What is it that men enjoy so much about anal sex???

When I was younger I thought it was kind of gross but then I had a partner that used to love it and I in turn ended up really liking it. I agree it's the taboo aspect but it's also about trust and power and there really nothing messy or gross about it as long as your partner is clean. I never ever thought I would like it let alone really like it.

She loved when I would tie her hands up get her on all fours with her ass hiked up in the air and slide my hard cock along her crack. I'd slap her ass spread her cheeks and play with her asshole slowly sliding my cock closer to her hole driving us both crazy. Sorry reminiscing :D

Guys if you want to try it with your ladies all I can say is go slow and and listen to her .;)
 
When I was younger I thought it was kind of gross but then I had a partner that used to love it and I in turn ended up really liking it. I agree it's the taboo aspect but it's also about trust and power and there really nothing messy or gross about it as long as your partner is clean. I never ever thought I would like it let alone really like it.

She loved when I would tie her hands up get her on all fours with her ass hiked up in the air and slide my hard cock along her crack. I'd slap her ass spread her cheeks and play with her asshole slowly sliding my cock closer to her hole driving us both crazy. Sorry reminiscing :D

Guys if you want to try it with your ladies all I can say is go slow and and listen to her .;)

You are lucky....but try other positions.....good luck
 
Hey, I just like fucking my woman in the ass. It feels good, she likes it so we do it. What other reason do I need.
 
You might ask why men enjoy oral sex or different positions. It's all about sensation, sensation, sensation. While sucking a cock allows the woman to vary the tightness of grip and the speed of the lovely friction, anal sex is like being squeezed and milked. The muscle contractions are quite different, as the sphincter was not designed to stretch as much as the vagina.

And let's not forget about the visual components of each act either. Gazing over her lovely backside while her sexy, round buttocks frame your cock is a very nice view.

Why do men enjoy anal sex so much? Because it feels good ...
 
I have to admit to falling into the category of "not interested in the slightest".

Aside from the fact that my partner's never been into it at all, I just can't really get over the whole "squick" factor of it. In the end, as far as I'm concerned, it's a hole for shitting out of.

But that's just me and my neuroses. I don't judge anybody who does enjoy it, of course. To each their own. :)
 
dito

For me the biggest turn on about anal with my wife is that she gives herself to me completely. When entering her she trust that I will be careful and that I will fight my natural urges just to take. I really get off on the internal power struggle. My instincts scream at me to push deep and to take her that she is mine but my head and my heart are just as loud reminding me that the trust she is giving me is to be cherished and that I should do NOTHING to jeopardize this trust. Also during orgasm(we generally orgasm together during anal due to if one of us goes off it immediately sends the other off) I have to be very mindful of the communication she is giving me so I don't hurt her. By communication I mean verbal as well as physical. During my orgasm I cant just let go and enjoy the ride I have to control the sensations that are flooding my brain at that moment if I don't control things I will stay in to long and the pleasure she receives quickly turns to pain. In exerting this control I become hyper aware of all the sensations I am receiving from her. I can feel each contraction of her muscles, I can feel her breathing, her pulse. In that moment I feel so connected to her so close.

The fact that anal is taboo is also a nice turn on as well but its the trust she gives me that truly make it an experience to be treasured each and every time.

P.S.- Thank you very much for asking this question it caused me to think about think about things in depth.

That is it exactly, words right out of my mouth... I would like to add though that when she lets me do that, well, its one of the few times that i feel as if i deserve to be with such a wonderful woman. hmmm after saying that i think i need to go watch something blow up. lol ahhah but what i said is tru.
 
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