What exactly turns you on about your wife or girlfriend being with another man? Past or Present?

I've had cuckold fantasies for years and it finally became reality 3 1/2 months ago. I haven't yet watched but soon that'll happen.
Now that it's real several aspects turn me on.
Knowing she is having the best sex of her life and seems like both her and her new man can't get enough of each other is a turn on. Other things like him being significant larger than me, his stamina, recovery time, him being an dominant alpha male, exploring different positions that I can't do because of my lack of size, wearing a tiny dome cage.

I know it's strange but I get aroused knowing I can't and never have satisfied her with intercourse. Not being able to have intercourse or receiving bj's from her now with our sex life consisting of handjobs with hot talking and me going down on her.
Knowing that they're much more than fuck buddies and do a lot together outside the bedroom.

Her doing things with him she doesn't do with me. She loves sucking his cock for long sessions with him regularly cumming in her mouth and her swallowing. Her learning to deep throat, Him playing with her ass with a glass dildo and soon he'll be taking her anal virginity after never allowing me even though I have a small thin penis compared to his longer thicker cock.
Now that it's all happening I now know I was made to be a cuckold.
Do you lick up his cum?
 
How she touches another man's cock the way she touches you is a turn on plus the differences.
I saw that in my ex after we arranged to meet some guy. All happened in my car as I watched.

Just how she played and teased him during the make out before she exposed his cock. And then her excitement upon touching another man's cock the first time in 2 years. The sounds of her and the things she said just so hot!
 
For me the idea of her being with someone else in an intimate way is a big turn on. We have been talking about it for a long time and she has now agreed to meet people. My fantasy is more on what if she gets involved emotionally with him, how would she react? Would love to see her in such a situation..
 
I've always been fascinated with big Dick porn.
When my wife admitted she had a friend with benefits for years up until we started dating with an absolutely monster Dick, It was a blow to my sexual ego but I was also unbelievably aroused.

Whenever I see a woman taking a huge black Dick I think of my wife in that position and have encouraged her to revisit him if she wanted to.
Its become the most intense fantasy I have. Would have never ever thought I would have a fantasy like that.
The knowledge that my wife had a black ex with a huge cock is a real turn-on for me. I often fantasies about him fucking her right in front of me.
 
I would love to see her head over heels for a much younger man with a big dick. I’d love to see her sex starved for days, horny, wet, cock hungry for him and saving herself for him. Watch her go out of way seduce him with such determination.

I’d love for her to call him one day just strictly sex. She invites him over to our home and she answers the door in a robe. As soon the door shuts the robe comes off and she’s in lingerie for him. She walks him to the bedroom and from there my imagination takes off.

Knowing my wife makes it even better. Knowing how driven she can be to get something she wants. Being pretty and using her looks, physique and attire. I know she would get a thrill for teaching a young boy toy with a big dick how to fuck properly.
 
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I would love to see her head over heels for a much younger man with a big dick. I’d love to see her sex starved for days, horny, wet, cock hungry for him and saving herself for him. Watch her go out of way seduce him with such determination.

I’d love for her to call him one day just strictly sex. She invites him over to our home and she answers the door in a robe. As soon the door shuts the robe comes off and she’s in lingerie for him. She walks him to the bedroom and from there my imagination takes off.

Knowing my wife makes it even better. Knowing how driven she can be to get something she wants. Being pretty and using her looks, physique and attire. I know she would get a thrill for teaching a young boy toy with a big dick how to fuck properly.
Does that mean you like to watch her with him or be involved somewhere?
 
Does that mean you like to watch her with him or be involved somewhere?
Involved no. I’d want them to enjoy each other fully. I’d like to watch or would be content watching through blink or having him send videos to me.

For example I’d love to watch a video taken from his pov of him sitting on my couch with her in lingerie eating his dick completely. My large mirror behind her so he can see her whole ass .

Another one having the camera placed under them while he has her on all four. I want to see his dick get buried down to his balls inside of her and hear her moan each time. I want to hear the sound of her wet pussy and her fat ass getting clapped.
 
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Involved no. I’d want them to enjoy each other fully. I’d like to watch or would be content watching through blink or having him send videos to me.

For example I’d love to watch a video taken from his pov of him sitting on my couch with her in lingerie eating his dick completely. My large mirror behind her so he can see her whole ass .

Another one having the camera placed under them while he has her on all four. I want to see his dick get buried down to his balls inside of her and hear her moan each time. I want to hear the sound of her wet pussy and her fat ass getting clapped.

Very hot. I wonder why?

There are a couple things I think of. One is sharing her. "You should see how incredible her pussy tastes. Doesn't it feel good on your cock?" The other thing is watching her, knowing her pussy is getting wet while she's sucking his cock. Seeing her gasp when he enters her. Holding her hands while he pounds her from behind until she has a loud orgasm. I think a part of it is being able to enjoy the whole process without the distraction of my own physical involvement. I always enjoy making her come first so I can enjoy it while I'm still fully aroused. I also love how sensitive she is after she comes and I love kissing her when she has the taste of cock in her mouth. I would also love to make her come again after she just has with another man, knowing that it has probably just made her hornier.
 
Very hot. I wonder why?

There are a couple things I think of. One is sharing her. "You should see how incredible her pussy tastes. Doesn't it feel good on your cock?" The other thing is watching her, knowing her pussy is getting wet while she's sucking his cock. Seeing her gasp when he enters her. Holding her hands while he pounds her from behind until she has a loud orgasm. I think a part of it is being able to enjoy the whole process without the distraction of my own physical involvement. I always enjoy making her come first so I can enjoy it while I'm still fully aroused. I also love how sensitive she is after she comes and I love kissing her when she has the taste of cock in her mouth. I would also love to make her come again after she just has with another man, knowing that it has probably just made her hornier.
Well said .
 
Having her for yourself is ideal. You can enjoy joy the "sexuality in motion" and eroticism for yourself. So is it a different form of the same desire?
I like to fly airplanes, but it's still fun to watch an airshow!

I think it would be incredibly erotic to watch my wife engaging in a mutually pleasurable activity with someone else. It would heighten the anticipation of the subsequent 'reclaim' sex and provide validation both that she is sexually desirable and has a sex drive independent of my own. But that's just me.
 
This is just me as well. Given I love to eat pussy and enjoy mutual masturbation, I would love to watch another man go down on her and make her cum again and again.

Then watch her handjob him excitedly just like she is with me while I am present.

Then I will do same and she will do the same immediately afterwards to me. There something really hot experiencing the intimacy straight after her touching another cock.
 
I’ve taken my wife to gloryholes, watched her get fucked in an adult bookstore, and just had a threesome with a stranger at a hotel (pre arranged) which was mostly me watching. The oddest thing is how natural and NOT weird it has been - probably because we’ve been together for 25 years and there is no emotional connection with these play partners, so it has just been fun and exciting. Seeing her embrace her sexuality and be free is the turn on.
 
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