What is it with younger women liking older men?

I don't know. I've never experienced it. I went to grad school late in life, and had multiple close (women) friends there. *Very* friendly. Affectionate; touchy, even. Unless I tried to cross an invisible line. Then the barriers went up, the <friend zone> lights started flashing — until I backed off a bit, away from that line. Then we were back to good friends again.

So I guess I've never experienced whatever it is the OP is talking about. Or course for all we know his idea of an “older man” is 40... :unsure:
Well, I’m 47 and the girls hitting on me are late 20’s to early 30’s.

And no, I’m not bragging or trying to sound conceited. I’m just shocked younger girls want older men. Hell, I could be their dad
 
Well, I’m 47 and the girls hitting on me are late 20’s to early 30’s.

And no, I’m not bragging or trying to sound conceited. I’m just shocked younger girls want older men. Hell, I could be their dad
I'm in my early 60s and I've noticed some of this, too. Younger women seem more aggressive today than they were decades ago. I do think that attraction between younger and older partners continues -- no matter the years, the decades or the centuries.
 
I'm in my early 60s and I've noticed some of this, too. Younger women seem more aggressive today than they were decades ago. I do think that attraction between younger and older partners continues -- no matter the years, the decades or the centuries.
60!?! You’re just a kid! 😊
 
I'm in my early 60s and I've noticed some of this, too. Younger women seem more aggressive today than they were decades ago. I do think that attraction between younger and older partners continues -- no matter the years, the decades or the centuries.
I'm in my 70s and in rehab recovering from surgery. One particular married nurse is all over me
 
I'm in my early 60s and I've noticed some of this, too. Younger women seem more aggressive today than they were decades ago. I do think that attraction between younger and older partners continues -- no matter the years, the decades or the centuries.
That makes sense I guess. My wife is 45 and she likes older men in their 60’s. She finds them attractive. She has a couple of guys in their 60’s she talks to regularly.
 
Because we are more mature and refined. We know how to treat a lady! And respect them. My last gf was 30 years younger ( I am 66) and loved my maturity and how I treated her like a princess
 
When I was younger (in my late teens and 20s) I simply hated how obnoxious and annoying guys my age were. Even the ones I shared interest with, they were also pervy in a creepy way and not in a they have kinks, but in they thought it was okay to talk or do things to women that weren't okay. Now that I'm in my mid 30s I find men my age have finally grown out of that and I enjoy that the way I find older men attractive. But I could never imagine being interested in a 20 something year old guy.
 
When I was younger (in my late teens and 20s) I simply hated how obnoxious and annoying guys my age were. Even the ones I shared interest with, they were also pervy in a creepy way and not in a they have kinks, but in they thought it was okay to talk or do things to women that weren't okay. Now that I'm in my mid 30s I find men my age have finally grown out of that and I enjoy that the way I find older men attractive. But I could never imagine being interested in a 20 something year old guy.

There is something to be said about that. Men mature slower than women, which is one of the reasons -- although not the only one -- they often perform better in school than men and boys. I have two young adult sons, and I'm sure they're not as mature as women the same age.
 
When I was 29 I got chatting to a friend of a friend in a nightclub. She was 18 and clearly expressed interest in getting to know me better.
That may sound conceited but we dated for 18 months, went on holiday together and she stayed with me most weekends. Her Mum and Dad, who she still lived with clearly despised me at first although her Mum did gradually grow warmer towards me.
She was absolutely addicted to sex and wanted it at every possible opportunity. I drove 100s of miles over the course of those months to get her away from her parents place to where she wanted to be - my house so that we could fuck.
They were probably the happiest 18 months of my life but as her 20s drew closer she could see no future with me and dropped the bombshell a few days after my 31st birthday.
 
Older men are a weakness of mine, i thought it would fall by the wayside when i got married but im in my 30s now and married almost 10 years and it makes me hornier than ever. The guy could look like Wendys Dave Thomas and id still let me mind wander to dirty thoughts of being his whore. 😣😌
 
Older men are a weakness of mine, i thought it would fall by the wayside when i got married but im in my 30s now and married almost 10 years and it makes me hornier than ever. The guy could look like Wendys Dave Thomas and id still let me mind wander to dirty thoughts of being his whore. 😣😌
I'm 54 and it is so flattering when a younger woman takes an interest in me. Not too young as I would feel she is looking for a daddy and I don't do that, but a younger married woman from late 20's up, so you would be ideal hehe
 
Im 54 too and I work in an office with a much younger average age, including several attractive 20 and 30 somethings.

They are all quite nice to me but I dont think it's about hitting on me. To an earlier poster, maybe Im just "safe". Most of them have boyfriends that they introduce at work events. I chuckle because they seem so immature, so maybe that's what they get out of our interactions, maturity. 😉

I do have to say, I had the hottest one night stand of my life with someone 10 years my junior, so maybe there is still something else there for the younger gals. 😃
 
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