The NEW UK Kink Thread

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[EnglishChap6687]

I'm also in NW and it's clouding over a bit already but still bright.

 

[Malich]

I got piss wet through walking to the shops, though it was brightening up in the distance... now its getting dark again

 

[StrangeView]

Yep, clouding over a bit here now. Is all this weather talk a British thing, do you think?

Elle, glad the leg's feeling better, soon be back in action. Do you think the turn in weather could be due to you washing the favourite linen? It normally does this when I decide to cut the lawn

Incidentally, did you know that pegs can also be used for hanging the washing out? Amazing!! (Well, it is a kink thread )

 

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[LucyBee01]

I was really ecxcited to try pegs but they were not what I hoped. They didn't feel good ouch, just ouch, and G. Wouldn't try them other places then nipples. We are still try them on nipples though. Some weeks of month is definitely no thank you.

Amen to that! I did try pegs in various places and they were amazing.... until that is, I took them off and OUCH. Still kind of amazing, but then also really rather sore-making, which became a problem for doing much else afterwards... good experiment though

 

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[StrangeView]

The ouch coming off I like . Yes it hurts a lot, but it is...what it is, I was really not happy with them on. I felt cross with myself that I was finding it so sore, so variable. G isn't that much if a fan, he thinks they are ugly, and prefers more decorative solutions, but......I have a real 'mental block' about these now. . Mainly because I feel they should not hurt so much.

One thing that you can do, is to put a rubber band around the open end to reduce the pressure (or the closed end to increase it, if you're that way inclined), and move it in or out to control it. Aesthetically, they're certainly not attractive (at least I don't think so), but it does give you the chance to experience the sensations and decide if it's something you want to pursue, before spending a fortune on prettier options. I didn't find the pegs too bad the first time I tried them, so I was up for trying 'proper' nipple clamps when I got the opportunity. Clamps do feel a bit different, still 'mmm ouch' for me, and they were on for longer than I'd done before; fine until Mistress took them off. She did mention that this might be uncomfortable, but MAN did they hurt coming off!!! I make a point of not having them on quite a long these days

 

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[LucyBee01]

I should try the rubber bands.

Hee. Let me know how that goes : )

Well, went to my first ever munch. After one false start where I looked around the room, panicked, and went out to the main bar and got myself some dutch courage, I returned and of course started chatting with some lovely folk.

Really glad I went

 

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[LucyBee01]

Well done! Do you think you made any friends? .



I think pegs are kinda nice looking btw. Simple, utilitarian. I don't like the look of plastic ones though

Yes, made a few friends including one local to me, so will see them again at the local munch in a few weeks time. And learnt about other vanilla events I might be interested in

Just need to get to grips with remembering real name/Fetlife handle and matching them up correctly!

Yes, proper pegs are wooden, imho.

 

[StrangeView]

Plastic pegs don't even look good on washing lines, I always use the wooden ones first before resorting to plastic ones at the bottom of the bag. Or am I just being picky?

 

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[LucyBee01]

Just enjoying enthusiastic debate about pegs!

Got in some guitar practice this evening. So frustratingly rusty, so back to basics like Leaving on a Jet Plane and Scarborough Fair until I can change chords fast enough to start re-learning harder stuff.

 

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[StrangeView]

The thing I love about this place is the way conversation can swing from lawn-mowing to electroplay, to bacon sandwiches, to imaginative uses for clothes pegs, and it's all perfectly normal )

LucyBee, another guitarist!! There's a few about on here, I think. I don't get to play much myself these days, I must make more effort.

Elle, good to hear that your burn is healing well, and things can start getting back to normal for you And you have a guitar in the house too. There's something about relaxing with friends and chatting, while somebody's playing quietly in the middle of it all, and a decent Spanish guitar is a lovely sound. Especially on a warm evening with the sun going down When you say you think ' today you will show me how to play you' but it never quite happens, that doesn't mean it won't, you know. I've never met anyone who wanted to play, that couldn't, with some help and encouragement.

Interestingly, I have notice that a lot of people into kink seem to be musical, or musically involved in some way. I wonder if anyone's ever looked into it, or done a survey, or something?

 

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[spellslave]

First LAM went well. Met my friend, thought it went really well. Gave him his first lesson in ropework or at least, me being the guinea-pig then got to rope him up in turn. Kick in the emotional nads this morning was basically 'you're too chatty and enthusiastic for me to cope with, back off' - phrased very slightly 'nicer' but still hurting. Wouldn't be the first time someone has said that to me so, I'm now on a 'I won't speak unless spoken to' policy with online individuals.

 

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[spellslave]

I think better to find out right now honestly than if there was more commitment, that would be a bigger 'kick' and its better he is honest. But it doesn't mean YOU should change or stop stepping forward. He is one person, there are others out there to play with. If you think it is a recurring issue then I may I suggest not retiring entirely but just thinking of finding people more open to chatty and enthusiastic or , if you really think YOU could do with learning boundaries ( different to changing yourself) then working on that. A measured approach might be more fulfilling and rewarding?

Its good LAM went well and the ropework, before the 'let down' was enjoyable I hope.

True, but it was more the 'you know, could've done with knowing that when the issue arose' thing that made it more frustrating. We're still friends... I think... but I'm leaving it up to him if he ever wants to initiate communication.

Master was a little disappointed that I suggested initiating a 'won't speak unless spoken to' policy on myself, but he wouldn't stop me. It's more the frustration for me personally that I've worked for years to overcome my shyness and low self-esteem, found myself at a high point where I'm confident with myself, my body and how I present myself then... yeah.

The LAM went well, yes. Got a spreader bar, 12ft of rope and a pvc skirt. And a new collar, so that was a haul worthwhile even if I spent more than intended.

 

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[Sweetdaisymae]

Home from a very exhausting Pride.
Master was most amused that I managed to pull within moments of leaving the fetish market, and being Pride you know it wasn't a fella who was hitting on me!

Looking forward to seeing some of you at BBB on the 16th, going to have my butt into gear and make some stock before then.

 

[StrangeView]

Afternoon all, just checking in

Good to hear weekend went well Daisy, looks like you've got a very busy week or so ahead of you.