What do we do unconciously that turns people on?

[Guest]

male oppression

Last time I tried that, I got a three minute diatribe against symbols of male oppression!

Have decided that having guys open doors, pull out chairs and carry heavy objects is delightful... Male oppression? Seems more like male servitude.

Now, if you reached ahead of me, opened the door and then walked through it first... then I would have given you what for.

 

[DVS]

Re: gestures

okay... I know that I must seem like a walking hormone, but I have just been paying more attention lately...

walking out of a restaurant and coming to the door at the same time as a guy. he makes eye contact, smiles and says "allow me"... opens the door.

major bonus points... made me feel like a million bucks

Shit, I do this all the time. I didn't know it was a sexual thing! I was just trying to be nice.
You make it seem like I might do something and cause some woman on the street to have an orgasm on the spot! Not that I wouldn't enjoy that...I just wonder if she would recover sufficiently to be able to legibly write her phone number.

 

[wildsweetone]

walking out of a restaurant and coming to the door at the same time as a guy. he makes eye contact, smiles and says "allow me"... opens the door.

A few months ago, I went into a local bank. did my stuff, went to leave, reached for the huge heavy door when my arm was held and a voice said, "That's my pleasure dear."

I jumped in fright as I hadn't heard anyone come behind me. I thanked him and it wasn't until I walked away from the bank that I saw he was blind and using a stick.

That minute incident gave me a 300 or 500 word story a while back. Doors being held open in this neck of the woods is a rareity.