What exactly turns you on about your wife or girlfriend being with another man? Past or Present?

[Scotchlander]

Hubby is straight but he's also tolerant and understanding that our third is bi and sometimes gets a little carried away. Hubby doesn't freak out if he gets a little touchy.

Yes so am I and don’t freak out. But when they say they are straight and later kinda make it obvious they are not, it puts the dampers on proceedings

 

[JR284]

For me it's a combination of things. To steal from haventdonethat a bit, there's definitely a sense of pride. Not only am I proud to show off how hot my wife is, but also a sense of pride in terms of how open these sexual she is and how willing she is to do pretty much anything.

There's certainly a voyeuristic angle to it for me as well. Even though I don't often get to watch in person, getting pictures or videos from her, or even just getting to hear the details afterwards is exhilarating. It just feels like something that I shouldn't know about.

I've also just always been into very promiscuous women. It's a huge turn-on for me anytime I'm with my wife, whether I'm going down on her or fucking her, just knowing how many different men have been inside of her. And ultimately, I just love knowing that she's having all the fun that she wants. She's a size queen and knowing that she's out there getting exactly what she wants is extremely fulfilling.

 

[One_ping_only]

There's lot of guys out there who write about their wives etc with other men. What exactly turns you on about it?

A fetish being realised? Actually watching her?
Knowing what she's really like and imagining her giving and receiving the same with someone else? Feeling submissive about it?

For me its sort of erotic knowing what she like and watching her let go the same way with another man. ie seeing her display what turns her on. And knowing that she very desirable to other men who now have the pleasure that I have experienced.

Cum on let me know!

Knowing how sexy my wife looks when we're both sucking and fucking ....... I often imagine how it'd be on the sideline to simply watch her pretty face moaning, groaning and grimacing as she has her long legs spread wide as she's being fucked good and hard.

She knows she's my favorite " porn star " and to watch her with a guy or guys I'm sure she'd become more and more insatiable and just look incredibly sexy.

As someone said earlier ..... it's also a pride thing. To know that practically all of my buddies would give a left arm for a chance to fuck her and seeing other men do double takes when we're out in a date night does make me very, very proud. She's also Asian and it seems like an extra allure that she is with my buddies. Most of them having never experienced an " Asian pussy " I get why they think the way they do hmmmmm!!??

 

[Nellie60]

Knowing how sexy my wife looks when we're both sucking and fucking ....... I often imagine how it'd be on the sideline to simply watch her pretty face moaning, groaning and grimacing as she has her long legs spread wide as she's being fucked good and hard.

She knows she's my favorite " porn star " and to watch her with a guy or guys I'm sure she'd become more and more insatiable and just look incredibly sexy.

As someone said earlier ..... it's also a pride thing. To know that practically all of my buddies would give a left arm for a chance to fuck her and seeing other men do double takes when we're out in a date night does make me very, very proud. She's also Asian and it seems like an extra allure that she is with my buddies. Most of them having never experienced an " Asian pussy " I get why they think the way they do hmmmmm!!??

I was the same for about 3 years with an Asian lady. So many stares and looks of envy fron colleagues and mates. I knew they wanted to know what she was like..wanted taste Asian pussy and to fuck her. I say so from the odd comments and gestures from them. To be frank I often thiught about her pleasing some of them more so than the other away around

 

[Escierto]

Over time I have posted many pics of my girlfriend on Lit. I have always gotten a lot of compliments about her from guys because she is a very desirable woman. I love seeing these compliments because I think she is an absolute doll. I don't ever want to share her in real life nor does she want to be shared but it's nice to know what a catch she is. I am a lucky guy and I take very good care of her.

 

[cypressknee]

It turns me on when others are turned on by my wife..huge ego boost

 

[easyoff]

Yes so am I and don’t freak out. But when they say they are straight and later kinda make it obvious they are not, it puts the dampers on proceedings

I'm the opposite, I find that to be a pleasent surprise.

