What do women really look for in men?
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eudaemonia
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What do I really look for? I gotta say, first and foremost, a guy has to be excruciatingly intelligent and not too terribly shy. Confidence in his mental abilities will keep my attention, too. After that, I start looking for strong personal ethics, and that's where the deal gets made or broken for me. If the guy has a shifty sense of right and wrong, I don't care how good-looking he might appear to be: I'm already turned off.
The man I'm lusting over right now would never make the cover of a magazine, but I think he's sooooo handsome. It's mostly his attitude, his smile, his sharpe mind and eyes that suck me in. *drool*
That all said, I do have some preferences. I do like men who are about my height and have some shape to their butt (flat butts are kind of a turn-off). Eyes that dance and sparkle and hold my gaze are a must, whatever the color.
I also have a thing for strong, large hands. They can have thick or thin fingers, but I like 'em largish. Jet black hair kinda does it for me. And he must stand up straight, no hunching or droopy posture. No combovers! Honestly, I couldn't care less about hair but I know many guys do. If he's thinning just keep it neat and trim. In fact, even if he's got copious amounts of hair, keep it neat and trim. I don't like long hair on men at all.
And for godsakes, no tattoos or piercings. Yuck!!!
The man I'm lusting over right now would never make the cover of a magazine, but I think he's sooooo handsome. It's mostly his attitude, his smile, his sharpe mind and eyes that suck me in. *drool*
That all said, I do have some preferences. I do like men who are about my height and have some shape to their butt (flat butts are kind of a turn-off). Eyes that dance and sparkle and hold my gaze are a must, whatever the color.
I also have a thing for strong, large hands. They can have thick or thin fingers, but I like 'em largish. Jet black hair kinda does it for me. And he must stand up straight, no hunching or droopy posture. No combovers! Honestly, I couldn't care less about hair but I know many guys do. If he's thinning just keep it neat and trim. In fact, even if he's got copious amounts of hair, keep it neat and trim. I don't like long hair on men at all.
And for godsakes, no tattoos or piercings. Yuck!!!
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A man dressed in a dark suit with a nice ass mmmmmmmmmmmmmphoenix6666 said:
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i've always been with smaller guys, but now my guy is like 6'2", and i'm only 5'2''... i love being with a tall guy with a nice build, it makes me feel safe and comforts me, and really turns me on. i've always gone for dark hair, and i used to like light eyes, but more ane more, i'm loving brown eyes, they just seem so... i don't know... like i feel more relaxed when i look at them, and they look so kind... ::sigh::
I was at the gym last week and there was a guy there that I'd chatted with several times over the past 3 months. But he never seemed to want more than just saying hello, so I thought well, he's married or has a relationship with someone. Last week a woman came in with her 3 year old daughter and while she was busy for a moment the man sat down with the little girl on the floor and spent 10 minutes helping her play with her doll. It was obvious they knew each other, so he wasn't doing anything that was threatening to her or to the Mom. It was the cutest thing and such a demonstration of his willingness to approach little kids on their own level. I nearly went to pieces at his kindness and his ability to communicate with the little girl who was obviously delighted to have a friend to play with.
Two days later, the man happened to speak to me again and I mentioned the incident and told him how much I enjoyed watching him interact with the little girl. Suddenly he opened up to me a bit more and the conversation went past the usual "Hi, how are you" stage. To make a long story short, he ended up asking me out and I got a chance to see a little deeper into a wonderful individual.
There is more to a man than cock size.
Two days later, the man happened to speak to me again and I mentioned the incident and told him how much I enjoyed watching him interact with the little girl. Suddenly he opened up to me a bit more and the conversation went past the usual "Hi, how are you" stage. To make a long story short, he ended up asking me out and I got a chance to see a little deeper into a wonderful individual.
There is more to a man than cock size.
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:thumbs up: KarenDee. Whenever I see a man's softer side, I go to pieces inside. It's usually a good sign when a man isn't afraid to show it.
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That's kinda sweet!KarenDee said:
When my husband and I met, I didn't introduce him to my daughters (who were 3 and 1 at the time) right away because I wanted to make sure that there was relationship potential before I allowed the kids to get attached to anyone. I couldn't believe how quickly he and the kids "clicked" with each other. If he would have ignored my girls or treated them badly, he'd have been out the door in a flash.
