Eilan
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That's pretty much the gameplan.silverwhisper said:if immediate action is required, eilan, i say let him piss & moan and when he does, throw his non-responsiveness in his face.
or is that already your gameplan?
I don't need to take immediate action. I pretty much know what needs to be done, though, and I mostly wanted to give my ex a heads up. I'd respect his opinion if I had an opinion to respect, since he's an educator-type and his input might be relevant to the situation. And, as her father, he'll have a financial responsibility, though I know from past experience that he likely won't meet that obligation.
Right now, his stepchildren's activities are more important than anything concerning our children. I try to get him involved, let him know when things are going on, am liberal with visitation, haven't asked for more support in the three years since he's had a much higher-paying job, etc.
His loss.

