What’s the most interesting thing you learned about your sexuality?

[emme8]

Until I after was OUT of college, I thought Anal sex was an urban legend.

Now I love anal. Love being a sub. Love pain and the shocker to me...

I LOVE being on top also. Orgasm control, pegging my man, cucking him with my Dom.

I am almost afraid of another 25 years

 

[Ticklespankee]

That I really get off on dread/anticipation. I'm into tickling, spanking and other forms of punishment/torture and the anticipation of it happening is almost more erotic for me than the action itself. I love begging and pleading for mercy, which enhances it even more.

 

[Mike_In_Taiwan]

That I have a marked preference for sex with married or attached women to the point I have pretty much stopped dating single women.

 

[Bigaug]

That I enjoy wearing women's undergarments as much as I do, that I wouldn't hesitate having a MMF and touching the other guy, that wanting to watch my wife have sex with another woman or another guy turns me on so much, and I am obsessed with secretly recording my wife masturbating and desire to be shocked and hear another person's voice having sex with her on one of those secret recordings

 

[AnalLady]

Until I after was OUT of college, I thought Anal sex was an urban legend.

Now I love anal. Love being a sub. Love pain and the shocker to me...

I LOVE being on top also. Orgasm control, pegging my man, cucking him with my Dom.

I am almost afraid of another 25 years

Why anal is urban?

 

[BiGuyBarrie]

That I absolutely love seeing my Hubby fuck another woman, and that I'd love it if he came home and told he he had just done so before making me suck his cock...

I love this as well only opposite. I love my girl coming home after getting fucked and going down on her. Also love watching her getting railed.

 

[Oshkosh60]

Never thought of listening to the sound of a woman urinating would be interesting in the least, but an adult step daughter moved in and frequently uses the bathroom upstairs with has a tile floor while leaving the door open and it's so loud, she might as will be doing it five feet away. Not seriously erotic to me yet, but I always pause to wonder.....hmmm (and this happens three or four times a day)

 

[Bigboobbabe]

That its ok to enjoy any sexual direction you wish, providing everyone involved is a consenting adult and no one is getting hurt. Sex is fun, so enjoy it with others who also enjoy it.

Very well stated.

 

[Addam829]

I learned that I’m more comfortable with threesomes (MMF) bring that boundaries are set and respect by everyone as well being watched by other people or hotwives that make their sissy husbands watch. As long as everyone is direct in their boundaries it’s more fun then I thought.

 

[cdstefi]

Discovering that while I've been a lifelong crossdresser, in contrast to the conventional idea of CDs being sissified or feminised I find it simply turbocharges my masculinity.

I'm not a hairy bear kind of guy, I'm fairly smooth and slim (apart from a middle-age gut) and from some angles can pull off a feminine look reasonably well and enjoy how I look in lingerie, but it's not a thing that makes me feel feminine or want to be feminised.

I guess it's more a strong lingerie fetish and I enjoyed finding a long technical sounding word for what I have: autogynephilia.

 

[Secret_Kink_Couple]

I really want a threesome with hubby and an extra lady- and I am much more into the dirty than I ever imagined, including being quite submissive. Being tied up is my favorite, add in some plugs, toys and videos and it's beyond amazing.

 

[SmoothAndSweet]

hypersensitivity can be a curse sometimes and other times it's just one orgasm after another

 

[Jcam1980s]

Probably that while i have a great sex life with my wife, the first time i masturbated with a vibrator in my ass and seemingly came twice in less than a minute, because i was fantasising about a big cock screwing me in front of her until my ass was full of cum.

 

[Oshkosh60]

I have thought about being with another guy, not just getting head from one but perhaps giving as good as I get. But I have never seen one that I said to myself....oh yeah, I want to jump in bed with him. But if his wife or girlfriend were to join us.....wow ! That makes me very hot and I would be down with everything ! The funny thing is that I have participated in two MMF in the past but there was no guy on guy contact then because I was not into guys then at all.

 

[CuttingEdge]

For me, it is how moldable my sexuality is.

I have always had a high sex drive, and while I did some kinky things over the years, I still had some inhibitions. As I age, and most likely being on here and realizing other people are like me and crazy things are not so crazy, some hard-no's from years ago, are not so absolute for me.

I don't think I am in denial on any lifestyle, nor prone to it, it's just that I find myself more open to different aspects of sex now. A case in point might be tasting my own cum. I tried it once years ago, but it was a one-time test just to see what it tasted like. Now? If a lady wanted me to taste her after my release, I probably would. Its not really being seduced, or humiliation, but me just realizing that if I can do something I might not overly want to do, but it pleases someone else; to do it would make sex more gratifying for us both. But that is more of a maturity thing, then anything.

It still surprises me that I have reached that point in my sexuality.

 

[sterculius]

I was amazed by the degree to which humiliation and degradation turns me on.

 

[DD71uk]

I am a good decent man who loves dark nasty sex with women, anything taboo or wrong turns me on, the only area I not a good guy is in my sexual life.
This took a long time to come to terms with, now I fully embrace it.

 

[Mypssypls]

I am a good decent man who loves dark nasty sex with women, anything taboo or wrong turns me on, the only area I not a good guy is in my sexual life.
This took a long time to come to terms with, now I fully embrace it.

What is a “good guy” really? As long as both parties consent to giving each other pleasure, sex can be anything you want to cum to.

 

[PersonalFavors]

Feeling a woman climax from my touch and cunnilingus is more fulfilling than intercourse. More intimate. More everything. So private. So privileged to be welcome there....

 

[Mypssypls]

Feeling a woman climax from my touch and cunnilingus is more fulfilling than intercourse. More intimate. More everything. So private. So privileged to be welcome there....

Glad to hear that. You can tell how much you’ve pleasured your woman from how wet she gets and when you get the leg/pussy shaking orgasm

 

[EStaccato]

I take the question to mean recently, and most recently I’m pretty sure that I’m demisexual and prefer homosexual relationships over straight… and that I might actually prefer feeling loved in that circumstance over being a dirty submissive fuck toy. Until connecting with a woman who is worthy of a title like soulmate, I couldn’t imagine/read/watch cunnilingus as the recipient without imagining it was all for the pleasure of my partner. Now I think of my lady going down on me, and I can just enjoy it for my own sake. That’s progress! Though with men, I still would rather be a dirty submissive fuck toy.

 

[Deleted member 6666935]

Since my initial response to this I’ve discovered that I’m attracted to trans women, and that I’m at least bi curious. I’m surprising myself, and I have this site to “blame.”

 

[j769]

Like in most cultures, sex has always been looked upon as the forbidden fruit. And growing up in a very religious home, those thoughts should never have been allowed and/or even expressed. Well except when it is about procreation.

I hated that and I thought sex should be celebrated. But growing up, I was repressed.

So when I finally was on my own, i.e college, I explored and experienced sex. It was when the realization that I understood the art behind it all. Even the creativity. It shouldn’t be just a wham-bam-thank-you-maam, but how two people (or more) create a sexual synergy that bonds them together. It becomes beautiful and even harmonious as movements of raw passion creates a world of their own song.

 

[hardcorefool]

That I like to suck cock and have them cum in my mouth, and that I like to have my cock and ball abused by my wife.

 

[TravisAW]

That the longer I've been with Mrs AW, the less possessive I've got. It's odd that love has grown but that I'd not be devastated any more if she turned round and said she was fantasising about fucking other men (and/or women).