What’s the most interesting thing you learned about your sexuality?

Enjoying to encourage guys to jack-off. Open to jacking (no contact) with a trusted friend. Appreciating well trusted lady friends to jack and jill together online (a dozen or so).
 
I never thought I would be into posting nudes online. I only started in December '23 when I got my first ever smartphone and could take pics, it's only just been over a year now.
 
Relearning my body in relation to orgasm and masturbation. Realizing old tricks didnt work anymore, or not as good and sorta having to start from scratch. Learning very slowly that for me now, it *is* more the journey than the destination.
Realizing how different womens bodys experience and process pleasure. Relearning everything again.
 
Relearning my body in relation to orgasm and masturbation. Realizing old tricks didnt work anymore, or not as good and sorta having to start from scratch. Learning very slowly that for me now, it *is* more the journey than the destination.
Realizing how different womens bodys experience and process pleasure. Relearning everything again.
There’s truth in re-learning as well for this older, trim and fit guy. My orgasms aren't as strong, my cock not as hard, and being horny is more intermittent. Nonetheless, I so enjoy the exquisite delight of self-stimulating, fucking, and cumming!
 
For me - that I'm normal and not over sexed for thinking about boobs, getting off, legs, facials, nice feet, MILFs, jacking off, waists, hips, curves, painted toe nails, smiles, seductive eyes, nice curvy asses, blow jobs, spooning, 69s, pearl necklaces, my 20YO niece, nude photography, soccer moms, watching, g spots, ALL THE TIME!
 
Relearning my body in relation to orgasm and masturbation. Realizing old tricks didnt work anymore, or not as good and sorta having to start from scratch. Learning very slowly that for me now, it *is* more the journey than the destination.
Realizing how different womens bodys experience and process pleasure. Relearning everything again.
How long have you been on HRT?
 
There’s truth in re-learning as well for this older, trim and fit guy. My orgasms aren't as strong, my cock not as hard, and being horny is more intermittent. Nonetheless, I so enjoy the exquisite delight of self-stimulating, fucking, and cumming!
Honestly being able to adapt to our changing bodies in all kinds of ways is pretty important.
 
Has your experience with it been all positive?
Yeah id say so for the estrogen. The worst bit is the blockers which I've been on for much too long but trying to secure an orchiectomy here is....less than easy.

If you have more questions feel free to dm me. I live to educate.
 
Yeah id say so for the estrogen. The worst bit is the blockers which I've been on for much too long but trying to secure an orchiectomy here is....less than easy.

If you have more questions feel free to dm me. I live to educate.
My girlfriend is not on HRT but her only real complaint about being natural is facial hair. I don't mind her little facial hair. It kind of turns me on for some reason like it's a shared secret lol

She just can't manage to stay on any kind of regimen. She was putting on Minoxidil for her receding hairline and it actually worked but then she said to hell with it and stopped.
 
I learned I need both straight and gay sex They satisfy different needs. Fortunately my wife understood my situation and not only allowed me to have gay sex, she sometimes encouraged it.

I also learned I tended to be submissive. The surprising thing is I was probably more submissive to my wife than I was to my gay sex partners.
 
The more my mrs ignores any physical affection attempts, the more I desire same sex sexual contact. The more I desire it, the less guilty I feel about it.
Absolutely !! Oh, I still want female sexual contact, but unlike women, who in my opinion, most always have "strings attached", guys are so easy.
 
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That my libido has not dropped one iota as I have aged. When I was 25 I thought I'd be done with sex lonnnnggg before I reached 60. ..Nope. I'm as horny as I've ever been. Mostly, it's a good thing. ..Because the fire that drives my desire for sex also drives my interest in participating in sports, exercising regularly, DIY stuff around the home, partying with friends, etc.. And while my wife and I experienced a road bump when she hit menopause, we got through it and though we have sex less often, it's the best sex we've ever had.

Oh... and that I love being pegged. Who da' thought? 20 years ago the idea would have made me wince. Not anymore. I love it! And that my wife enjoys doing it to me. That surprised me too. :devilish::heart:
 
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I used to think I was a top with women and a bottom with men.

I realized a while back that I liked switching with women and appreciated a topping one. With or without a peg.

Much more recently, I’ve started having sex with men again after decades without. Turns out, when I was young I bottomed because I was curious about it, and, because my one LTR boyfriend wouldn’t bottom. Well, now that I’m not constrained by naïveté around anal sex nor constrained by a LTR partner’s orientation, I got very curious about topping and am convinced I’m 50/50 vers with men too.

That’s pretty convenient, since there are so many more bottoms than tops around.
 
Not the most but I found it interesting and a little funny. It turns out I got my affinity for being spanked from my mom although she's a lot more vocal during the act.
My 3rd ex is a moaner become screamer the longer fucking her goes. She loves anal so coupled that with medium to sharp ass slaps and she has been known to stop "Purto Rican" house parties....(loud music).
 
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