What is something you thought you'd hate 'til you tried it?

[PreggoHottie]

Anything anal. We're just beginning to explore this now, and it is WONDERFUL.

 

[Asslicker89]

something you thought you'd hate 'til you tried it?

The rose of Sharon, and the lily of the valley.

 

[slavegem]

I haven't been on Lit in a while. I saw this post and had to reply. The two limits that i had in the beginning were: 1.) Fireplay I was so afraid of fire, and i still am but.....Master and i went to a playparty with a local group and were able to watch many things going on and one of them was fireplay. i was so entranced watching it being done to another submissive that i don't even know what else was going on in the room at the time. It was so erotic and scarey at the same time that i wanted to try it and we did and it is part of the lifestyle for us now. Now i crave fireplay, but i am still afraid of fire...go figure. 2.) Needle play this was also something that we were able to observe at a playparty. It also was very erotic and i wanted to try it. We did experiment with it, but i still am not very interested in pursuing it any further. My best advice is that if you are determined not to try somehthing, at least watch it being done to someone else..if is still doesn't arouse you, then it is not for you, but if it does arouse you, then you should at least try it once...ya never know

 

[ungenderless]

Cuming on my lovers. I hate my own cum, which probably has alot to do with me being TG, and would never let my spouse swallow and would always have a towel nearby to quickly clean up any mess that occured.

But, both my spouse and our girlfriend expressed that they enjoyed it when I came on them. It was difficult to adjust to at first; I felt really guilty, like I was degrading them. But once I got in the mindset that they were telling me to do it and that I needed to obey them, it became much easier. Now I look forward to it cos it makes them happy.

 

[hotel_guy]

receiving a strapon

 

[AvaAdore]

I never thought I would enjoy topping. I never really thought about it at all.

I think I got over my awkwardness of it and I enjoy it quite a lot!

 

[Rox_shybutcurious]

Captainswench mentioned a tack bra a while ago that had me curious, although very wary that I’d actually like it at all. But I got some encouragement from someone here so decided to go ahead and try it.

It was great. Way better than I even thought it could be, until I tried it with my breasts bound (using hair bands of all things… lol) That was amazing…. like instant arousal. It’s definitely becoming a permanent part of my toy bag. (as are the hair bands)

 

[jamie89]

jamie89

Having gone from, master, to slave and switchable. To trying CD, and looking good, from MX. to TV slave. I can yet let a MX or MST leave me unescapable bound, outside. to wait. And then once, hopefully released. Do the same to them.... But maybe somday. ENJOY ALL..J

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Having gone from, master, to slave and switchable. To trying CD, and looking good, from MX. to TV slave. I can yet let a MX or MST leave me unescapable bound, outside. to wait. And then once, hopefully released. Do the same to them.... But maybe somday. ENJOY ALL..J

huh? sorry i'm confused as heck..

for me? honestly, clothespins scared the crap out of me..and then he used them on me, and now..well now i crave them....i've not had much real time experience so that's all i could come up with LOL.i'm sure there will be more

 

[TheDivineMsM]

Piss play....
Is probably the one that stands out....
I really had to rectify within my own mind that it was fucking gross...LOL
I had lengthy conversations with a Dom who helped me reframe the idea in a semi perm, marking, not just that I was pissing on my sub, didnt make sense to me why one would do that, even for humiliation purposes.
So when I struck upon the oh its an invisible marking that any animal would recognize, well I was the whizzing queen ...
Even strapped a sub down to a table in a hotel, and marked my property...
Now it is not a drive for me, but when one special sub does come along and we are at the god i really really like you, but hey we are not to the collaring you stage...I will whizz, and mark my property!

 

[euphor1a]

Piss play....
Is probably the one that stands out....
I really had to rectify within my own mind that it was fucking gross...LOL
I had lengthy conversations with a Dom who helped me reframe the idea in a semi perm, marking, not just that I was pissing on my sub, didnt make sense to me why one would do that, even for humiliation purposes.
So when I struck upon the oh its an invisible marking that any animal would recognize, well I was the whizzing queen ...
Even strapped a sub down to a table in a hotel, and marked my property...
Now it is not a drive for me, but when one special sub does come along and we are at the god i really really like you, but hey we are not to the collaring you stage...I will whizz, and mark my property!

I would be honored for you to mark me as your property.
Of course, you already know this.

 

[liberatedslave]

Definitely photos.

