What is something you thought you'd hate 'til you tried it?

[catalina_francisco]

Re: peek a boo

I think naked pictures (of myself ) are something that I have always held as something that was beyond me. Mostly because of fear, scandal, etc. I have a job that depends heavily upon my image and my ability to represent a department and in turn an institution...so...any nudie pics pose a great risk. I am now learning how to gently move beyond that...it is tough..and still scary, but I am learning

Can relate to your view as it is a fact of life most in our society see it there duty to judge and punish others. What I have found is the biggest perpetrators of this are usually acting out of fear of their own indiscretions being discovered, or are jealous of the person who is brave enough to say 'this is me and I refuse to apologise or try to fit into your square'. It is a very confronting to many who long to be themselves but are held back by their own fears.

I spent a lot of my life living a few personalities, each one to suit the comfort zone of that set of people I was associated with. It became confusing to say the least, and extremely tiring. Think one of the things that made me see there was another way was the line in 'Strictly Ballroom' - 'to live your life in fear is to only live half a life'. I was already on the path to detangling my life and various personas, and this helped me realise it was imperative for my own peace of mind. Guess these are some of the pluses associated with growing older and hopefully wiser. I also think aging, and becoming a grandmother, have made me reevaluate what really matters and what doesn't as difficult as it may be at times.

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

Another bump.

Catalina

 

[the captians wench]

Would you believe spankings is at the top of that list? Well I guess not so much spankings as all out beatings. I was pretty open minded about spankings, but until I got a full beating I was very timid about it. And I never thought that I'd enjoy being beaten until I cry but I find it very cleansing now.

that and clothes pegs.

 

[FurryFury]

Spanking and anal sex.

Fury

 

[Kailey_86]

Anal sex. i was scared to death the first time i had it but i thoroughly enjoyed the experience. i have to be in the right mood for it though.

 

[dirty_plumber]

Me...I Like just about anything and am willing to try just about all.
My wife ,on the other hand, cried the first time i fucked her ass. Now she spreads it for me, begs, and takes it like a porn star.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Me...I Like just about anything and am willing to try just about all.
My wife ,on the other hand, cried the first time i fucked her ass. Now she spreads it for me, begs, and takes it like a porn star.

LOL, yes, but have you ever been on the receiving end...perhaps that might make a difference?

Catalina

 

[FurryFury]

LOL, yes, but have you ever been on the receiving end...perhaps that might make a difference?

Catalina

LOL!

I second that.

Cat, who is in the heart shaped picture in your sig? You and F?

Fury

 

[catalina_francisco]

Cat, who is in the heart shaped picture in your sig? You and F?

Fury

Yes, was our wedding day....didn't have access to a good digital so it isn't the best clarity, but still a great memory.

Catalina

 

[FurryFury]

Yes, was our wedding day....didn't have access to a good digital so it isn't the best clarity, but still a great memory.

Catalina

It's lovely!

*smiles*

Fury

 

[h_i_s]

What is something you thought you'd hate 'til you tried it?

watersports ...

i never had an issue with picturing myself enjoying watersports.
Then one day.... my fantasy suddenly turned into reality. It ended up with me as the property of an Owner, who [as far as watersports are concerned], believes firmly in the rule that it is always better to GIVE than to receive.

 

[h_i_s]

Another bump.

Catalina

Bump? This is one of the biggest bumps i have seen [or noticed?].
... didn't realize it was a bump on a thread for which the last post was over 4 years ago, until after i'd posted my reply and just wanted to note that this was a ...

BIG BUMP.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Bump? This is one of the biggest bumps i have seen [or noticed?].
... didn't realize it was a bump on a thread for which the last post was over 4 years ago, until after i'd posted my reply and just wanted to note that this was a ...

BIG BUMP.

LOL, was about to PM you and see where you have been hiding!! Don't have to now!!

Catalina

 

[ImmortaleAmante]

I can't really say that there was anything i thought i would hate. My sexual activities has been quite explorative since they first began and have always involved some form of BDSM. However there where things i did not find appealing at first such as anal.

