What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

[LostHorizon]

God I am happy to be getting this over with. I just hope everything goes well.

 

[awired50]

It's gonna be a great day!

 

[Poeticwolf]

I don't know how to fix me. I feel like I try my best but somehow it isn't enough.

What is the fucking point?

Sometimes the problem is that you don't need to fix yourself, you just need to change the people around you and let in someone new to help you change your perspective, to help you feel as special as you truly are.

 

[lacandy]

I hope I can at least get an interview or some resolution from work this week…I hate being left not knowing

 

[Hungnasty1]

I wish you could at least say good night, but I know you probably passed out cold.

I did

 

[~Elizabeth~]

I did

After a 4 hour drive, I don't blame you.

 

[CincyGurl66]

I’m thinking I’m not connecting with enough quality communicators. LOL. I know it’s the wild west here and we all have to kind of weed through messages and just hope you click with someone. But I get discouraged easily. Not trying to be thirsty for messages, this is not that. Just a little frustrated. I try to be clear in my first reply what I am looking for, my boundaries, and what I am willing to do within a role play scenario. I would say 90% of the people I get a positive response to that end up crossing lines (nothing egregious) within the first 20 minutes of horny chatting. And I get it, I know it’s a numbers game. I am just wondering if there’s anything more I can do in order to get that 90% to just like 70% lol. Thanks for reading. I just needed to vent a little.

 

[Qky75]

I’m old. That is all.

Lies

 

[Chloe_Harper]

You know when you don't know what you need, but you know you need something? Or like, you know you are feeling things strongly, but you don't know what triggered it nor can you put into words what those feelings are exactly? Or like, you want to be doing something productive because you know you will feel that much better by getting something done, but you freeze up at deciding what to do and nothing gets done?

That's all. Not important. Just rambling.

 

[OnaTangent]

Sometimes you just wanna make out with someone!

 

[Qky75]

You know when you don't know what you need, but you know you need something? Or like, you know you are feeling things strongly, but you don't know what triggered it nor can you put into words what those feelings are exactly? Or like, you want to be doing something productive because you know you will feel that much better by getting something done, but you freeze up at deciding what to do and nothing gets done?

That's all. Not important. Just rambling.

Ya know how pulling the trigger decides the argument about what to aim at? The decision to sink or swim is more clear after jumping into the water?

 

[Chloe_Harper]

Ya know how pulling the trigger decides the argument about what to aim at? The decision to sink or swim is more clear after jumping into the water?

Bringing logic to my ramble *grumbles* yes, those are very good points... just jump in and start swimming...

 

[MidwestPrincess23]

New sweatpants kind of suck.
They just aren’t the same as old worn ones. Maybe it’s just that I feel like shit, but it’s really annoying me

 

[SmokingFap]

I'm just getting some coffee in someone else's living room. Oh, wait, I mean a coffee shop. Jesus, people. Do you really need to sprawl out THAT much?

 

[Shymidwestgirl]

Is being told you’re book pretty (pretty in a bookish way) a compliment or a back handed compliment? (No one said this to me it’s a description of a girl in a book).

 

[Qky75]

Is being told you’re pretty a compliment or a back handed compliment? (No one said this to me it’s a description of a girl in a book).

Only backhanded if qualified by something else like....
Ex
Pretty for her age
She may be fat/skinny/tall/short but she's pretty
Or she's pretty but _____

 

[MrMakersMark]

Is being told you’re pretty a compliment or a back handed compliment? (No one said this to me it’s a description of a girl in a book).

I can only speak for myself and the times when I have offered it.

From me, it's always been meant as a compliment.

If I've said it, I meant it ...just as I said it.

With no ulterior motive, other than to try to show some appreciation of perceived beauty in face or person.

Can't speak for what you are reading though.

 

[Shymidwestgirl]

Only backhanded if qualified by something else like....
Ex
Pretty for her age
She may be fat/skinny/tall/short but she's pretty
Or she's pretty but _____

I can only speak for myself and the times when I have offered it.

From me, it's always been meant as a compliment.

If I've said it, I meant it ...just as I said it.

With no ulterior motive, other than to try to show some appreciation of perceived beauty in face or person.

Can't speak for what you are reading though.

Apologies guys I was in a hurry and in my rush I left out some important words. I have edited my post to correct it.

 

[Qky75]

Apologies guys I was in a hurry and in my rush I left out some important words. I have edited my post to correct it.

Id say that's pretty backhanded imho

A person is either pretty or not.

 

[Deleted member 5428187]

Looking forward to Saturday night. (I have some fun stuff between now and then but Saturday night will be special.)

 

[SimplyMsT]

I'm thinking what a nasty day it is!!

 

[Neanderthal247]

I don't know how to fix me. I feel like I try my best but somehow it isn't enough.

What is the fucking point?

We all are a little broken from past trauma and life. You don't need to be fixed, you need to heal. The point is healing and being just a little better than yesterday.


I know we aren't friends or anything, just a guy giving advice.

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Is being told you’re book pretty (pretty in a bookish way) a compliment or a back handed compliment? (No one said this to me it’s a description of a girl in a book).

Pretty in a bookish way?

I love glasses on a nerdy looking girl.

 

[Hornymwtxn]

I am thinking the political board threads are good hunting grounds for using the ignore button

 

[MrMakersMark]

Apologies guys I was in a hurry and in my rush I left out some important words. I have edited my post to correct it.

In a "bookish way".

Given its from a story, or a book I haven't read I'd have to assume the motive of the complimenter. My guess is, the compliment had that sort of qualifier to build something later in the story.
I could elaborate, but that'd be awfully wordy. Lol. So I won't.

I don't know, is the best I have