What’s the most interesting thing you learned about your sexuality?

I never thought in terms of sexuality . Like most men I thought in terms of frequency. Surprisingly my sexuality is more about my expanded horizons for lack of a better phraise.
 
Discovered the variety of ways to masturbate and to suck and lick cocks! And like Katch123, my sex drive has continued to increase!
 
For it would be the fact that not only am I comfortable being in a poly relationship, but that I am also bi. While enjoy messing around with women more, every now and again there is something fun about jerking off with another guy, and perhaps even giving each other oral.
 
The satisfaction I derive from being a bottom slut with men while the contrast of also enjoying sex with my wife.
 
Ive learned that i love to be submissive and enjoy a more dominant man especially verbal. I start throbbing when i hear a guy say things like:
“thats it slut! Suck my big cock. You like that dick dont you!! Come on Bitch! Take it deep. “Lick those balls too whore!”


So i learned my auditory stimulation gets me off big time! I love guys who can express what their thinking and hearing them say it out loud gets me excited(the dirtier the better) . Its like those vibrations in the air stimulate my body.
My ideal is a dom who understands and facilitates my fetishes. He might say “you have a cute ass, stand and face the window“ bc for myself the escalation of eroticism in steps is a glorious turn on. The verbal description of what may or will happen is part of what makes me crave the actual doing. Being spanked bc I resisted an instruction until I beg to do it makes me literally ache to perform.
 
Im absolutely all about my sexy wife.but when masturbating that one week of the month, im so horny I'd happily do anything to be taken rough by a guy just so i get to cum. So never actually done anything with a guy but occasionally the thought makes me slide my wifes dildo into my ass
 
1. That my incestuous love for my little sister (we're both adults with families now) informs essentially every one of my fantasies.

2. That I'm obsessed with incest (see #1)

3. My first time cumming was fantasizing about her. Now I can't really cum unless there's some incestuous thought in my mind.

4. I'm 100% heterosexual UNLESS you bring incest into the mix and the right incestuous scenario would make me comfortable with even sucking a cock (fantasizing about my wife's brother all the time and having a threesome with him and her)
 
I feel so plain.

My revelation was the first time running my hands through a woman's hair while making out, and hearing her audible gasp of pleasure when I closed my grip and used the handful of hair to expose her neck to my lips. This was out on the street in NYC. And the thrill it gave me, and the desire to get that type of response again and again.

I am not into the full time play games, but I definitely learned I had a naturally dominant nature, and that most woman have a naturally submissive one. And that the vanilla woman melt into it on their own without knowing or understanding what is happening.
 
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