 

[Sprinkles22]

I hated canes ... I was absolutely terrified of them. I was scared of being cut badly and bleeding. I'd never had any experience with canes and I based my opinion solely on internet video clips and images I'd seen.

This summer, He felt I needed to see for myself that caning, just like every other BDSM practice, can be done in moderation and every caning is NOT a severe beating. Sure, I accepted that with all other practices ... but I was terrified of caning.

Now, altho it's not high on my list of likes, I am not so scared of the cane. He has used a thin carbon fiber cane, known as the Wicked Wand by it's manufacturer, and He has used a 6 strand broom cane, made of delrin. Really, they weren't that bad. The leather strap has left me with many more marks, and He uses that often!

 

[swizzle]

I remember saying when I was 16 how much I despised oral sex, how degrading it would be to have a man cum on your face, that it was simply 'gross' and now, I simply adore it.

Society and religion places so many boundaries on what is normal and allowable. Mostly I believe we are brainwashed and it is not until we are at a level of maturity or stage in life that we can move on, and decide to make up our own minds, and explore based on pleasurable outcome.

I was always anti-ass; anything ass, whether it be rimming, penetration, hell, even someone looking at my ass! Once exploring such things, completely different mindset. Like they always say; don't knock it until you try it!

 

[trojan_man_co]

wow big bump indeed.. i like this one cat thanks for the bump...

personally my biggest thing i never thought id like was being submissive..
ive always been dominant... but when i get into my submissive side its like a whole new exciting fun world... and ive now turned from dom to switch. i still am more dom than not, but i do have that side of me that loves to just let go on occasion...

other than that receiving anal play... used to be a big limit with me until i was broken of that habit... and by broken i mean eyes opened

spanking would be the other one... giveing or receiving... i always was taught it was punishment never pleasure so it took me a while to fully appreciate it...

 

[Blushing Bottom]

My biggest fear...breath play.

...and then one afternoon He had my head dangling off the side of the bed shoving his cock down my throat and I was able for the first time to swallow almost all of him causing his balls to occlude my nose. Now unable to breath at all, his beautiful cock filling my throat and his balls laying heavily on my nose, I panicked at first raising my hands up to push him away.

He quickly swatted them away pushing his cock in deeper and saying "I'll tie those down if I have to." My panic deepened at that point but I knew if I didn't do as I was told I would be punished severely as that is the only thing he punishes for, disregard for his wishes. I struggled to keep my hands down but the urge was so great. What seemed like hours when in fact only seconds passed and my head started to swim in a heady sort of way and it was then I felt my juices oozing out and down my thighs and knew then and there, I was hooked.

When we talked about it afterward I told him I had hated it at first but once I had lost my senses probably due to lack of oxygen I began to enjoy it and would be willing to explore other forms of breath play. So far to date we have only repeated the scenario I just related but he has with each session increased the length of time he keeps me gasping for air.

Soon we'll move to other things and I am frightened but excited at the same time.

Onward

d

 

[minx1]

I think naked pictures (of myself ) are something that I have always held as something that was beyond me. Mostly because of fear, scandal, etc. I have a job that depends heavily upon my image and my ability to represent a department and in turn an institution...so...any nudie pics pose a great risk. I am now learning how to gently move beyond that...it is tough..and still scary, but I am learning

I'm with you on this one ID, i'm in a very similar position. Initially I would appear on cam for my Master, but only bits of me at a time *giggle* and never my face. That changed a long time ago now, I guess as I got to know him better and the trust built between us. Also I think the thought of it was actually far worse than appearing...I'm also not a natural exhibitionist.
These days I enjoy it and the stage I have reached and will even ask to appear to Him.

I still am yet to appear 'fully', though now that is more to do with my own insecurities about my body rather than fear of something being seen in the public arena. Its been a limit of mine for a while, but one that I hope to be able to overcome very soon.

 

[Nerida]

Definitely pics and webcam. I thought I would HATE it. I still feel uncomfortable and ugly when I do it but I will do it.

The other big surprise was that I actually liked anal. I was always very afraid of it.

 

[Stegral]

my 2 cents...

Pictures being taken.

