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[Chillygirl]

If the cold shoulder this time is in hopes of me walking away.

Comparing how things were before and how they are now, I feel dumb.

My friend said “It’s like you’re chasing after someone that’s running away but still making sure you’re there” and I refused to believe it but now I feel like it’s bluntly in my face.

I understand this completely…especially the runner/chaser part.

You deserve better.

 

[Shenanigans90]

If the cold shoulder this time is in hopes of me walking away.

Comparing how things were before and how they are now, I feel dumb.

My friend said “It’s like you’re chasing after someone that’s running away but still making sure you’re there” and I refused to believe it but now I feel like it’s bluntly in my face.

Sending hugs Li, I hope things work out for the best.

 

[Photog1rl]

If the cold shoulder this time is in hopes of me walking away.

Comparing how things were before and how they are now, I feel dumb.

My friend said “It’s like you’re chasing after someone that’s running away but still making sure you’re there” and I refused to believe it but now I feel like it’s bluntly in my face.

That is so crappy. I do not understand people who play games like this. Just be straightforward and honest. Clear communication is not hard and even if it hurts to hear the truth it allows people to make informed decisions.

You deserve someone actively running towards you!

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

If the cold shoulder this time is in hopes of me walking away.

Comparing how things were before and how they are now, I feel dumb.

My friend said “It’s like you’re chasing after someone that’s running away but still making sure you’re there” and I refused to believe it but now I feel like it’s bluntly in my face.

Ugh I'm so sorry you're going through this. I've been there too and it sucks. Sending you love and hugs

 

[oksideshow859419]

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Read in the news today that a cheated on husband caught his wife with her lover in bed. When he confronted the two he made is wife sit there while the husband used a saw to cut off the lovers head right in front of her....!!!!!

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

If the cold shoulder this time is in hopes of me walking away.

Comparing how things were before and how they are now, I feel dumb.

My friend said “It’s like you’re chasing after someone that’s running away but still making sure you’re there” and I refused to believe it but now I feel like it’s bluntly in my face.

I've felt this deeply recently. Sending hugs!

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

Read in the news today that a cheated on husband caught his wife with her lover in bed. When he confronted the two he made is wife sit there while the husband used a saw to cut off the lovers head right in front of her....!!!!!

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

"Hey I'm taking a Lit break and won't be around for awhile."

Next day: *immediately back on Lit, also completely ignores you"

Why do people do this shit? It's so fucking weird.

 

[Deleted member 6666935]

Part of my being on the spectrum is that I do sometimes overthink things, especially if I’ve tried to figure out if a woman is interested in me or not, usually to the point where I decide they aren’t (regardless of what reality might be, because I’ve never been good at reading signals and sometimes I’ve thought there were signals where it was extraordinarily unlikely… which still happens today).

 

[hopeful_wife]

I'm overthinking my to-do list... And therefore not starting it.

Also:

“It’s like you’re chasing after someone that’s running away but still making sure you’re there”

This bullshit is so frustrating. I don't know, FunLi, if you're referring to someone IRL or a litster... But when I see this happening to someone I'm friends with, or realize it's happening to me, I get super annoyed. So many of us here have a history of being rejected elsewhere. Being desired is a powerful feeling and we can sometimes find that feeling here. But chasing after it at the expense of leaving someone else feeling rejected isn't okay. If it's not working, say it.

 

[Apisto42]

Enchiladas or pizza?

Fuck it, I’ll get both and have leftovers.

 

[positiveflirt]

I miss this thread! Overthinking has gone out of fashion for 2024. All of the overthinkers burned out and joined the Underthinkers Union. Now they're happier. How dare they!
Sigh.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I'm overthinking whether I should have self love time

 

[munch2much]

Oh, pretty much everything!

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

When I don't hear from someone, they must be in a coma or dead. Did I do something wrong? Damn them! I'm better off without them in my life. But what if they're hurt? And thus the cycle continues.

 

[Shymidwestgirl]

Oh, pretty much everything!

You took my answer!

Just the every day stuff of life that manages to consume me.

 

[Amanda330]

I miss this thread! Overthinking has gone out of fashion for 2024. All of the overthinkers burned out and joined the Underthinkers Union. Now they're happier. How dare they!
Sigh.

I wish that were the case. I would much prefer being an underthinker. Lol

 

[positiveflirt]

I wish that were the case. I would much prefer being an underthinker. Lol

Can you overthink underthinking? That's how you know you're a true pro

 

[munch2much]

You took my answer!

Just the every day stuff of life that manages to consume me.

I have a feeling that people exist who aren’t bombarded with never ending thoughts. I am not one of them!

 

[Amanda330]

Can you overthink underthinking? That's how you know you're a true pro

Baby, I can overthink anything.

 

[ShaneoD]

Tomorrow's sleepover

 

[positiveflirt]

Baby, I can overthink anything.

"Oh my god. She called me baby. What does that mean? Does she think I'm an actual baby? Oh my god I drank milk in front of her that one time, she thinks I'm a baby. Jesus christ I dressed as baby new year for the office Christmas fancy dress party."
Bring it on!

 

[Lord Pmann]

"Oh my god. She called me baby. What does that mean? Does she think I'm an actual baby? Oh my god I drank milk in front of her that one time, she thinks I'm a baby. Jesus christ I dressed as baby new year for the office Christmas fancy dress party."
Bring it on!

Dude, chill. That's not what she was thinking.

She called you baby because she totally wants to fuck you. Simples.

 

[Amanda330]

"Oh my god. She called me baby. What does that mean? Does she think I'm an actual baby? Oh my god I drank milk in front of her that one time, she thinks I'm a baby. Jesus christ I dressed as baby new year for the office Christmas fancy dress party."
Bring it on!

Omg does he actually think I think he's a baby? Was that too familiar for someone you don't know all that well? Omg what if he thinks I think he likes me more than he does. What if other men see that I called him baby and now they think that I'll call them baby???

Omg he dressed as a baby new year? What even is that?? It's he a weirdo? This is why I shouldn't flirt with anyone on lit.

Omg I'm outing myself as a weirdo.

 

[positiveflirt]

Dude, chill. That's not what she was thinking.

She called you baby because she totally wants to fuck you. Simples.

The new question is: What does Pmann overthink?