softcaress69
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- Jul 17, 2001
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Interesting discussion
This is an interesting discussion. I am very new to this board and I was hoping to find perhaps similar interests, companionship, friendships and if things went well long lasting relationships. I am the “nerd” and I am blind and not able to get out to meet people. I am also not bad looking, so I have been told. I am also well educated. However, because of societal’s beliefs that people with disabilities are stupid discrimination is alive, well, and living in this country. These beliefs also cross over to women. It would seem that women do not want to go out with someone who is kind and considerate of his or her feelings and has a disability. I have been married and my wife left me for another woman. I again was dumped after six years with a GF; she said she did not understand why I was so understanding and caring. She said she wanted to be a truck driver because she understands that type of abusive mentality. She was married to a very abusive person and it seems that she wanted that type of person rather than someone considerate of her feelings. Therefore, do I understand why people do what they do! Not at all.
Yes, we understand that men do stupid things because we are driven by testosterone. We hope we can find women who enjoy, not only and is not limited to sex as we are. But that seems to be diffacult to find.
When I first came on this board, I posted a sincere post but I for the most part did not receive any reply. I did receive one but to ask me how I can read what others have written and how I can even get to this sight if I am blind. A good question but not responding to my post. As for the other posts that I placed, I did not receive one response. But it would seem that the cruder the men are the more women respond to them. But the more sincere men are the less responses men get.
So, what do women really want in a man? If they were more responsive sexually, men would not need to go outside the marriage to satisfy themselves sexually.
This is an interesting discussion. I am very new to this board and I was hoping to find perhaps similar interests, companionship, friendships and if things went well long lasting relationships. I am the “nerd” and I am blind and not able to get out to meet people. I am also not bad looking, so I have been told. I am also well educated. However, because of societal’s beliefs that people with disabilities are stupid discrimination is alive, well, and living in this country. These beliefs also cross over to women. It would seem that women do not want to go out with someone who is kind and considerate of his or her feelings and has a disability. I have been married and my wife left me for another woman. I again was dumped after six years with a GF; she said she did not understand why I was so understanding and caring. She said she wanted to be a truck driver because she understands that type of abusive mentality. She was married to a very abusive person and it seems that she wanted that type of person rather than someone considerate of her feelings. Therefore, do I understand why people do what they do! Not at all.
Yes, we understand that men do stupid things because we are driven by testosterone. We hope we can find women who enjoy, not only and is not limited to sex as we are. But that seems to be diffacult to find.
When I first came on this board, I posted a sincere post but I for the most part did not receive any reply. I did receive one but to ask me how I can read what others have written and how I can even get to this sight if I am blind. A good question but not responding to my post. As for the other posts that I placed, I did not receive one response. But it would seem that the cruder the men are the more women respond to them. But the more sincere men are the less responses men get.
So, what do women really want in a man? If they were more responsive sexually, men would not need to go outside the marriage to satisfy themselves sexually.