What exactly turns you on about your wife or girlfriend being with another man? Past or Present?

[Dreamer110]

It's incredbily erotic for me to think of my wife pleasuring another man. Probably my strongest fantasy. She is so sexy and her personality changes a little during sex. She become a bit naughty. It's a voyerism and exhibition thing for me. I'd be jacking off watching them or joining in. She's done anal a few times with me but every time we're fucking and I tell a story of a stranger sliding into her ass she almost cums immediatly. For me it's all about watching her get off, Hard. As long as it was a stranger, younger, well hung and he/they would leave farily soon after it's over I'm totally down with it. I've actually thought of hiring a male masseuse to come to our house to rub her down and then give her a happy ending. Might be a good way to get it all started.

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Trust me you'll love when she finally does it. So many options.

 

[Escierto]

Wow is right!

Thank you! She always wows me!

 

[Beachsyrf]

For me it’s two fold; the notion of her acting on and satisfying her sexual desires outside the “normal” confines of what society defines as “normal” and the knowledge that she …. WE, can separate the sexual activity from our relationship.

 

[Nellie60]

For me it’s two fold; the notion of her acting on and satisfying her sexual desires outside the “normal” confines of what society defines as “normal” and the knowledge that she …. WE, can separate the sexual activity from our relationship.

I certainly got that with this ex whom I fantasied about a lot now. After given her "permission" to finish this random stranger, it fulfilled a fantasy and allowed her to release her inner desires. Yet it didn't affect our normal relationship at the time. Just sexually enhanced it especially after asking her about every detail from her perspective, while committing the same act on me

 

[Gazman8888]

There's lot of guys out there who write about their wives etc with other men. What exactly turns you on about it?

A fetish being realised? Actually watching her?
Knowing what she's really like and imagining her giving and receiving the same with someone else? Feeling submissive about it?

For me its sort of erotic knowing what she like and watching her let go the same way with another man. ie seeing her display what turns her on. And knowing that she very desirable to other men who now have the pleasure that I have experienced.

Cum on let me know!

There's a few reasons the first one is when I'm making love to her alone I miss a lot of the details of her enjoyment. There's an aspect of selfishness in that a part of me is still concentrating on my enjoyment. Then there's the fact that with the right guy/s she gets so much more pleasure and that makes her so much more eager to please. Another great turn on is when we do bondage at a club and she is tied and helpless, the trust she has in me to decide who gets to fuck her and how is a massive turn on. Lastly it's afterwards when we are alone together and she's so contented and relaxed it's quite beautiful. These pics aren't her but you get the idea.

 

[Islander55]

I am the woman in the relationship but hubby and I have discussed this extensively. He is a voyeur and enjoys watching other have sex. He says it is way better than porn and especially watching me, he knows what the guy is feeling and can really focus on me doing my thing. When we started, I told him that I was not going to hold back if the guy was doing me good so if he had any issues with that we should not proceed. He was fine with that and seems to really enjoy watching me.

 

[Tigertiger55]

Over time I have posted many pics of my girlfriend on Lit. I have always gotten a lot of compliments about her from guys because she is a very desirable woman. I love seeing these compliments because I think she is an absolute doll. I don't ever want to share her in real life nor does she want to be shared but it's nice to know what a catch she is. I am a lucky guy and I take very good care of her.
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Amazing

 

[Escierto]

Amazing

True, she is amazing but she is not perfect.

 

[Tigertiger55]

True, she is amazing but she is not perfect.

Nobody is. She’s beautiful and that smile is charming.

 

[Escierto]

Nobody is. She’s beautiful and that smile is charming.

Yes, indeed. It's been over five years now and I hope we can continue forever.

 

[Fantasywife]

Hey guys - ever think that sharing is your way of bragging?

 

[Artfan2]

Hey guys - ever think that sharing is your way of bragging?

It is exciting to see that other people are sexually attracted to my gf.

 

[Escierto]

It is exciting to see that other people are sexually attracted to my gf.

Yes, I agree. It's nice to know that your wife or girlfriend is a catch. However, even if no other man on earth thought she was a doll, I do and that's all that really matters.

Sometimes she does look terrible with her hair everywhere and I still think she's beautiful.

 

[zoso682001]

Hey guys - ever think that sharing is your way of bragging?

Probably so . We want to share our good fortune .

 

[Escierto]

I have another motive for posting pics of my girlfriend. All anyone ever sees of trans women is porn so when a guy thinks about a trans woman, they are the only images in his mind.