 

[Nellie60]

Over time I have posted many pics of my girlfriend on Lit. I have always gotten a lot of compliments about her from guys because she is a very desirable woman. I love seeing these compliments because I think she is an absolute doll. I don't ever want to share her in real life nor does she want to be shared but it's nice to know what a catch she is. I am a lucky guy and I take very good care of her.
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Yes you are a very lucky. She is a real doll. Is she full Asian?

 

[cypressknee]

Hubby is straight but he's also tolerant and understanding that our third is bi and sometimes gets a little carried away. Hubby doesn't freak out if he gets a little touchy.

Never had a third…but I would imagine I would react the same as your husband

 

[Escierto]

Yes you are a very lucky. She is a real doll. Is she full Asian?

Thank you. Yes, she is 100% Filipina.

 

[Cuckwannabe111]

I have, unfortunately, never shared my wife. It's a fantasy. But, to hear others talk about how sexy she is, how they find her pretty and attractive, it's such a turn on.
I have a former boss who would always talk about how she was too pretty for me. He would call me into his office for some imagined slight on my paperwork. He would have her pic on his computer from her Facebook page. He would talk for 5 or 10 minutes about how pretty she was, and how she was out of my league, before dismissing me from the office. I fully believe he would have tried to fuck her, had he not been recently demoted for fucking a few wives of some pretty powerful men in the organization, and he was too close to retirement to risk it.
I also like to imagine what her sex life was like before me. She was super cute in her legal teen yrs. I didn't live close to her, but I have seen pics. I often wonder what her college time was like before we met, and how many guys were flirting with her, and if she was getting fucked on a regular basis.
I have tried asking about her past sex life before, but she wasn't too excited to share details

 

[blkjames]

Hubby is straight but he's also tolerant and understanding that our third is bi and sometimes gets a little carried away. Hubby doesn't freak out if he gets a little touchy.

Good man you have there

 

[blkjames]

Over time I have posted many pics of my girlfriend on Lit. I have always gotten a lot of compliments about her from guys because she is a very desirable woman. I love seeing these compliments because I think she is an absolute doll. I don't ever want to share her in real life nor does she want to be shared but it's nice to know what a catch she is. I am a lucky guy and I take very good care of her.
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She beautiful

 

[Secrethusband]

The fact I get to sleep around if she cheats

 

[goldytheGoldfish]

Sometimes people can't tell you're watching, which is fine with me. My SO is a very good gift-giver; boxing her into a corner with it isn't my idea of how she can be her best. She can handle herself and I'm not a sadist. Good luck!

 

[markchamberlain]

There's lot of guys out there who write about their wives etc with other men. What exactly turns you on about it?...

For me, it was her inability to control herself. My girlfriend actually wanted to be faithful, but was overwhelmed by sexual chemistry. She told me she was so attracted to the guy that her knees were literally trembling. She said she almost fainted when she realized she wasn't going to stop, it was really going to happen, she was really going to cheat. And when she came, it felt like her whole body was cumming. She said she lost her civilized mind, and could only crave his semen in her womb. And when he ejaculated into her, she felt such complete bliss and satisfaction. She described feeling that the center of her soul had been calmed, soothed, and filled with his cum.

Hearing this and talking about it with her, I could feel her arousal vicariously. I still can, I cum fantasizing about it all the time.

 

[Escierto]

For me, it was her inability to control herself. My girlfriend actually wanted to be faithful, but was overwhelmed by sexual chemistry. She told me she was so attracted to the guy that her knees were literally trembling. She said she almost fainted when she realized she wasn't going to stop, it was really going to happen, she was really going to cheat. And when she came, it felt like her whole body was cumming. She said she lost her civilized mind, and could only crave his semen in her womb. And when he ejaculated into her, she felt such complete bliss and satisfaction. She described feeling that the center of her soul had been calmed, soothed, and filled with his cum.

Hearing this and talking about it with her, I could feel her arousal vicariously. I still can, I cum fantasizing about it all the time.

Why isn't she with him?

 

[Escierto]

She beautiful

Thank you! She is my beautiful little trans girl.

