks in advance!

MF (and Mrs MF)
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[LucyBee01]

Just wondering whether anyone who has met my wife and me would like to do us a small favour.

Mrs MF and I have just posted a BDSM personals advert (see the link in my signature or here). We've done our best to be open and accurate about ourselves, our wishes and our motivations.

If anyone here who knows us wishes to add a short reply in our advert thread to offer their honest appraisal of us, then we'd be very grateful. It's possible that this could make the difference to a jaded, nervous or cynical female Litster between venturing a reply or not.

Thanks in advance!

MF (and Mrs MF)
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Done

 

[LucyBee01]

Would someone please tell these pesky young pigeons on the balcony how to fly? They can't quite manage it yet and they are making such a mess!
I keep flitting between 'aaww, cute chicks' to 'filthy pesky pigeons!'

 

[Mindfondler]

Done

Thanks very much, LucyBee01 and also to Consilience for your warm and sincere words under my personals advert (as per my earlier posting above). Much appreciated by Mrs MF and me!
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[Mindfondler]

My wife and I had a fantastic time yesterday at an outdoor kinky play party on a hot and sunny English afternoon. It was a fitting celebration to mark our first year together in the kink community, as we met there around forty friends that we've made on our various travels during that time (it gave us a warm feeling to introduce some of them to each other!).

It was good to say Hi again to LucyBee01 and her Master, and to Sweetdaisymae. We hope that you enjoyed youselves as much as we did!
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[LucyBee01]

My wife and I had a fantastic time yesterday at an outdoor kinky play party on a hot and sunny English afternoon. It was a fitting celebration to mark our first year together in the kink community, as we met there around forty friends that we've made on our various travels during that time (it gave us a warm feeling to introduce some of them to each other!).

It was good to say Hi again to LucyBee01 and her Master, and to Sweetdaisymae. We hope that you enjoyed youselves as much as we did!
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Haha, yes, definitely. Sorry we didn't get to talk more; whenever we saw you you looked rather occupied

Happy kinkversary

We had a fun and naughty day. The weather was perfect for the outdoor pool and just being able to play outside in pretty green surroundings was a treat. Didn't really explore the indoors!

 

[Mindfondler]

Haha, yes, definitely. Sorry we didn't get to talk more; whenever we saw you you looked rather occupied

I did have a lot on my hands -- not least a squirmy bottom who managed to break a cuff during an unsuccessful escape attempt.

Happy kinkversary

Thank you! Can it really just be a year since we started?

We had a fun and naughty day. The weather was perfect for the outdoor pool and just being able to play outside in pretty green surroundings was a treat. Didn't really explore the indoors!

My wife and I didn't venture near the pool, but we certainly took advantage of the pretty green surroundings. Glad to hear that the two of you had a happily naughty day as well.
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[Mindfondler]

Thanks very much, LucyBee01 and also to Consilience for your warm and sincere words under my personals advert (as per my earlier posting above). Much appreciated by Mrs MF and me!

Thanks also to Elle (Gianbattista) for your shout-out this morning under our personals advert.
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[Steamrunner]

Hi Everyone,

New guy here (hi, hey, how you doing) - near Watford.

Looking to see what's going on. This thread sounded interesting; whilst I am not involved in any dom/sub relationship (my wife is strictly vanilla), various exes and online partners seem to start calling me "Sir", "Master" or "Daddy" pretty quickly, and asking me to tell them what to do etc and how to please me. Whilst I've never deliberatly intended to be dominant, and I try to be "a nice guy", I must admit that there are many occasions where, looking back, the behaviour was quite Dominant. Not in abusive way - never abusive - but in being firm (I'm not ready for you to cum yet), or instructive (taking women shopping for toys and explaining how they will be used), or loving (punishment for masturbating when I'm not there, or being cheeky or teasing me). Always within boundaries, always consensual.

So, I'm wondering what I can learn - should I be doing more to cater for their needs? To allow them the have a better experience "with" me?
I know that there's a difference between calling someone "daddy" for play or 'cos it's cute, and calling them"Daddy" or "Master" because you need to.

I'm also aware that, as a married man, there may be limits to what I can do.

So - all pointers appreciated. I'm not looking to get my kicks of having power of women; far from it. It just seems like women want something from me that I'm not 100% how to give them just yet...

Hope that makes sense! And of course, if this is the wrong place, please point me in the right direction.

EDIT: I came here from the normal UK thread; I'll post in the "Hello" section as well.