What’s the most interesting thing you learned about your sexuality?

[Ian3700]

I have honestly learned that it all for me starts with the person on that other end and a possible initial spark which then maybe turns into something more.

This being above all else in relation to specifics of what might actually want to be explored.

 

[SmokingFap]

That I'd do things I'd never thought I'd do to please a man. Up to a certain point.

But isn't that what you said before? Then you reached the "certain point" where you thought you could never do something in particular for a man, and then you did it. So aren't you just basically... looking for that next certain point to cross?

 

[travelenman]

I learned very early I like women who are easy (slutty). I don't mind if they fuck other guys as long as they enjoy it. I am still learning, but I am not interested in anyone under 20, guys, serious pain, and bodily fluids other than pee.

 

[Tir_an_Beithioch]

I learned it wasn't a coincidence I kept ending up with brick-dumb, histrionic, trashy women -- I may have a brick-dumb, histrionic, trashy woman fetish.

I also learned it wasn't just an experimental phase in college. Thanks Cade, wherever you are.

 

[kathyisgr65]

That I have an open mind naturally and I'm so grateful for it

 

[PMarky2]

The two things I have noticed. The first is that my fantasies are often related to specific people, and the second is that I am as horny at 54 as I was at 24.

 

[Twistedkink]

That once I got rid of labels and embraced my deepest darkest desires/kinks that I was much happier. My limits are now few and that being a switch has helped me be a better lover and partner.

 

[hulmule]

Sometimes i feel im so sexual about things, on my mind , cant focus cause of sexual thoughts. I feel its a curse sometimes.

 

[JCSTREET]

I learned that I get off the most on feeling cheap and dirty. My own physical orgasm isn't the main draw for me it's feeling like I am being totally depraved and slutty.

Repression in youth. Being forced to deny your emerging feelings of attractions, whether to men or women or whatever, by parents or religious guardians or other not-quite-put-together people or institutions. Men can feel that way too. Whether corporate executives, admirals, judges or whatever, men can want to be feminized or peed on or paddled or goodness knows whatnot I hope you find contentment in pursuing the satisfaction of your arousal, Ms Charlote.

 

[nostuff]

I love cock.

That's not to say I've lost interest in women. Quite the contrary, there's nothing more beautiful than the female form. But I also find cock extremely powerful.

 

[Paperslut]

While I’ve always been attracted to women sexually it was only in recent years that I realized I could actually fall in love with a woman as well. It’s been a huge relief to just accept it and embrace it.

 

[crow169]

I really, really like other races

 

[Crownvic]

I really, really like other races

I would race to you..

 

[MindYaBitness]

That I'm both much more visual & submissive than I ever would have thought

 

[KaitlynW1993]

For me, it was life altering. The stuff i would slut shame others for or look down at, I become that very thing.
Stuff I thought was disgusting I love or enjoy. I never realised how uneducated I was. How ignorant I was before finding myself.

 

[BlueEyes1969]

That sexual preferences and desires evolve as we grow! All good!

 

[YourSecretDesires]

That although I'm in and have previously been in relationships, I will always want variety.

 

[Rey120]

1. That my incestuous love for my little sister (we're both adults with families now) informs essentially every one of my fantasies.

2. That I'm obsessed with incest (see #1)

3. My first time cumming was fantasizing about her. Now I can't really cum unless there's some incestuous thought in my mind.

4. I'm 100% heterosexual UNLESS you bring incest into the mix and the right incestuous scenario would make me comfortable with even sucking a cock (fantasizing about my wife's brother all the time and having a threesome with him and her)

I fantazise about my stepdaughter most of the time ... but incest fantasies started when my sister and female cousin introduced me to "playing doctor" ... I would like to share if you're interested ... DM me

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I only learned 3+ years ago that I'm a true submissive in my core.
I knew years ago that I craved a dominant male for sexual interaction.. But never took it to heart.

 

[PersonalFavors]

I fantazise about my stepdaughter most of the time ... but incest fantasies started when my sister and female cousin introduced me to "playing doctor" ... I would like to share if you're interested ... DM me

I had a girlfriend that “leaned” with her cousins and sister. Her sister band I enjoyed foreplay a few times and she allowed me and the favorite cousin sex. I loved the weekends they would visit. We took a few trips as a group. I thought of it as a pile when all of us ended up on a couch or in bed. Good memories but I don’t think I will ever be in a pile again.

 

[Rey120]

I had a girlfriend that “leaned” with her cousins and sister. Her sister band I enjoyed foreplay a few times and she allowed me and the favorite cousin sex. I loved the weekends they would visit. We took a few trips as a group. I thought of it as a pile when all of us ended up on a couch or in bed. Good memories but I don’t think I will ever be in a pile again.

nice experience ... were you allowed to watch your girlfriend with sister and cousins ... my "playing doctor" experience happened twice

 

[34DDLatina]

Not the most but I found it interesting and a little funny. It turns out I got my affinity for being spanked from my mom although she's a lot more vocal during the act.

 

[PMarky2]

The third thing I have noticed is that the less sex I get, the kinkier my fantasies get. 99% of the time I am the dominant one in my fantasies. IRL, I like playfully tying-up my partners, lightly spanking them, etc., but in my hornier fantasies it gets a bit more hardcore. Ordinarily, I am all about oral pleasure. I love going down on a woman, and even I wee bit of asshole licking when I get the chance.

 

[peruchica]

I used to chalk up all of my experiences with family to sheer luck, but it turns out I really do have an affinity for the taboo and even though I would always think of it as just being luck (which there was some of that) and happenstance, I really was the one who would lead the relationship in that direction and ultimately make things happen.

 

[aliencardigan]

The more my mrs ignores any physical affection attempts, the more I desire same sex sexual contact. The more I desire it, the less guilty I feel about it.