Vaginal Fisting

For those that can't quite make it: If you try gently every day, or every other day for a week or two, commonly you can then make it.

If you have someone with smaller hands try regularly, then when they succeed, do it regularly, your regular larger pawed partner may then be able to make it.

If you use one of these enormous inflatable dildoes, insert soft then inflate if you have to, you may get a head start.

If you take the inner tube out of a blood pressure monitor cuff, wrap it around a dildo or a broom handle sized piece of dowel, insert and inflate, and repeat this regularly, you almost certainly will make it. These things can inflate to a very large size indeed.

It's about stretching yourself regularly, faster than your body goes back into shape. Returning to your previous tightness takes a few days, so you can stretch to take anything that will fit between your pubic bones if you work at it systematically.

If, after achieving your goal, you don't do it for a couple of weeks, you'll be back where you started. You have to use it in order not to lose it.

One of the things I enjoy about fisting my sub, apart from the excellent list already chronicled above, is that balance on the edge of pleasure and pain. Just a slight clenching of the fist causes enough expansion of the fist, and enough extra pressure, to give a very easily controllable balance right on the pleasure pain boundary. If, for instance, I lick her while I fist her, I can push this boundary as her pleasure escalates.

Another intriguing thing is the ability to stimulate a G spot like erogenous zone locates almost at the extreme end of the front vaginal wall. This thing has an obscure name and is recognised by sex researchers, but I can't for the life of me think what it's called right now, we just call it the jesus spot; "Oh jesus, that's it", you get the idea. When you find this thing, you can give her orgasms that go on for an extremely prolonged time (as opposed to repeated multiples) and that are accompanied by unusually strong vaginal contractions, and aftershock like pulses that may continue for half an hour or more after the fact. The only difficulty in identifying the right spot, is that stimulating it doesn’t result in that instant burst of pleasure that other erogenous zones are notorious for. It does however, feel like a small bump, which can help. It works best by firm, slow and very rhythmic rubbing pressure and doesn’t take too long to get the job done. Can anyone remind me what this zone is called?
 
OH MY! How hot.... WOW I so agree with you that it is a "
Trust, desire for your partner, comfortability, communication, a feeling of closeness and intimacy felt for your partner, a bond forms....A very submissive-to-Dominant surrender.
It's why I love it so" Cause I just tried it and I was shocked and amazed what it felt like and how it felt.. Ive never trusted anyone like I trust my dom.. I know he can tell by my body's reaction to him that I am enjoying it... He says we got very close but it is within my mind next time I see him MORE MORE MORE... ...

To me it felt similar to what I had always imagined, but at the same time very different. Physically it certainly lived up to my fantasies, but I didn't consider then mental aspects of it. There is a lot of trust in allowing someone to attempt it. Between the physical sensations and the mental side I couldn't help but just be present in the moments. An odd place for me because I have always lived in the realm of my head. In a way I was unsure of myself because I was so unaccustomed to that. It was a bit overwhelming to me, but in a very good way. Each time it took days afterwards for me to really process the experience. I couldn't have described what I was thinking or how it felt at the time coherently. It's not an easy task to make me wordless. :rolleyes:

...Can anyone remind me what this zone is called?

Grafenburg Spot

It's simply something shared and, IMHO, something awesome whether you get the whole damn thing in or not.

Couldn't agree with you more.
 
No, Grafenburg spot is the G-spot, usually located on the front vaginal wall only an inch or two in. There's another one much deeper, less well known, with an even more forgetable name; possibly after someone who's name began with an F. Oh well; can't remember.
 
....because it's nothing but fun if you do it in the state of mind it's meant to be done.

It's not a race to be won or a finish line to be crossed.

It's not proof you're a good Dom or a good submissive.

It's simply something shared and, IMHO, something awesome whether you get the whole damn thing in or not.

Enjoy! ;)


C'est certainement une pensée d'un adicting. Comme sont vous.
 
No, Grafenburg spot is the G-spot, usually located on the front vaginal wall only an inch or two in. There's another one much deeper, less well known, with an even more forgetable name; possibly after someone who's name began with an F. Oh well; can't remember.

Ah, I misread. I thought the full name of the G-spot was what you were referring to. I believe you may be thinking of what is commonly known as the Epicenter (Anterior Fornix Zone.) A small depression in the upper back just before the cervix. There is a nerve very close to the surface located there.
 
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I've been fortunate enough to introduce a couple of ladies to this particular practice, and frankly I find it almost as arousing as they seem to, though I don't get to practice it as often as I'd like.

I've found it sometimes helps to relax in a warm bath or shower, (the water does provide some lubrication, but not a lot,) and as other's have said, it's supposed to be fun. Just relax and enjoy it.

Another point to note is that when one has one's hand inside her, there are still plenty of places in reach of a warm slippery tongue...
 
Ah, I misread. I thought the full name of the G-spot was what you were referring to. I believe you may be thinking of what is commonly known as the Epicenter (Anterior Fornix Zone.) A small depression in the upper back just before the cervix. There is a nerve very close to the surface located there.