I have since had pics taken after an extremely intense session AT MY REQUEST & by someone OTHER than Him.
He had to go & find someone at the playparty with a camera.
He KNEW one of my hard limits was photo's, so he never brought his camera.

Sceneing publicly

I never, ever, ever thought I could actually play in an area where others would know what was going on.
I am extremely private & very shy in real time, so to play, even semi private, is a push for me & takes some overcoming to get over that "someone COULD walk in on this" even though everyone respects closed doors.
Even in the "Play space" our group has, I still ask the door be closed when we play.

Spanking

This has always been a very hard limit & will continue to be worked on.
*K* is a very patient play partner & JUST intro'd a few LIGHT spanks to my butt during a play session as we had talked about doing to try & help me "reassociate" the spanks when intermingled with pleasureful play as He LOVES to spank. Right now ANY sudden sharp, thuddy or stingy puts me into panic mode & normally gets an instant RED safeword, but when He planted those few short swats to my ass during the wheels & such it brought up a yellowish green (scarey but continue with caution) rather than a red....
He chose to go back to the sensory play for a bit & then extra aftercare, rather than push & possibly backslide any progress.
*K* is amazing for me, I am sooo glad we connected

 

[Sprinkles22]

My biggest fear...breath play.

...and then one afternoon He had my head dangling off the side of the bed shoving his cock down my throat and I was able for the first time to swallow almost all of him causing his balls to occlude my nose. Now unable to breath at all, his beautiful cock filling my throat and his balls laying heavily on my nose, I panicked at first raising my hands up to push him away.

He quickly swatted them away pushing his cock in deeper and saying "I'll tie those down if I have to." My panic deepened at that point but I knew if I didn't do as I was told I would be punished severely as that is the only thing he punishes for, disregard for his wishes. I struggled to keep my hands down but the urge was so great. What seemed like hours when in fact only seconds passed and my head started to swim in a heady sort of way and it was then I felt my juices oozing out and down my thighs and knew then and there, I was hooked.

When we talked about it afterward I told him I had hated it at first but once I had lost my senses probably due to lack of oxygen I began to enjoy it and would be willing to explore other forms of breath play. So far to date we have only repeated the scenario I just related but he has with each session increased the length of time he keeps me gasping for air.

Soon we'll move to other things and I am frightened but excited at the same time.

Onward

d

I must agree with you 100% on this, BB, altho it's amost terrifying to have your breath restricted in this way, there is something so damn erotic about having his cock buried in your throat and your nose occluded.

The first time it happened to me was completely unexpected, but I know now he had planned it. Like you, my arms were flailing, trying to push him away so I could regain oxygen. But his words, "I control the breaths you take" lit a fire in me from that moment on.

I continue to panic briefly each time I realize his intentions. Somehow that panic feeds both our needs, his to control and mine to submit, even in fear.

 

[Sprinkles22]

Definitely pics and webcam. I thought I would HATE it. I still feel uncomfortable and ugly when I do it but I will do it.

The other big surprise was that I actually liked anal. I was always very afraid of it.

I can relate, Nerida!

I don't mind pictures, so long as they're not full body shots. Being able to crop and edit is wonderful I like my face; I think it's cute enough. I'd never win any beauty pageants, but I'm not horrible either. My *body* on the other hand is truly disgusting, IMO. ICK!!

Webcam for me is a double edged sword .... altho I hate seeing myself, I love seeing him. If I want ... then I have to give .... *LOL*

In the fall, he approached a limit of mine ... and of course, He got His way! Video-camera!! Yes, I have been immortalized on video cassette .... He made a porn star out of me I'm still rebelling against it some ... I refuse to watch it.

 

[Nerida]

2 babies later, I am so disgusted with how I look that I never thought I would be able to send anyone a pic. I have gotten to the point where I can send pics of my breasts (they are a 36 DD so they are a constant source of amusement for most vanilla boys), and pussy but never ever a full body shot. And you are SO right about the double edged sword that is the webcam.

 

[Yasashii_Kaze]

Anal sex. I used to state emphatically I would NEVER do it. Ironically enough, my first was a total dick and initiated me in anal by ramming it in without lube or foreplay. I remember thinking, "Should I really be this turned on by the pain?"