 

[blkjames]

Thank you! She is my beautiful little trans girl.

Yes definitely beautiful

 

[markchamberlain]

Why isn't she with him?

I suppose because long term partnership isn't just about sexual chemistry, it's mostly about a whole list of other things. According to her, neither one of them wanted to focus on this as their primary life relationship, but they both found the sex inexplicably amazing, at a primal level independent of practical life.

I'm not with her anymore either, and it had nothing to do with sex, or her cheating. She was sometimes irresponsible with money, and I didn't want that be the theme of the rest of my life. Well, that and "car ride" test. By that I mean, think of going on an all-day driving trip with just that person. Do you think of it as a task or a treat? With her it was a bit of a task. With my current partner it's a treat. That makes all the difference.

 

[Escierto]

I suppose because long term partnership isn't just about sexual chemistry, it's mostly about a whole list of other things. According to her, neither one of them wanted to focus on this as their primary life relationship, but they both found the sex inexplicably amazing, at a primal level independent of practical life.

I'm not with her anymore either, and it had nothing to do with sex, or her cheating. She was sometimes irresponsible with money, and I didn't want that be the theme of the rest of my life. Well, that and "car ride" test. By that I mean, think of going on an all-day driving trip with just that person. Do you think of it as a task or a treat? With her it was a bit of a task. With my current partner it's a treat. That makes all the difference.

Very well stated. I like the "car ride" test!

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

Knowing she is being fulfilled in the ways a woman deserves and hearing the oh so sweet noise they make together.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

Several things:

To watch her be cum inside at her risky time
To watch her cumming while being screwed (toe curling is her sign shes about to or cumming)
To jack off on her face while the guy screws her
To watch his cock twitch and pulse as it pumps his cum into her
To see her on her back, legs spread wide, tits moving back/fourth with every stroke
To hear her asking him to go easy as she struggles to accommodate his cock

All but Cummings on her face for me. I will add to your list watching her pussy lips follow his cock as he slides in and out, then seeing his cocktail glisten with her cum the his cocktail turns white as his cum coats them both. Love seeing the cum turn frothy as he continues and hear her telling him she loves him and begs him to never stop.

 

[Nellie60]

I have, unfortunately, never shared my wife. It's a fantasy. But, to hear others talk about how sexy she is, how they find her pretty and attractive, it's such a turn on.
I have a former boss who would always talk about how she was too pretty for me. He would call me into his office for some imagined slight on my paperwork. He would have her pic on his computer from her Facebook page. He would talk for 5 or 10 minutes about how pretty she was, and how she was out of my league, before dismissing me from the office. I fully believe he would have tried to fuck her, had he not been recently demoted for fucking a few wives of some pretty powerful men in the organization, and he was too close to retirement to risk it.
I also like to imagine what her sex life was like before me. She was super cute in her legal teen yrs. I didn't live close to her, but I have seen pics. I often wonder what her college time was like before we met, and how many guys were flirting with her, and if she was getting fucked on a regular basis.
I have tried asking about her past sex life before, but she wasn't too excited to share details

If she is how you and others describe her she would have had a good sex life before meeting you. I love hearing about a ex girlfriend's past especially about certain fetishes and once did lived that for real.

 

[BBCfan]

There's lot of guys out there who write about their wives etc with other men. What exactly turns you on about it?

A fetish being realised? Actually watching her?
Knowing what she's really like and imagining her giving and receiving the same with someone else? Feeling submissive about it?

For me its sort of erotic knowing what she like and watching her let go the same way with another man. ie seeing her display what turns her on. And knowing that she very desirable to other men who now have the pleasure that I have experienced.

Cum on let me know!

I've always been fascinated with big Dick porn.
When my wife admitted she had a friend with benefits for years up until we started dating with an absolutely monster Dick, It was a blow to my sexual ego but I was also unbelievably aroused.

Whenever I see a woman taking a huge black Dick I think of my wife in that position and have encouraged her to revisit him if she wanted to.
Its become the most intense fantasy I have. Would have never ever thought I would have a fantasy like that.