I know its one of my favourite spots of play. Excellent results and I have never met any one who has experienced it who doesn't agree.
In some women it is right at the base of the cervix and stroke the area results in many pleasent times.
 
Enjoy what you can do would be my suggestion. My husband and I have the same problem but we have a good time anyway.

:rose:

My [former] gf and I found that it's often just a matter of relaxation more than anything else.
 
Finally

Well it took us a while too and last night it finally happened. He got his whole hand in me. i had been having some issues as of late in which i was not feeling like i was enough for Him or what He wanted and last night things just worked out well. i was extra wet to begin with, He added some more lub to my natrual wetness and just when i thought He would stop trying i felt something that i had never felt before but before i could lift my head and inquire as to if it had happened i experienced feelings like i have never felt before. He was happy that things had finally happend and as i sit here typing this i have a great soreness to my pussy. :D
 
Congratulations nippleslut for finally getting there. What things were you feeling or running through your mind? I'm equally happy for you and jealous as hell. One day I'll know for myself. ;)
 
Well it took us a while too and last night it finally happened. He got his whole hand in me. i had been having some issues as of late in which i was not feeling like i was enough for Him or what He wanted and last night things just worked out well. i was extra wet to begin with, He added some more lub to my natrual wetness and just when i thought He would stop trying i felt something that i had never felt before but before i could lift my head and inquire as to if it had happened i experienced feelings like i have never felt before. He was happy that things had finally happend and as i sit here typing this i have a great soreness to my pussy. :D

Like pushing a lemon wedge through the neck of a corona (although I hate anything tequilia-based)
I love that first popping in. Such tightness and then......****** and comfort and heat. Grrrr......
*heads off to the showers*
 
Congratulations nippleslut for finally getting there. What things were you feeling or running through your mind? I'm equally happy for you and jealous as hell. One day I'll know for myself. ;)

Congrats from me too nippleslut, do let us know what it felt like for you. My limited experience of the subject leads me to believe that different women experience things slightly differently.

Madetotakeit, I'd happily introduce you to these sensations, but I suspect you aren't short of offers.
 
I've never tried vaginal fisting. It does sounds interesting, but wouldn't that stretch me up and lessen my pleasure when having intercourse? That's what's scaring me.
 
Well it took us a while too and last night it finally happened. He got his whole hand in me. i had been having some issues as of late in which i was not feeling like i was enough for Him or what He wanted and last night things just worked out well. i was extra wet to begin with, He added some more lub to my natrual wetness and just when i thought He would stop trying i felt something that i had never felt before but before i could lift my head and inquire as to if it had happened i experienced feelings like i have never felt before. He was happy that things had finally happend and as i sit here typing this i have a great soreness to my pussy. :D

Congrats!

:D

:rose:
 
I've never tried vaginal fisting. It does sounds interesting, but wouldn't that stretch me up and lessen my pleasure when having intercourse? That's what's scaring me.

I think we've been there - and the jury's still out - although it probably depends which side of the fist your vagina happens to be :D
 
I've never tried vaginal fisting. It does sounds interesting, but wouldn't that stretch me up and lessen my pleasure when having intercourse? That's what's scaring me.

No. It won't. You are now free to enjoy.

:rose:
 
Like pushing a lemon wedge through the neck of a corona (although I hate anything tequilia-based)
I love that first popping in. Such tightness and then......****** and comfort and heat. Grrrr......
*heads off to the showers*

Yeah, me too. My husband tried to tell me Corona's are just as good without that wedge. I guess he just doesn't get it.

:eek:
 
I've never tried vaginal fisting. It does sounds interesting, but wouldn't that stretch me up and lessen my pleasure when having intercourse? That's what's scaring me.

It doesn't seem likely. After all, that particular orifice is intended to expand large enough to birth a baby, and even MY fist isn't THAT big. Though it does take a little while for the tissues to recover from birth, you'd probably have to work very hard for quite some time to stretch yourself out that much.
 
Well I'm sure it wouldn't slacken to fist-size, but wouldn't it slacken a little over time, even if just a centimeter or so?

And this next one may be a stupid question, but if it's so hard getting his hand in at first, can't he get stuck inside? That would be very embarrassing, and not in a kinky way. :eek:
 
Well I'm sure it wouldn't slacken to fist-size, but wouldn't it slacken a little over time, even if just a centimeter or so?

And this next one may be a stupid question, but if it's so hard getting his hand in at first, can't he get stuck inside? That would be very embarrassing, and not in a kinky way. :eek:

Sex immediately afterwards does feel a bit different. You go from all sorts of areas being stimulated to fewer and there is swelling from the stimulation as well. As far as recovery...Kegel exercises are a girl's (and guy's) best friend. REcovery is pretty much complete by the next day. I had sex a day after a stretching section and he didn't notice any changes.

Although I haven't been fortunate enough to go to the wrist, I would think coming out is much easier than going in. With the removal you can assist by pushing if necessary.
 
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