I post pics of my girl so people can see a normal transgender woman in normal settings with her clothes on. So they can look at her and imagine that they too could have a trans girlfriend and do normal things like go out to eat, go to social events, go to the movies. They can see her not as some exotic creature but as a woman like any other who likes to do the same stuff.

 

[Camilla90]

There's lot of guys out there who write about their wives etc with other men. What exactly turns you on about it?

A fetish being realised? Actually watching her?
Knowing what she's really like and imagining her giving and receiving the same with someone else? Feeling submissive about it?

For me its sort of erotic knowing what she like and watching her let go the same way with another man. ie seeing her display what turns her on. And knowing that she very desirable to other men who now have the pleasure that I have experienced.

Cum on let me know!

Maybe in my relationship things are reversed a bit...

My husband actually doesnt entertain fantasies about seeing me with other men. I can admit that I do not relate to this (meaning I would actually secretly enjoy for him to please himself with other women...).

I think that what turns me on about this is the fact that I already catch him, quite regularly, looking at other women in public or semi-public situations. Since we've been married for 8 years now, I guess I have grown accustomed to it in a way. Now, when I have private moments to "enjoy myself", I have surprisingly enjoyed the thought of him being with a younger woman.

Of course, it fits with my "submissive" side..

 

[Scotchlander]

Maybe in my relationship things are reversed a bit...

My husband actually doesnt entertain fantasies about seeing me with other men. I can admit that I do not relate to this (meaning I would actually secretly enjoy for him to please himself with other women...).

I think that what turns me on about this is the fact that I already catch him, quite regularly, looking at other women in public or semi-public situations. Since we've been married for 8 years now, I guess I have grown accustomed to it in a way. Now, when I have private moments to "enjoy myself", I have surprisingly enjoyed the thought of him being with a younger woman.

Of course, it fits with my "submissive" side..

Have you ever thought of asking him?

Many husbands would love that.

 

[Nellie60]

Have you ever thought of asking him?

Many husbands would love that.

I believe most husbands would like that idea.

For some it would be absolutely yes and act on it.
Some will love the idea but will not act upon it for whatever reason such as absolute commitment to a single person.

Some will just entertain it as a fantasy only.
Some will probably find it repulsive.

I am not sure if a woman would truly accept her husband with a younger woman. Any thoughts?

 

[Scotchlander]

I believe most husbands would like that idea.

For some it would be absolutely yes and act on it.
Some will love the idea but will not act upon it for whatever reason such as absolute commitment to a single person.

Some will just entertain it as a fantasy only.
Some will probably find it repulsive.

I am not sure if a woman would truly accept her husband with a younger woman. Any thoughts?

I believe most husbands would like that idea.

For some it would be absolutely yes and act on it.
Some will love the idea but will not act upon it for whatever reason such as absolute commitment to a single person.

Some will just entertain it as a fantasy only.
Some will probably find it repulsive.

I am not sure if a woman would truly accept her husband with a younger woman. Any thoughts?

I reckon ….

90% of husbands would like the idea.

30% act upon it.

10% repulsive / fantasy only.

Yes many women might be jealous. But then it’s not for them.

Us guys can separate love making and sex. Because I got to play with someone younger, would not mean I loved the person I was with any less or wanted a relationship with the younger woman.

 

[Nellie60]

I reckon ….

90% of husbands would like the idea.

30% act upon it.

10% repulsive / fantasy only.

Yes many women might be jealous. But then it’s not for them.

Us guys can separate love making and sex. Because I got to play with someone younger, would not mean I loved the person I was with any less or wanted a relationship with the younger woman.

Is it possible that introducing that possibility could led to that? Despite what you say is actually correct.

 

[Scotchlander]

He would not believe his luck and would probably think it was a trap and say of course he could never do that.

But you will have planted the seed and he will most certainly give it thought and probably ask you again if you were serious.

 

[Justfantasies]

Sitting back and enjoying her abandoning herself to another man -- I always like to hear all this from a wife/girlfriend

 

[Nellie60]

He would not believe his luck and would probably think it was a trap and say of course he could never do that.

But you will have planted the seed and he will most certainly give it thought and probably ask you again if you were serious.

Yep he most certainly will just give it a little attention. No harm done! I still love you LOL.

 

[Dreamer110]

What he leaves behind.

 

[Twincam1550]

I cum so hard when she tells me about other guys fucking her.