want to be dominated

[jeffreysub]

Hmmm, looks like someone deleted my last post oh well. Doesn't really matter, I personally hate it when people try to push their crap around me saying that they are only fantasies and what I want isn't real... I don't know about anyone else but I think most people would take that offensively.

 

[sincerely_helene]

Hmmm, looks like someone deleted my last post oh well. Doesn't really matter, I personally hate it when people try to push their crap around me saying that they are only fantasies and what I want isn't real... I don't know about anyone else but I think most people would take that offensively.

Don't take it to heart, jeffrey. The site is having problems right now, so at the moment quite a few of our posts are lost in cyber limbo. Check back tommorow.

P.S. Lit doesn't delete posts just because they don't like them. If they did, they wouldn't start and end at yours.

 

[Marquis]

P.S. Lit doesn't delete posts just because they don't like them. If they did, they wouldn't start and end at yours.

I'd probably have 30 posts.

 

[Aeroil]

Marquis - LOL
jefferey - sometimes reality sucks and you happen to hate it, I have an idiotic curr of a brother whom I despise, but the reality is he's my brother and I have to deal with him without resorting to biting his throat out, despite how much I hate the prospect, 'tis reality sometimes. It might piss you off to no end but it may very well be true, keep that in mind.

 

[Etoile]

I'm really sorry to disillusion all of you but bondage and S&M is indeed about sex. It is part of our primal natures, the beast within that wants to be released. You all may or may not have this redicules impression that it's all just about dominating or being submissive but actually it's alot more than merely that. It's about controll and power plus having absolute power or being absolutely powerless.

Any lesbian that claims they like to dominate men and then say it's not about sex or a sexual need is full of themselves. Most of the lesbians that I've met are indeed into dominating other women and none wanted to dominate me which was a disapointment. People tend to want to dominate people that they find attractive, they wont bother to dominate you if they don't unless as some people have said you have the green

Please try and understand that yes some lesbians or self proclaimed lesbians who do dominate men are either a strict professional or are simply stating that they are a lesbian because it's a good fashion statement that makes them look cold and calous to some men who like that sort of thing. Of course these aren't only my words but are words from some lesbians that I've met in the past. Of course people may choose not to believe me or otherwise but that's hardly here nor there.

Can I just say...
bwahahaha!

I love this.

It's the prescriptive attitude that really just kills me.

 

[Etoile]

Don't take it to heart, jeffrey. The site is having problems right now, so at the moment quite a few of our posts are lost in cyber limbo. Check back tommorow.

P.S. Lit doesn't delete posts just because they don't like them. If they did, they wouldn't start and end at yours.

Yes indeed. In fact, moderators can't delete posts. They can edit them to the point of having no text, but the post will still be there and there will be a mark on it indicating who edited it. But yes, we're going through an upgrade and many recent posts have indeed disappeared.

 

[MissTaken]

In a word....



BIsexual.




In any event, jeffrey? You will find someone who meets your needs while she meets yours. Your philosophies on BDSM will be shared, even though others may not share the same.

That being the case, whatever works for you.

You can try posting ads at collarme.com, bondage. com, alt.com or DSkiosk.com.

Best wishes to you.

MissT

 

[MissTaken]

Yes indeed. In fact, moderators can't delete posts. They can edit them to the point of having no text, but the post will still be there and there will be a mark on it indicating who edited it. But yes, we're going through an upgrade and many recent posts have indeed disappeared.

Yep.

Only spam or personal info is likely to be edited. Differing views or even harsh words are not.

Hang in there all!

 

[catalina_francisco]

I'd probably have 30 posts.

30 no way you could never have reached that high a number, I would have said 4 or 5.

Francisco.

 

[shy slave]

Can I just say...
bwahahaha!

I love this.

It's the prescriptive attitude that really just kills me.

Etoile I have to ask ....
Do you see yourself as a Lesbian fashion statement?????????

No please don't hit me I was only asking lol

 

[shy slave]

Dude,

Maybe YOUR idea of Bondage and S&M include sex, but for you to say everyone's does is way off mark. There isn't a single definition of a BDSM relationship.

In my opinion you're just a guy into kinky sex, and haven't the first clue about submission.

I'll qualify my thoughts by what you are saying.

"To me domination and submission is all about sex and if it lacks sexual intercourse in anyway I start to get turned off."

All you want is to get laid, and if that includes you being helpless, it excites you even more.

"As for it being just about my pleasure well frankly it isn't. It's about both our pleasures, hers and mine and her pleasure will always come first. "

As long as you get laid, you'll be happy to please her too.

Notice the trend here?

"As far as am I sure that I am a sub the answer is yes I am pretty damn sure that I am indeed a sub. It's not something that I think is so easy to explain but lets just say that I have fantasies of being tortured slowly inch by inch. My flesh being taken and ripped assunder, my body nothing more to be used for her pleasure and than thrown aside."

Does this include you not being able to orgasm?

Take the advice of a male submissive here, you don't want a Domme, you want to control from the bottom like Miss Karen has said.

In the real world of D/s the submissive doesen't always get what they want, no matter how well they beg.

I think your fantasies, are just that, fantasies.

jeffrey
I have read every response in the thread and you have been given some great insight from some wonderful Dommes.
I love Ghosst reply though. As a male sub he has been where you are now, and found what he has been looking for. I bet it wasn't easy for him.

What bothers me is i am not sure about you.
You seem confused about several issues and your view of women seems slightly off. No-one expects people to be conversant with the terminology used. However when coming to a previously undiscovered area of life it is best to ask for clarification. Mr Blonde happily and patiently explained some terms for you, without your having to ask.

Overall I can't decide if your:
a) 15 yr old trying out the world of grown-ups
b) a geniune, but confused, man
c) a troll.

Whatever you are I hope you appreciate the knowledge given in this thread.

 

[Etoile]

Etoile I have to ask ....
Do you see yourself as a Lesbian fashion statement?????????

No please don't hit me I was only asking lol

I don't think so...but then again I'm not sure I understand the question!

 

[Marquis]

30 no way you could never have reached that high a number, I would have said 4 or 5.

Francisco.

When the forum moderator's master tells you this, it's quite a compliment.