Threesome

[Batman4ever71]

With things getting better and communication on a all time high shouldn't i do all I can to foster this high in our relationship? Isn't love about doing all you can to make the othe person happy and fulfilled and content??

Karen,

Please take a step back and look at all of this wonderful advice you have recieved from people who are much more eloquent than I. Love really isn't about making the other person happy and fullilled. I feel it's more about making EACHOTHER happy. Look into your heart of hearts and see if this is something YOU want as well. Don't look at this possible situation as "couples therapy" to make up for the trust he has not earned back from you. After all, are you not an individual? Are you not deserving of having what YOU want as well? Where, in your lifetime, did someone tell you that it was your burden to bear to make your marriage work and to be at the beck and call of a man who seems to me want's his cake and eat it too??? The only other advice that I can offer is; If you have even a moments hesitation about a threesome....then DON'T DO IT!!!!!

Every person wants to do what is going to make their partner happy but please don't do it at the sacrifice of your dignity and well being. Yur a person first and foremost and WHAT YOU WANT MATTERS, YOU MATTER!!!!

Good Luck and Best Wishes,
Batman4ever71