Vaginal Fisting

[Dragonteeth]

Well I'm sure it wouldn't slacken to fist-size, but wouldn't it slacken a little over time, even if just a centimeter or so?

And this next one may be a stupid question, but if it's so hard getting his hand in at first, can't he get stuck inside? That would be very embarrassing, and not in a kinky way.

I have heard of ladies who have had muscular spasms which have caused certain objects, not intended for the purpose, to be forcibly retained in the vagina. Such objects usually have a large bulbous head, and a slender shaft. (Notably the gearstick of a car...). However the hand can pass through almost anything that is large enough to admit the wrist, it's how escapologists get out of handcuffs (one of the ways at least). Even if you did experience a spasm forceful enough to lock your partner in place, it should be easy enough to relax yourself out of it. The only issue that could arrise would be a panic reaction, which; while a problem if you have the gear stick of your boyfriends Merc firmly wedged in an intimately compromising position on the hard shoulder of the M25, shouldn't be an issue if you are relaxing in an intimate environment at home.

Once you have experienced it, you will recognise some of the sensations and you will know which muscles need to relax...

 

[nippleslut]

Congrats from me too nippleslut, do let us know what it felt like for you. My limited experience of the subject leads me to believe that different women experience things slightly differently.

Madetotakeit, I'd happily introduce you to these sensations, but I suspect you aren't short of offers.

sorry it took me a while to get back--we lets see it felt like something that i have never felt before. i had a feeling of being really really full like i have never felt before. i would like to tell you what i felt like emotionaly but at that point i was on my umptenth oragsum and was not thinking anymore. after wards i did feel really empty and lonely even though He was holding me and making sure that i was ok.

 

[Dragonteeth]

sorry it took me a while to get back--we lets see it felt like something that i have never felt before. i had a feeling of being really really full like i have never felt before. i would like to tell you what i felt like emotionaly but at that point i was on my umptenth oragsum and was not thinking anymore. after wards i did feel really empty and lonely even though He was holding me and making sure that i was ok.

That sounds familiar, I hope you both continue to enjoy.

 

[TeachMeSir]

I suppose I should report in after all the build-up!

I am lucky enough to have a very patient & attentive Je t'aime who was able to let me feel the sensations and appreciate the build-up rather than aim for the final result. Thank-you. At no time did I feel any pressure to perform.

I wasn't sure that I was going to be able to accept it. And in fact the opportunity didn't arise as planned.

Instead, even better, someone wonderful with very delicate hands was able to be his helper. Thank-you to you also.

I will say that I did get the feeling of fullness. There was also the pinch. And a wonderful orgasm. I would like to try it again. I was enjoying it so much that I had an orgasm before the knuckles on her hand had folded back and I was starting to get to sensitive to continue.

 

[twysted73]

I suppose I should report in after all the build-up!

I am lucky enough to have a very patient & attentive Je t'aime who was able to let me feel the sensations and appreciate the build-up rather than aim for the final result. Thank-you. At no time did I feel any pressure to perform.

I wasn't sure that I was going to be able to accept it. And in fact the opportunity didn't arise as planned.

Instead, even better, someone wonderful with very delicate hands was able to be his helper. Thank-you to you also.

I will say that I did get the feeling of fullness. There was also the pinch. And a wonderful orgasm. I would like to try it again. I was enjoying it so much that I had an orgasm before the knuckles on her hand had folded back and I was starting to get to sensitive to continue.

Bravo to our little helper. You are a darling. Thank you again.

 

[greeneyed_Lady]

There are permanent physical changes that can make things somewhat easier in many cases. A doctor can always tell by observation if a woman went through (or well into) labor from the changed anatomy.

The body, in the process of labor, does some thing to help increase the size of the birth canal. For example, bones soften slightly and are bent to increase pelvic width. Connective tissue stretched by pressure of the fetal head being pushed don't allow things to return to quite the original (tighter) positions.

Well, I'm not convinced of this. Every vagina looks similar, but slightly different as each of us is similar, but different. I was induced as I was 2 wks and 2 days past my due date, laboured for 14 hrs after the point they told me I was having contractions (I didn't feel them for about 4 hrs AFTER they told me I was in labour), pushed for 2 hrs, underwent an attempt to reposition the baby (man.. now that I think about it.. *shudder*) and finally was told they were going to take the baby. I had a c/s, non-emergency as neither of us was in distress. Dr freaked me out while he was pulling the baby out by saying.. "OH MY GOD HE'S HUGE!!". While not the largest baby ever delivered, he was 9 lbs 2 oz and 22" long. We were diagnosed with CPD (cephalo-pelvic disproportion) kind of after the fact. I opted for a repeat with the second because they refused to do a vaginal ultrasound to determine if I was infact structurally large enough, and the theory is that second babies are larger then first... my ex was pushing me to VBAC, but the more I thought about it the more scared I became. Someone noted that vaginal deliveries were shorter, less complicated recoveries. True. I'm the exception to that as I was not in any pain from the c/s, and my milk came in at 5 and 3 days respectively. The only pain I had with the second was where they damn near broke my ribs to get my *high and floaty* one out of me... he was definitely not ready to arrive. Oh.. and the second was nearly 2 lbs smaller then the first... and had I known that at the time of delivery, I might have attempted a VBAC.

I had no problems resuming normal active sex life, with no difference in sensation with either pregnancy. The few partners I've had since have all commented on the tightness, and I had one who, like Twysted shared in his post, thought he could get away with attempting to fist me. Difference was Twysted took his time and worked up to it, this butt-head didn't. Was 3 days of pain afterwards.. micro tears are a bitch... and he's never been allowed near me again. His excuse... "you were into it.. seemed like you wanted it... " Ok. Unless you know that's what she (err... guess I shouldn't speak for the millions of other women in the world) wants, please don't try it. I will seriously hurt the next one that attempts it.

The one I play with now does what he calls baby-fisting. We've played with the chain a few times, and I enjoy it very much when he's loaded as much chain into me as I can take (and that seems to vary from time to time as well) and then inserting either his fingers or his cock into me. He has big hands and I've expressly said, no way, no how.... not gonna happen. Ever.

 

[Shalrath]

Right, sorry for the bump, but I have a question that I haven't seen asked nor answered:

...However the hand can pass through almost anything that is large enough to admit the wrist, it's how escapologists get out of handcuffs (one of the ways at least)....

I've read a lot on this forum and have fisted a partner before (it's ace!!). My current lady friend is interested in trying this (I seem to have awakened all sorts of dark desires she was previously unaware of), and I'd very much love to do so. We haven't tried yet (we're taking a slowwww ride out of her fluffy vanilla world ), but I'd like to do some preliminary stuff. Thing is, she's quite small, and my hands are quite firm...

Specifically, they're quite firm and quite rigid (from rock-climbing - tough on the fingers) - very little compression possible across the knuckles. I know from experience that the shape makes a lot of difference e.g. a roughly circular cross-section is a lot easier to fit in than a more elliptical one.

So... Is it possibly to gain some looseness / compression across the knuckles, e.g. by massage or other self-manipulation techniques?? Obviously I'd rather ask about it here than ask, say, a physiotherapist .

Any experience / advice??