The search for the caring caveman.

If I'm forced to talk - so are you :rolleyes::D

OK.....I am a major cave dweller, all this talk of civilization is a ruse to drug me into a soma style compliance.
.....now to have a healthy woman between my thighs!;) :cool:

Now it is your turn to talk.:cattail:
 
Me, too

Something primal. Hard. Strictly about the cock, the cunt and the need for a fierce fucking that will leave me sore in the most delightful of ways.

I love rough play! I seem to be addicted to it, I seek it out and when I can’t find it, I attempt to manifest it by trying to provoke the response I want - you know, tweaking the lion’s tail to so speak. Yet it’s nearly impossible to find the right combination of aggressiveness and control so I can give this desire free rein without the threat of actual injury.

I’m not talking bdsm. At least I don’t think I am. How do I get the “D” without having to be the “s”? No, what I crave is to be manhandled and overpowered, manipulated and used…but I still fully expect my “O’s”! :D ;)

Am I alone in this? It would be nice to know if that perfect mix has been found by someone.

Clearly you are not alone in your desires, but you are very special in your ability to articulate those desires so well. I've been struggling with that myself, and I think you clarified it perfectly.
Being a somewhat big girl, I sometimes have trouble finding a man who can overwhelm me properly, but when I do, look out! I still remember the guy who approached my friend and me as we were leaving a faire: he was very tall and just generally a big man, so we certainly noticed his arrival. He came up to me and asked my name, then he wrapped his arms around me and lifted me clean off my feet! The kiss I gave him as a reward would have been the tip of the iceberg had my friend not been there. Sadly, I never saw him again, but he still features prominently in my dreams of the ideal man.

If there are in fact men out there who are fully evolved humans with great compassion, verbal skills, good hygiene and can also take me over and give me the brute handling I crave, please do get in touch. And, Riles, thanks ever so much for bringing this question out of the cave and into the light :heart:
 
I've been looking for a woman exactly as you describe yourself, but alas, no luck so far.

I also care a great deal about intelligence.
 
Something primal. Hard. Strictly about the cock, the cunt and the need for a fierce fucking that will leave me sore in the most delightful of ways.

I love rough play! I seem to be addicted to it, I seek it out and when I can’t find it, I attempt to manifest it by trying to provoke the response I want - you know, tweaking the lion’s tail to so speak. Yet it’s nearly impossible to find the right combination of aggressiveness and control so I can give this desire free rein without the threat of actual injury.

I’m not talking bdsm. At least I don’t think I am. How do I get the “D” without having to be the “s”? No, what I crave is to be manhandled and overpowered, manipulated and used…but I still fully expect my “O’s”! :D ;)

Am I alone in this? It would be nice to know if that perfect mix has been found by someone.

It seems a perfectly reasonable thing to ask for. But as with most things one must be careful what they wish for, lest it find them. Such men exist. But when it goes bad, it can go very bad.

I think the tricky part is getting the pheromones to fit, the chemistry to mix in a way that makes the two more powerful than the sum of its parts.

IMHO :kiss:
 
I'm a little surprised to find that this desire on the part of men or women is apparently fairly difficult to find? Rough, animalistic fucking is an important part of any healthy sexual relationship, is it not? While this is certainly not the ONLY kind of sex I want, it is one of the kinds I need in a relationship to feel sexually fulfilled. Hmm.
 
Whew, after a whirlwind several days, it's good to come back and see that there have been more additions to this thread. Now, let me attempt to respond with some half ways articulate thoughts.

Clearly you are not alone in your desires, but you are very special in your ability to articulate those desires so well. I've been struggling with that myself, and I think you clarified it perfectly.
Being a somewhat big girl, I sometimes have trouble finding a man who can overwhelm me properly, but when I do, look out! I still remember the guy who approached my friend and me as we were leaving a faire: he was very tall and just generally a big man, so we certainly noticed his arrival. He came up to me and asked my name, then he wrapped his arms around me and lifted me clean off my feet! The kiss I gave him as a reward would have been the tip of the iceberg had my friend not been there. Sadly, I never saw him again, but he still features prominently in my dreams of the ideal man.

If there are in fact men out there who are fully evolved humans with great compassion, verbal skills, good hygiene and can also take me over and give me the brute handling I crave, please do get in touch. And, Riles, thanks ever so much for bringing this question out of the cave and into the light :heart:

It's always wonderful and shattering to the normal balance of our lives to meet someone who really zings you, isn't it? God...I haven't had a good zing in ages now that I think about it.

Anyhow, I am happy to lend my voice to such a worthy cause. ;)



I've been looking for a woman exactly as you describe yourself, but alas, no luck so far.

I also care a great deal about intelligence.

Oh....maybe my thread will act as a matchmaker yet. :D

It seems a perfectly reasonable thing to ask for. But as with most things one must be careful what they wish for, lest it find them. Such men exist. But when it goes bad, it can go very bad.

I think the tricky part is getting the pheromones to fit, the chemistry to mix in a way that makes the two more powerful than the sum of its parts.

IMHO :kiss:

I couldn't agree more. Otherwise I would have omitted the "caring" in the title, even though it's not the exact fit I was looking for.

Tricky, delicate balance. I don't have any wish to end up hurt - emotionally or physically.

I'm a little surprised to find that this desire on the part of men or women is apparently fairly difficult to find? Rough, animalistic fucking is an important part of any healthy sexual relationship, is it not? While this is certainly not the ONLY kind of sex I want, it is one of the kinds I need in a relationship to feel sexually fulfilled. Hmm.

I think there's a teasers taste of it in most relationships, but I'm not looking for just a little sample, and my desires go beyond the mere rough fuck on the bathroom floor once every few weeks.

Perhaps you've been more successful in this search than I, and I am happy for you.
 
The Caring Caveman. I absolutely adore this title, and can relate to what you're asking for. I appreciate how eloquent you are, and how well you put this! I've known a few 'compassionate caveman' and you explained very well why they're so addicting.
 
The Caring Caveman. I absolutely adore this title, and can relate to what you're asking for. I appreciate how eloquent you are, and how well you put this! I've known a few 'compassionate caveman' and you explained very well why they're so addicting.


I'm both flattered and thrilled. :heart:
 
Twas an awesome idea, love. I'd love to play with you sometimes.

Thank you, I thought so too! :D

...and I will have to dig it out, or re-create when I've flipped the mommy mode switch to OFF.

Though I think you and Corbs were better at it than I.
 
Thank you, I thought so too! :D

...and I will have to dig it out, or re-create when I've flipped the mommy mode switch to OFF.

Though I think you and Corbs were better at it than I.

I was a rank amateur. I think you would provide an excellent partner. :D
 
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