I always had the nagging "but what if we break up and you hate me and they end up all over the net?" BDSM photos are even more scary in this respect because some of my friends and rellies would really learn something new about me!

Added to that, my Sir is a total whizzkid with computers because he works with them daily

We have talked about photos and even about filming ourselves and I know that he will do this in the not too distant future, I'm just going to have to get used to the idea. I was surprised to realise how much I do trust him. That sounds like a backhanded compliment I guess but I was shocked that my initial reaction wasn't "NO FUCKING WAY! ... um... Sir." which has got me into trouble before now

Another thing we're working on that I can't get the hang of is deepthroat. He has successfully entered my throat on a couple of occasions now but it always makes me gag uncontrollably until he pulls out. I am trying to be more self controlled though and I wasn't as scared of the discomfort and inability to breathe as I thought I would be. He has had to pin my hands though and I wish I could master myself better.

 

[elizabeth22673]

being spanked. and now i LOVE it


(hi all, kind of new here) hugs

 

[goodguy2nondfuk]

Genital constriction...mine! Has turned out to be quite enjoyable!

 

[elizabeth22673]

swinging.....my god i wish i started years ago *blushing*

 

[ReindeerFlotilla]

She was right, it's great, i admit it

I never expected i'd end up on the recieving end of a partner's dildo. It's amazingly motivational as a plan when it came down to her becoming more comfortable with recieving anal if she could demonstrate on me what she liked and didn't like, so that i would be more aware of how it felt to her. It was a little strange at first, but she was instructively thorough and slow, getting more vigorous as i relaxed around the new feeling. Not only the added thrill of her getting all eager and glassy-eyed watching the way each thrust makes things throb and bounce, but the way it felt to be penetrated and filled, the slick friction and pressure of it inside...all added up with the excitement already in the moment to a surprisingly long and drawn-out climax. We've experimented more over time and it turns out that her interest in anal was enough to get me to try it too, and since then, her penetrating me has become such a fond activity that we've even made eachother little silly gifts like lube samples and a postitnote about whose turn it is tonight. I would have to insist that some of the best things in sex are acquired tastes, and while i didn't like coffee much on the first taste, i adore it now. So go ahead, order that intimidatingly italian dry cappucino, see if it grows on you.

 

[wouldloveto]

Knife play

As inexperienced as I am, the one time I had the exquisite opportunity to be on the bottom my experienced top ran that nasty razor sharp knife all over my member and balls. It scared the hell out of me, but I found it quite erotic.

 

[master_xander]

I was scared of my own ass

I discovered I enjoy anal play, I thought for some reason that made me less dominant, but it only matters how you play hehe

 

[GloriaBrown]

Anal. LUV. IT.

 

[Stiffy Says...]

Hmm so many things...here's the top three in level of surprise

having my gf put lipstick on me

sex during menstruation

waterworks during sex

 

[BiBunny]

Serving as a urinal.

Always thought I'd hate it. I'm not known for my strong stomach, for one thing. But it surprised me how not bad it really was.

The greatest part of it now, though, is when my female friends are sitting around, drinking, and talking about how they dislike beer because "it tastes like piss," I can say, "No, actually, piss is better."

 

[Dreamliner]

Piss play. A partner was keen so explored it. Didn't like it.

Interestingly though I do like sitting in the bathroom with a partner while she urinates. It is good to keep the gradient between me and the partner. I also enjoy having her hold my penis while I have a piss.

 

[Sassysubb2]

Being spanked to the point of involuntary tears. Obviously this isn't the kind of thing you can plan, because it's all about your emotions at the time. The one time this happened to me, it took me completely by surprise. I was accustomed to physical surrender, but had always managed to hold back from total emotional surrender. Scared of losing control, or of being "undignified", or something!

Now I know how rare and beautiful it is to find a partner who senses when it is okay to push you just a little bit farther.....

 

[liberatedslave]

Being spanked to the point of involuntary tears. Obviously this isn't the kind of thing you can plan, because it's all about your emotions at the time. The one time this happened to me, it took me completely by surprise. I was accustomed to physical surrender, but had always managed to hold back from total emotional surrender. Scared of losing control, or of being "undignified", or something!

Now I know how rare and beautiful it is to find a partner who senses when it is okay to push you just a little bit farther.....

Yeah, I can relate to this one. Found it such a release because I very rarely cry. Once I started though, I couldn't stop for ages, even though I began to get embarrassed.

 

[wickedlady31]

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Being spanked, nipples bitten and twisted, having hair pulled and ass sex.....